If you’re here looking for movies with a lot of sex, you’re not looking for subtle glances and long-winded metaphors about love.

You’re looking for real movies with real actors having really hot sex, not porn, but not far off either. The kind of movies that make her press her thighs together and make him shift uncomfortably on the couch.

And guess what? That’s valid. Science says watching sexual content together can build arousal, deepen intimacy, and activate the brain’s pleasure circuits, especially when there’s emotional context or forbidden dynamics. 📚 Source: Janssen et al., 2000, The psychophysiology of sexual arousal

So whether you’re watching alone for a steamy night in, or together to spice things up before you do the things, this is your ultimate guide to the sexiest movies ever made, all curated by genre so you can pick your fantasy.

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Movies with a Lot of Sex: What This List Really Offers

This isn’t just a list of films with a kiss here and a moan there. These are movies where the sex is explicit, central to the story, and hot enough to make you pause and rewind. From full-frontal nudity to simulated (and unsimulated) sex scenes, every film here offers something more, a visual, arousing, and deeply stimulating experience.

Whether you’re watching with a partner to get in the mood, or solo for a very specific kind of night, these movies go way beyond innuendo. They’re erotic, artistic, filthy, intense, and sometimes, all of the above.

Visually Erotic Romantic Films That’ll Get You Seriously Turned On

If you’re in the mood for movies with love, chemistry, and actual plots, but also want steamy sex scenes, full frontal, and the kind of moaning that echoes through walls, these are for you. Think romantic stories wrapped in pure lust. [Read: 69 Best & Most Romantic Movies That Are a Must-Watch]

1. Nymphomaniac (2013)

Lars von Trier’s two-part film is as explicit as mainstream cinema gets. Charlotte Gainsbourg plays a woman recounting her life as a self-diagnosed nymphomaniac, cue real sex scenes, close-ups, and everything from threesomes to BDSM. It’s not porn… but it kind of is.

2. Love (2015)

Gaspar Noé’s erotic drama features unsimulated sex, including 3-ways, ejaculation on screen, and some of the most beautifully shot sex you’ll ever see. It’s a deeply horny film disguised as a romantic tragedy.

3. Lie with Me (2005)

This Canadian cult film follows a woman who uses sex to escape her emotions, and it’s filled with long, graphic sex scenes that’ll make you feel like you’re intruding (in a good way). Real chemistry, real heat.

4. Y Tu Mamá También (2001)

This road trip film delivers both emotional vulnerability and a threesome scene that’s still one of the hottest on-screen moments ever. Gael García Bernal and Diego Luna bring the bisexual chaos.

5. Sex and Lucia (2001)

The storytelling is non-linear, the sex is anything but. This Spanish film is packed with sun-drenched eroticism, passion, and plenty of beautifully filmed naked bodies. Wildly underrated and visually intoxicating.

6. The Dreamers (2003)

Set in 1968 Paris, this film follows an American student who gets entangled in the incestuous erotic world of French twins. There’s nudity, sex, and forbidden everything, this is peak art-house arousal.

7. Original Sin (2001)

Angelina Jolie and Antonio Banderas go absolutely feral for each other in this erotic thriller. The sex scenes are slow, deliberate, and ridiculously steamy, with one involving candle wax you won’t forget.

8. Eyes Wide Shut (1999)

Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman get lost in jealousy, orgies, and elite sex cults in Stanley Kubrick’s final film. It’s slow-burn eroticism with real moaning, masked nudity, and enough psychological tension to fuel fantasies for days. [Read: Shocking Sex Cults! Crazy Facts That You Need to Know]

9. 9½ Weeks (1986)

This one’s pure 80s erotica. Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke explore dom/sub dynamics, food play, and manipulation in scenes that feel like softcore wrapped in high fashion.

10. Unfaithful (2002)

Diane Lane cheats on her boring husband with a hot French man and the staircase scene alone will make you need a moment. Lust, guilt, and intense chemistry explode every time they touch. [Read: Cheating Husband: 40 Sneaky Signs Your Man is Unfaithful or Trying to Cheat]

11. The Lover (1992)

Based on the controversial novel, this film follows a teenage girl who begins a passionate affair with an older Chinese man in colonial Vietnam. Taboo, intimate, and beautifully explicit.

12. Bound (1996)

Before The Matrix, the Wachowskis gave us this lesbian neo-noir where Gina Gershon and Jennifer Tilly get VERY handsy while plotting a mob heist. The sex scene? Unforgettable.

13. Room in Rome (2010)

Two women spend one night together in a Rome hotel, and their clothes are off within the first 10 minutes. It’s erotic, artsy, and surprisingly intimate.

14. The Swimming Pool (2003)

Set in the south of France, this thriller doubles as erotica with voyeurism, affairs, and sun-soaked naked swims. There’s mystery, but also boobs. Lots of boobs.

15. Crash (1996)

No, not the Oscar one. This David Cronenberg film is about people who get off on car crashes. It’s strange, cold, and weirdly sexual, perfect if you’re into twisted desire. [Read: What Makes a Man Desire a Woman Sexually: The 35 Not-So-Obvious Things]

Kinky, BDSM & Power Play Fantasies

These are the movies where pleasure meets punishment, submission turns sensual, and control becomes the biggest turn-on of all. Whether it’s leather whips, psychological mind games, or just someone being told to get on their knees, this is the genre that lives to explore the edge of desire. [Read: The Psychology of Ignoring Someone: Why We Do It & Ways to Fix It]

1. Secretary (2002)

The OG of mainstream kink films. Maggie Gyllenhaal plays a submissive secretary to James Spader’s emotionally reserved (but extremely controlling) lawyer. There are spankings, typed letters with red marks, and the kind of dom/sub chemistry that’ll leave you breathless. [Read: 45 Secrets to Control Your Emotions, the Psychology & Steps to Master It]

2. 50 Shades of Grey (2015)

Say what you want, but this trilogy brought BDSM into the mainstream, and there’s a reason it blew up. The Red Room scenes, blindfolds, silk ties, and ice cube play? Visually erotic, especially for beginners craving that “good girl gets punished” fantasy.

3. The Duke of Burgundy (2014)

An art-house masterpiece about two women in a D/s relationship. It’s full of role-play, obsession, and the elegant aesthetic of kink. No men, no clichés, just sensual female dominance and psychological power play done right. [Read: 220+ Best Rizz Lines for Guys & Girls That Psychologically Hit & Actually Work]

4. Crash (1996)

Yes, it’s back again, but this film deserves another shoutout under kink because it explores symphorophilia (sexual arousal from accidents). This is deep, twisted, and cold as steel. Unsettling? Yes. But totally filthy.

5. The Night Porter (1974)

A Holocaust survivor rekindles a sadomasochistic relationship with the SS officer who abused her. This one is dark, disturbing, and deeply psychosexual. Viewer discretion? Very advised. But it’s kink in its rawest, most taboo form. [Read: Am I In An Abusive Relationship? 66 Early Signs, Effects & Ways to Get Out]

6. Romance (1999)

This French film doesn’t hold back. The main character dives into one sexual experience after another, from BDSM to public sex, and it’s all shown on-screen, in full-frontal glory. Hardcore, artistic, and extremely arousing.

7. The Handmaiden (2016)

There’s rope play, manipulation, oral sex in a library, and sex scenes that are so gorgeously shot they feel like artwork. This Korean psychological thriller is a lesbian love story with layers of deceit, and it’s soaked in erotic tension. [Read: Lesbian Love – What it’s Really Like to Date a Woman]

8. La Pianiste (2001)

This Austrian drama is a chilling, haunting portrayal of sexual repression and brutal kink. The main character is a piano teacher with a secret stash of porn and razor blades. When she finds a willing submissive, things get uncomfortable, and undeniably arousing.

9. Eyes Wide Shut (1999)

It’s making a second appearance here because the masked orgy scenes, slow seduction, and sexual power dynamics between Tom and Nicole definitely qualify as kink-fantasy territory. [Read: Male Sexual Fantasies: 16 Top Dirty Desires Every Guy Has In Mind]

10. Love in the Time of Civil War (2014)

A raw French Canadian film about male prostitution, drug addiction, and violent sex. It’s bleak, sweaty, and full of rough, dominant encounters that feel as real as they are explicit.

11. The Pet (2006)

This little-known indie film dives into the pet play kink, a woman willingly gives up her rights and becomes her “master’s” human pet. The acting is stiff (pun intended), but the concept is undeniably arousing for the more niche crowd.

12. Q (2011)

A French film that blends emotional storytelling with full-on unsimulated sex, including a scene with a leash and collar in a club. The vibe is “softcore meets S&M” with surprisingly touching undertones.

13. X: Night of Vengeance (2011)

Set in Australia, this thriller follows two escorts over one violent night, filled with rough sex, domination, and moments that blur consent with danger. Sleek, stylish, and sex-charged.

14. The Story of O (1975)

A submissive woman enters a world of elegant degradation, from whippings to blindfolds to gang “training.” It’s an erotic classic that defined cinematic BDSM, and it’s still shockingly explicit for its time.

15. Submission (2019–2020 series)

Okay, it’s technically a TV show, but it’s practically a softcore porn series about BDSM. The plot? Minimal. The visuals? Straight fire. Think: blindfolds, cuffs, threesomes, and seductive female doms.

Erotic Thrillers & Dangerous Attractions

This genre is all about sex that feels risky. Affairs that could ruin lives. Strangers who might be murderers. The sex is hot because it’s dangerous, wrapped in mystery, lies, obsession, and betrayal. These films drip with tension, and the sex scenes are anything but safe.

1. Basic Instinct (1992)

Sharon Stone’s legendary leg-crossing scene set a new bar for erotic thrillers. The sex scenes are raw, intense, and borderline violent, and the entire movie pulses with seduction and psychosexual danger.

2. Fatal Attraction (1987)

Michael Douglas has an affair with Glenn Close, who becomes obsessively unhinged. There’s elevator sex, kitchen sex, and that ‘I will not be ignored’ energy that’s chaotic and strangely arousing.

3. Chloe (2009)

Julianne Moore suspects her husband is cheating, so she hires Amanda Seyfried to seduce him. Things spiral into lesbian tension, emotional confusion, and sex scenes that are tender, manipulative, and undeniably hot. [Read: Emotional Cheating vs Friendship: The Point When a Line is Crossed]

4. Killing Me Softly (2002)

Heather Graham falls for a mysterious mountaineer played by Joseph Fiennes. Their sex is instant, rough, and intense, with plenty of tied hands and unpredictable erotic games.

5. Body of Evidence (1993)

Madonna stars as a woman accused of killing a man during sex. The movie is essentially one long courtroom case wrapped around candle wax, handcuffs, and mirror sex.

6. The Housemaid (2010)

This South Korean erotic thriller features a young housemaid having an affair with her rich, married boss. There’s moaning, manipulation, and one of the most visually stylized sex scenes in Korean cinema.

7. In the Cut (2003)

Meg Ryan ditches her rom-com crown and gets filthy in this psychological thriller with Mark Ruffalo. There’s oral sex, suspense, and gritty, emotionally charged intimacy. [Read: Sexual Intimacy: The Meaning, 20 Signs You’re Losing It & Secrets to Grow It]

8. Wild Things (1998)

A sexy mess of a movie featuring Denise Richards, Neve Campbell, and Matt Dillon. There’s a legendary threesome in a pool, a tangled plot of betrayal, and enough nudity to warrant a double feature.

9. Poison Ivy (1992)

Drew Barrymore plays a seductive teenager who worms her way into a family and seduces the dad. It’s sleazy, forbidden, and filled with sexual tension, especially for fans of the taboo. [Read: Sexual Tension at Work: 36 Lusty Signs of Flirty Coworkers You Can’t Hide]

10. Sleeping Beauty (2011)

This haunting Australian film follows a woman who gets drugged and posed naked while rich men lie beside her. It’s eerie, slow, and disturbing, but the nudity and voyeurism are undeniably erotic.

11. Femme Fatale (2002)

Brian De Palma’s thriller is all about deceit, double-crosses, and a bisexual thief with a taste for manipulation and seduction. The sex scenes are stylish and intense, especially in the opening scene at Cannes.

12. Passion (2012)

A sexy psychological thriller between two ambitious women in a corporate office. Rachel McAdams and Noomi Rapace take power play to a whole new level, with kisses, backstabs, and a very sensual tone throughout.

13. Damage (1992)

Jeremy Irons falls into an obsessive affair with his son’s girlfriend (Juliette Binoche). The sex is primal and secretive, the kind where you know it’s wrong, which only makes it hotter.

14. The Voyeurs (2021)

A couple becomes obsessed with their exhibitionist neighbors. There’s voyeurism, role reversal, and the kind of twisty, sexy plot that’s basically softcore with a plot twist.

15. Sliver (1993)

Sharon Stone again, this time in a high-rise full of surveillance cameras, being watched (and watched having sex) by a creepy-but-hot neighbor. Sleek, voyeuristic, and very, very 90s erotic.

LGBTQ+ Desire on Screen

These movies don’t just include same-sex intimacy, they celebrate it. The sex scenes are emotionally raw, visually arousing, and often soaked in rebellion, freedom, and forbidden attraction. Whether it’s tender or filthy, this genre gives us steamy, queer cinema that turns you on and makes you feel something.

1. Blue Is the Warmest Color (2013)

This Palme d’Or winner is infamous for its lengthy, explicit lesbian sex scenes. But what makes it hot isn’t just the visuals, it’s the chemistry between the actresses. The raw intensity, the moaning, the sweat? Unreal. [Read: 21 Main Types of Lesbians, Their Preferences & Ways to Tell Them Apart]

2. Call Me by Your Name (2017)

The peach scene alone. But also: the long build-up, the whispered dirty talk in secret corners, and that final bedroom scene. It’s slow, sunny, and achingly intimate.

3. God’s Own Country (2017)

Rough, muddy, emotionally closed-off men working on a farm… until one shows up and turns tension into full-blown animalistic sex. A queer Brokeback Mountain, but with more spit and urgency. [Read: Lesbian Bed Death: What It is & How to Bring the Oomph Back in Bed]

4. Stranger by the Lake (2013)

This French thriller is set at a gay cruising lake where real, unsimulated sex is shown on-screen. There’s voyeurism, danger, and murder, but also a ton of graphic, outdoor man-on-man action.

5. Room in Rome (2010)

Two women share a hotel room for a single night and explore each other’s bodies, secrets, and stories. Naked from the first scene. Slow, intimate, and emotionally charged lesbian erotica.

6. Moonlight (2016)

It’s subtle, but the beach handjob scene is emotionally devastating and sexually awakening all at once. Quiet, soft masculinity and tension so thick it’s erotic even without much skin. [Read: Sexual Tension at Work: 36 Lusty Signs of Flirty Coworkers You Can’t Hide]

7. The Blonde One (2019)

An Argentine hidden-gem where a shy guy moves in with a friend… who starts climbing into bed with him at night. There’s confusion, repression, and some of the most tender gay sex scenes you’ll ever watch.

8. Elisa & Marcela (2019)

Based on a true story of two Spanish women who married in secret in 1901. It’s black-and-white, gorgeously shot, and features multiple passionate, skin-on-skin sex scenes.

9. Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019)

Minimalist but achingly sensual. The sex scene is short, but the lead-up is loaded with eye contact, tension, and pure longing. And when it finally happens? Sparks.

10. The Falls (2012)

Two Mormon missionaries fall in love while doing their mission work. The first time they kiss is pure slow-burn, and the sex scene that follows is so tender, it’ll make your heart race.

11. You & I (2014)

A German lesbian coming-of-age story with real-feeling love scenes, experimental visuals, and one particularly graphic bathtub moment that definitely earns its spot here.

12. Weekend (2011)

Two guys hook up for what was supposed to be a one-night stand, but emotional honesty turns the sex raw and real. Every scene is deeply arousing because it feels lived-in and unrehearsed. [Read: 16 Signs to Know if it’ll be a One Night Stand Date]

13. Cocoon (2020)

This German queer teen film includes first kisses, orgasms, and exploratory sex, all through a dreamy, summery lens that makes you remember your first time. [Read: First Kiss Tips: 29 Secrets to Make the First Smooch Sexy & Irresistible]

14. North Sea Texas (2011)

A Belgian film about a shy boy and his best friend who start experimenting. The awkwardness is real, but so is the tension. Think teen angst, but make it horny.

15. Boy Culture (2006)

A stylish gay escort narrates his life of high-end clients and secrets. There are steamy scenes, shower sex, and leather-on-skin hookups that balance sex with just enough storyline. [Read: Shower Sex: 18 Sexy Bathroom Secrets to Get Wet, Make Love & Not Slip]

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Sexy Comedies & Playful Hookups

Not all arousal has to come from brooding intensity or forbidden lust. Sometimes, it’s the flirtatious tension, awkward stripteases, and spontaneous hookups that spark the heat. These sexy comedies bring charm and cheek with a side of visual sex appeal, the kind of movies that get you giggling and grinding.

1. Sex Drive (2008)

A road trip to lose your virginity? Classic. While the premise is goofy, the film delivers on topless scenes, crude but hot moments, and raunchy vibes that toe the line between teen comedy and softcore.

2. Love and Other Drugs (2010)

Jake Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway get very naked, very often. The film balances humor and heartbreak with lots of bed-breaking sex, cheeky banter, and full-body chemistry.

3. American Pie (1999)

The OG of horny teen comedies. It’s not explicit, but it’s all about sex, and there’s something undeniably arousing about how hard every character is trying to get laid. Nadia’s webcam scene? Iconic.

4. No Strings Attached (2011)

Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutcher play friends with benefits who can’t stop catching feelings, or hooking up. There’s a ton of makeout scenes, steamy bed action, and the kind of playful sex that’s light and hot.

5. The To Do List (2013)

A nerdy teen girl sets out to check off every sexual act before college. Aubrey Plaza dives into awkward, hilarious, and surprisingly explicit sexual situations that are both educational and erotic. [Read: 16 of the Most Awful and Hilarous Sexual Encounters]

6. Forgetting Sarah Marshall (2008)

Jason Segel’s full-frontal heartbreak is funny, but it’s the sex scenes (with both Kristen Bell and Mila Kunis) that bring the heat. Also, the Dracula puppet musical? Somehow a turn-on.

7. Superbad (2007)

Another teen classic where the goal is sex, and the journey is pure chaotic horny energy. The whole vibe is teenage testosterone on overdrive, and it delivers on drunken hookups and half-naked chaos.

8. Sleeping with Other People (2015)

Two sex addicts try to be “just friends,” which of course leads to a lot of unresolved tension, dirty talk, and finally, a hookup that’ll make you want to rewind. Witty and seriously hot. [Read: Sex Addict: 30 Subtle Signs You’re Turning Into One & What to Do About It]

9. Good Luck to You, Leo Grande (2022)

Emma Thompson hires a male escort and learns how to actually enjoy sex. It’s smart, sexy, and full of long, intimate scenes where real pleasure takes center stage. Bonus: Leo gets naked. A lot.

10. Zack and Miri Make a Porno (2008)

Two broke roommates decide to make porn together… and accidentally fall in love. The actual filming scenes? Hilarious and raunchy. But their final hookup? Steamy and surprisingly sweet.

11. About Last Night (2014)

This remake delivers far more sexy content than the original, with Kevin Hart and Regina Hall giving us loud, sweaty, wall-banging hookups that make for wildly entertaining foreplay.

12. EuroTrip (2004)

This chaotic romp across Europe includes a nude beach, dominatrix clubs, and a lot of topless cameos. It’s not high art, but it’s definitely boner-friendly if you’re in the mood for something ridiculous.

13. The Overnight (2015)

A couple’s innocent dinner date with their new neighbors turns into a swinging, sexually-charged night full of surprises. There’s nudity, awkward flirting, and a slow descent into softcore territory. [Read: Swingers Lifestyle: 61 Secrets & Tips to Enter the Erotic World of Swinging]

14. Friends with Benefits (2011)

Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis keep it “casual,” which translates to lots of well-lit, hot, playful sex scenes with great bodies and chemistry. Easily one of the sexiest rom-coms of the 2010s. [Read: 31 Signs a Friend with Benefits is Falling in Love with You & Catching Feelings]

15. Cruel Intentions (1999)

Dark comedy meets forbidden pleasure. The sexual games between Ryan Phillippe, Sarah Michelle Gellar, and Selma Blair? Iconic. That kiss? A thousand replays. And don’t get us started on the cello scene.

Art-House, Indie & Emotionally Raw Sex

This is for the highbrow horn dogs. The cinephiles who love a good camera angle and a wet moan. These films get real, emotionally and sexually. Expect full-frontal nudity, unsimulated sex, and raw vulnerability. Nothing is sugar-coated here, it’s all sweat, tears, orgasms, and feelings.

1. 9 Songs (2004)

This British film caused a scandal for its real, unsimulated sex scenes. It’s basically a relationship told through music performances and extremely raw sex, including actual oral and penetration on screen.

2. Shortbus (2006)

This indie gem blends explicit unsimulated sex with deeply personal storytelling. Orgies, emotional breakdowns, male-on-male oral, and an actual singing orgasm, it’s beautifully weird and arousing.

3. Bang Gang: A Modern Love Story (2015)

A group of bored French teens host a series of hedonistic orgies while grappling with emotional detachment. Visually gorgeous and disturbingly sexy, it’s Gen Z softcore chaos with feelings. [Read: Emotional Detachment Disorder: 43 Symptoms & How It Affects Relationships]

4. Anatomy of Hell (2004)

Directed by porn legend Catherine Breillat, this film explores a man who agrees to “watch” a woman in isolation over four nights. Expect menstrual blood, masturbation, full nudity, and some real deep psychosexual introspection.

5. Intimacy (2001)

Two strangers meet weekly for anonymous sex. The film explores what happens when one of them wants more. The sex? Unsimulated and emotionally charged. The drama? Painfully real.

6. Blue Valentine (2010)

Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams have emotionally destructive sex scenes that feel like peeking into a real couple’s bedroom. Their raw hotel room scene is soaked in regret, lust, and unresolved pain.

7. Jeune et Jolie (2013)

A 17-year-old girl in Paris starts secretly working as a high-end escort. It’s voyeuristic, emotionally detached, and sexually charged. The scenes are quiet, but linger in your body like aftershocks. [Read: 32 Truths to Emotionally Detach From Someone & Not Feel Hurt Anymore]

8. Desire (2011)

This French indie is all about the conversations people have before and after sex. That said, the sex is still VERY present, including full nudity, realistic dirty talk, and lots of tasteful moaning.

9. Sleeping Beauty (2011)

Making another appearance for its quiet horror and voyeuristic nudity. A college student is paid to be unconscious while rich men lie beside her, it’s unnerving, surreal, and oddly erotic.

10. The Tribe (2014)

A Ukrainian film with no spoken dialogue, only sign language, but the sex scenes are real, uncomfortably raw, and filmed with no cuts. It’s brutal, intense, and unforgettable.

11. Love Me (2000)

A lesser-known indie where a couple’s sex addiction and co-dependence are on full display. Includes a lot of nudity, messy entanglements, and unfiltered sexual frustration. [Read: I Need Sex! The Signs Your High Libido Has Become Sexual Addiction]

12. L’Amant Double (2017)

A woman falls for her psychotherapist… and then his identical twin. There are threesomes, S&M, pegging, and hallucinations, all wrapped in sleek, erotic French cinema style. [Read: Pegging: How to Try It, 48 Tips, Myths & the Best Strap On Sex Positions]

13. All About Anna (2005)

One of the rare hardcore films with plot, acting, and emotional context. Produced by Lars von Trier’s studio, this film features real sex, full penetration, and actual erotic storytelling.

14. Below Her Mouth (2016)

Shot entirely by a female crew, this Canadian film is raw lesbian lust from the jump. The sex scenes are long, intimate, explicit, and feature so much tongue and moaning.

15. Klip (2012)

A Serbian film about a teen girl recording her sex life on her phone. It’s gritty, NSFW as hell, and deeply disturbing, but also an intense, erotic experience for those who want their sex mixed with chaos.

Historical & Period-Erotica with a Twist

Forget what you know about corsets and manners, these period pieces are dripping in forbidden sex, secret trysts, and power-fueled desire. The slow burn of propriety clashing with lust? It’s foreplay in itself. And yes, many of these films go all the way, with rich visuals and surprisingly raw sex.

1. The Favorite (2018)

This royal lesbian love triangle between Queen Anne, Sarah Churchill, and Abigail Hill is a chaotic mix of political scheming, aggressive finger-banging, and emotional manipulation. It’s historically horny. [Read: Love Triangle: Why It’s Sexy, Fun, Painful & Complicated All At Once]

2. Dangerous Liaisons (1988)

Glenn Close and John Malkovich play twisted French aristocrats who seduce and destroy everyone in their path. There’s dirty talk, forbidden affairs, and sexual games so intricate it’s like 18th-century BDSM.

3. The Libertine (2004)

Johnny Depp plays a debauched poet who drinks, drugs, and screws his way through Restoration-era London. It’s filthy, sweaty, and full of candlelit, wild-eyed sex.

4. Lady Chatterley’s Lover (2022)

The Netflix version is softcore heaven. Lady Chatterley finds freedom between the thighs of her gamekeeper. The sex scenes are long, slow, wet, and set in nature. Erotic and romantic in equal measure.

5. Quills (2000)

Inspired by the Marquis de Sade, this one’s full of repressed sexuality, insane asylum roleplay, and intellectual filth. Geoffrey Rush gets dirty with both his words and his fantasies.

6. A Royal Affair (2012)

This Danish historical drama has all the makings of forbidden sex: a queen, her physician, a political rebellion, and lots of erotic tension. Also, Mads Mikkelsen. Enough said.

7. The Duchess (2008)

Keira Knightley plays a woman trapped in a loveless marriage who seeks passionate escape with a politician. It’s all bustles, heavy breathing, and suppressed orgasms. Costumed sex, but make it emotionally desperate.

8. Marie Antoinette (2006)

More teasing than full-blown sex, but the decadence is undeniable. Sofia Coppola gives us playful seduction, lace stockings, and morning-after makeup in Versailles, and somehow it all feels naughty.

9. Belle de Jour (1967)

A bored housewife starts moonlighting as a high-class escort in 1960s Paris. Dream sequences, kink fantasies, and erotic minimalism make this a slow-burn staple of vintage sex cinema.

10. The Last Mistress (2007)

Asia Argento plays a Spanish courtesan in 19th-century France, seducing a young aristocrat before his wedding. The sex is feral, jealous, and possessive, with real “I’ll ruin your life” energy.

11. Tulip Fever (2017)

A young wife and her portrait painter start a secret affair during the Dutch tulip boom. It’s visually stunning, totally forbidden, and features multiple behind-the-curtain trysts.

12. Effie Gray (2014)

While this one is more about sexual repression, the quiet ache of what isn’t happening will drive you wild. When Effie finally finds a man who wants her? The tension is explosive.

13. Moll Flanders (1996)

Robin Wright plays a 17th-century orphan turned courtesan. Expect full-frontal sex, emotional breakdowns, and a powerful undercurrent of female sexual survival.

14. Becoming Jane (2007)

Barely gets past PG-13, but the emotional and romantic build-up between Anne Hathaway’s Jane Austen and her forbidden Irish lover is so thick with longing it feels almost erotic in its restraint.

15. The Other Boleyn Girl (2008)

Natalie Portman and Scarlett Johansson play sisters competing for the king’s favor, and his bed. Lust, betrayal, and royal pregnancy scandals turn Tudor drama into a horny historical mess.

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Fantasy, Supernatural & Sci-Fi Erotica

Welcome to the genre where anything, and anyone, is possible. These films turn up the kink with vampires, clones, AI lovers, shapeshifters, witches, and supernatural beings who break all the rules. If you’ve ever fantasized about sex that transcends time, space, or gravity, this one’s for you.

1. The Hunger (1983)

Catherine Deneuve and Susan Sarandon deliver one of the most iconic vampire lesbian sex scenes in cinema. It’s sensual, gothic, and blood-slicked, eroticism wrapped in eternal hunger.

2. Under the Skin (2013)

Scarlett Johansson plays an alien who seduces and consumes men. Her nude seduction scenes are eerie, hypnotic, and unsettlingly hot. It’s less about pleasure, and more about surrendering to the unknown.

3. Crash and Burn (1990)

Set in a post-apocalyptic world where sex bots and cyber-sex are a norm. The aesthetic is grimy 90s sci-fi but with plenty of erotic synthwave energy and topless android encounters.

4. The Love Witch (2016)

Campy, colorful, and full of retro eroticism, this film follows a witch who uses potions and sex magic to ensnare men. The sex scenes are theatrical and fun, soaked in feminine power and satin lingerie.

5. Species (1995)

Alien femme fatale with a killer libido? Say no more. Natasha Henstridge plays a seductive creature in heat, and the sex scenes before the kills are genuinely arousing.

6. Possessor (2020)

A mind-control assassin who jumps bodies, and experiences sex through them. It’s twisted, body-horror meets lust, with scenes that are raw, gender-fluid, and disturbingly hot.

7. Lust of the Vampire (1957)

One of the first erotic horror films ever made. It’s slow, shadowy, and surprisingly full of vintage sensuality, considering it was decades ahead of its time in blending horror with seduction.

8. Sleeping Beauty (2011)

Yes, again, because this strange, dreamy film feels like an erotic fairy tale turned nightmare. Passed-out princess meets high-paying perverts. It’s cold and clinical, yet visually arousing in its surrealism.

9. Ex Machina (2015)

A lonely programmer falls in love with a lifelike female AI who may be manipulating him. The chemistry between Domhnall Gleeson and Alicia Vikander’s cyborg character is intense, sleek, and scarily seductive.

10. Immortel (Ad Vitam) (2004)

A cult French sci-fi film where gods descend to Earth and demand to breed with humans. It’s weird, philosophical, and loaded with surreal, alien-human eroticism.

11. Splice (2009)

Scientists create a human-animal hybrid and things get… very NSFW. The sex scene is shocking, taboo, and totally WTF, but undeniably erotic in a messed-up, monster-fucker kind of way.

12. The Lure (2015)

Polish horror-musical about two mermaid sisters who come to land to seduce humans. It’s bloodthirsty, kinky, and full of bizarre aquatic eroticism, including naked sirens singing and killing.

13. Hellraiser: Inferno (2000)

Less gore, more kink in this entry. The film explores erotic pain, leather, and supernatural dominance, Cenobite-style. Think BDSM demon dungeon. [Read: 13 Warning Signs to Look Out For on the First Few Dates]

14. The Entity (1982)

Controversial, yes, but the ghost sex scenes in this horror film are visceral and intense. They push into taboo territory that makes your skin crawl… and tingle.

15. Nekromantik (1987)

If you’re into serious fringe territory: necrophilia erotica. Disturbing and underground, but a cult classic in horror-erotica circles. Not for the faint of heart, or stomach.

Cult Classics & Obscure Erotic Cinema

These are the films whispered about in cinephile circles, passed around like forbidden treasure, and worshipped for their unapologetic kink, experimental storytelling, or downright shocking eroticism. They’re not always “good” in the traditional sense, but they’ll leave a mark (probably in more ways than one). [Read: 11 Classic Moves Guys Always Forget to Do on Dates]

1. The Beast (1975)

This infamous French film blends bestiality, dreams, and aristocratic scandal. It’s bizarre, controversial, and features a full-on erotic monster sequence that has to be seen to be believed. Once you see “The Beast,” you can’t unsee it.

2. Caligula (1979)

Funded by Penthouse and starring Malcolm McDowell, this Roman epic features real sex, orgies, and executions, all in one gold-plated mess. It’s indulgent, unhinged, and borderline pornographic with a historical twist.

3. Emmanuelle (1974)

The queen of softcore, this French classic follows a married woman exploring her sexuality in Thailand. The sex scenes are slow, sensual, and super 70s. It launched a whole franchise of erotic films. [Read: 27 Signs a Married Woman is Sexually Attracted & Wants You to Make a Move]

4. In the Realm of the Senses (1976)

Based on a true story, this Japanese film includes unsimulated sex, public masturbation, and an ending that involves, let’s say, scissors and testicles. Intense, disturbing, and erotically unforgettable.

5. Pink Narcissus (1971)

Shot over seven years in a New York apartment, this cult film is a kaleidoscope of homoerotic fantasy. No dialogue, just visual poetry. Think: glitter, bondage, mirrors, and male nudity galore.

6. Sweet Movie (1974)

This absurdist, surreal film features chocolate-covered sex, food play, urination, and revolutionary anarchy. It’s disgusting, erotic, political, and weirdly fascinating, the cinematic equivalent of licking a live wire.

7. Bilitis (1977)

A dreamy coming-of-age lesbian love story from the era of gauzy erotica. Think slow-motion kisses, lots of skin, and soft lighting on young love and older seduction. Very Euro-smut meets poetry.

8. L’Amour (1973)

Andy Warhol-produced and utterly strange. The film plays like an erotic fever dream, wigs, mirrors, and surreal role-play meet stilted dialogue and accidental brilliance.

9. Gandu (2010)

A black-and-white Indian indie film that combines rap, rage, masturbation, and unsimulated oral sex. It’s one of the most punk-rock erotic films ever made, raw and chaotic.

10. Viva (2007)

Set in the 1970s but made in the 2000s, this campy, pastel sex comedy channels vintage Playboy culture. Nudity, orgies, and sexual awakenings are all served with a wink and glittery eyeshadow.

11. The Pillow Book (1996)

A film where Ewan McGregor’s penis gets calligraphy written on it. Art meets kink in this poetic, experimental love story full of skin, ink, and erotic obsession with the human body.

12. Thundercrack! (1975)

A black-and-white horror-sex-comedy cult film where all the guests at a haunted house end up… well, doing everything. Hardcore scenes, weird dialogue, and rubber fetishes galore.

13. The Image (1975)

A quiet literary BDSM film adapted from “The Story of O.” It’s elegant, dominant, submissive, and visually hypnotic, for those into whips, chains, and 70s cinematography. [Read: What to Do When You’ve Sent a Sexy Text to Someone Else]

14. La Bête Humaine (1938)

A more classic and subtle entry, not explicit, but deeply sensual in its noir violence and sexual undercurrent. If you’re into vintage psychological tension, this is where erotic cinema began smoldering.

15. Matador (1986)

Pedro Almodóvar’s twisted tale of a former bullfighter and a femme fatale who’s turned on by murder. There’s blood, lust, and some of the most erotically charged scenes ever filmed under the Spanish sun.

Modern Mainstream Films with Surprising Heat

These aren’t marketed as erotic, but they sneak in a scene (or five) that’ll leave your jaw dropped and your pants a little tighter. These films got big stars, wide releases, and still somehow smuggled in the kind of steam that makes you reach for the remote, or your partner.

1. Gone Girl (2014)

That Neil Patrick Harris scene? Disturbingly hot. Rosamund Pike’s cold, calculated seduction, followed by that ending, proves that even psychological thrillers can pack seriously sexy scenes. [Read: Gone Girl: Suspense, Revenge and Everything in Between]

2. The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (2011)

Rooney Mara’s Lisbeth is both a survivor and a seducer. Her aggressive, unapologetic sex scenes with Daniel Craig are raw, cold, and deeply erotic in their intensity.

3. Titanic (1997)

You knew this was coming. The car scene. The hand on the fogged-up glass. Leonardo DiCaprio’s “I’ll never let go” energy. It’s vanilla, but it works. Every. Single. Time.

4. Black Swan (2010)

Natalie Portman and Mila Kunis’s sex scene is haunting, surreal, and incredibly hot. The tension builds slowly through obsession, and when it breaks, it’s downright feral.

5. Mr. & Mrs. Smith (2005)

Their fight turns into floor sex, and it’s easily one of the hottest scenes in action cinema. The sexual tension was so real, it literally ended marriages (hey Brad, hey Angelina).

6. Basic (2003)

A military thriller that throws in a surprise bisexual threesome scene between Giovanni Ribisi, Taye Diggs, and Roselyn Sanchez. Totally unexpected, and weirdly arousing.

7. Uncut Gems (2019)

Julia Fox in that thong. Adam Sandler getting a sensual surprise while locked in a showroom. It’s grimy, dangerous, and absurdly erotic in all the wrong ways.

8. A Bigger Splash (2015)

Tilda Swinton, Dakota Johnson, and Matthias Schoenaerts on an Italian island. Sexual jealousy, poolside flirtation, and sheer skin exposure create slow-burn erotic chaos. [Read: How to Create Sexual Tension with a Guy Around Him & Over Text]

9. The Counselor (2013)

Cameron Diaz has sex with a windshield. It’s strange. It’s intense. And somehow… it works? The whole film is coated in sexual tension and philosophical dirty talk.

10. Eyes Wide Shut (1999)

Yes, again, this film is everywhere for a reason. It managed to pass as a mainstream drama while being one of the most overtly erotic movies ever released in theaters. [Read: 13 Non-Porn Erotic Movies that Are Sure to Turn You On]

11. Out of Sight (1998)

George Clooney and Jennifer Lopez have a hotel room scene so smooth, it should be illegal. The chemistry is so high you’ll forget you’re watching a crime thriller.

12. Chained (2012)

A psychological horror where the captor/captive dynamics border on disturbing, and yet there’s an undeniable undercurrent of twisted arousal. Hard to watch, hard to look away.

13. Side Effects (2013)

Rooney Mara (again) and Channing Tatum serve up a few super-steamy flashback sex scenes. There’s also a layered bisexual subplot that’s unexpected and hot.

14. The Notebook (2004)

They kiss in the rain, they rip each other’s clothes off, and they redefine what PG-13 sex could look like. It’s tender, frenzied, and emotionally loaded.

15. True Lies (1994)

Jamie Lee Curtis’s impromptu striptease for her husband (Arnold Schwarzenegger, secretly watching through a wiretap)? Instant classic. Clumsy, confident, and unforgettable.

What Makes a Movie Sexually Stimulating?

Sexual stimulation in movies isn’t just about naked bodies or explicit scenes, it’s about how those moments make you feel. A truly sexy movie taps into your emotions, fantasies, and even your psychology. It’s not about shock value; it’s about connection, chemistry, and context. [Read: Sexual Chemistry: What It Is, How It Feels, 52 Signs & Ways to Increase It]

What makes a movie sexually stimulating is how it builds anticipation. Think slow glances, lingering touches, and tension that simmers before anything physical even happens. This kind of buildup activates the brain’s reward system, making the eventual release (on-screen and off-screen) feel more powerful.

In psychology, this is called the “pleasure of anticipation,” and it’s a big part of why some scenes feel hotter than others. 📚 Source: Berridge & Robinson, 2003, Parsing reward

But there’s also the emotional side. When we watch characters fall for each other, whether it’s a slow-burn romance or an intense fling, we project ourselves into their story.

This phenomenon, called “emotional mirroring,” allows your brain to feel aroused not just physically, but emotionally too. It’s why a well-acted, sensual kiss can sometimes be more arousing than a full-blown sex scene. 📚 Source: Zaki et al., 2009, The Neural Bases of Empathic Accuracy

And let’s not forget fantasy. Movies give us a safe space to explore desires we may not act on in real life, whether that’s a forbidden romance, a kinky power dynamic, or just the thrill of being desired.

Watching these scenes can help normalize your own sexual thoughts, reduce shame, and even inspire new ways to connect with your partner.

So no, it’s not just about the nudity. A sexually stimulating movie makes you feel seen, sparked, and curious. And that’s what makes it unforgettable.

Why You Should Watch Movies With a Lot of Sex

Watching movies with a lot of sex isn’t just about getting turned on, though let’s be honest, that’s definitely part of the fun. These films can actually serve a deeper purpose in your love life and personal growth.

When done right, sex scenes in movies can spark meaningful conversations, boost sexual confidence, and even help partners explore fantasies in a low-pressure way.

Unlike porn, which is designed to be visually explicit and often disconnected from emotion, sexually charged movies usually intertwine intimacy with story, chemistry, and character development. That emotional context matters.

Research shows that erotic content can enhance arousal more effectively when it’s paired with emotional connection, anticipation, and narrative tension.

For couples, these movies can act as a safe bridge into conversations about desires that might feel awkward otherwise. You get to explore your turn-ons together, laugh off the awkward bits, and maybe even say, “Would you ever try that?” without the pressure of being face-to-face in bed.

Even if you’re watching solo, these films can help you better understand your own sexual preferences and emotional triggers. They normalize desire, help you see that sex is more than just mechanics, and often show the importance of consent, communication, and vulnerability.

And let’s not forget the cultural shift. What used to be taboo is now a form of artistic expression and emotional exploration. Watching movies with a lot of sex isn’t about being “naughty”, it’s about embracing your sexuality in a healthy, curious, and confident way. Whether you’re in a relationship or flying solo, these films can be both entertaining and empowering.

Where to Stream These Sexy Movies in 2025

Craving a steamy movie night but don’t know where to look? In 2025, finding movies with a lot of sex is easier than ever, no sketchy sites or late-night cable required. Most of the hottest erotic, romantic, and sensual films are just a click away on your favorite streaming platforms. Here’s where to start.

Netflix continues to lead the way with a mix of sultry originals (*Sex/Life*, *365 Days*) and licensed favorites (*Blue is the Warmest Color*, *After*). Their “steamy” category is basically foreplay for your remote.

Hulu offers a strong lineup of indie erotic dramas and thrillers, including *Shame*, *Blue Valentine*, and *Sleeping Beauty*. It’s the go-to for emotionally raw, sex-positive storytelling.

Max (formerly HBO Max) is your best bet for bold, boundary-pushing films like *Eyes Wide Shut*, *Nymphomaniac*, and *Basic Instinct*. Think classy, intense, and unapologetically adult.

Amazon Prime Video hosts a blend of mainstream hits and hidden gems, everything from *Original Sin* to *The Dreamers* and *9½ Weeks*. They also rent newer releases that haven’t hit subscription platforms yet.

Paramount+ and Peacock are catching up with sexy comedies like *American Pie* and *Wedding Crashers*, perfect for a fun and flirty night in.

And for the wild ones? Shudder (yep, the horror platform) surprisingly offers a few erotic thrillers and dark dramas with intense sexual themes, ideal if you like your lust with a side of suspense. [Read: Intense Sex: 17 Pleasurable Secrets & Moves to Make Love with Real Passion]

Just make sure to check content ratings and viewer discretion warnings before pressing play, especially if you’re watching with someone new. Sexy movies can spark connection, but only if everyone’s on board for the ride.

[Read: 50 Best Steamy Romance Movies to Get You Both Hot, Naughty & in the Mood]

Sex on Screen Can Spark So Much More

When done right, movies with a lot of sex aren’t just about the visuals, they’re about the feelings, the fantasies, and the freedom to explore desire without judgment.

Whether you’re into slow-burn tension, dark thrillers, or playful rom-coms, these films offer a safe, sexy space to feel things deeply, and maybe even start some conversations that lead to real-life sparks. [Read: 29 Safe Sex Secrets & Nasty Dangers of Unprotected Sex Most Don’t Know!]

Sex in cinema is evolving, and thankfully, so are we. These movies show us that pleasure isn’t just physical, it’s emotional, psychological, and often, beautifully messy.

Watching them can help you feel more connected, more confident, and more curious about your own turn-ons and turn-offs.

Movies with a lot of sex don’t just entertain, they empower. They let us explore intimacy, kink, vulnerability, and love in all its messy, magnetic forms. So press play, and let the fantasies begin.

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Netflix and chill has been a thing for so long, we can’t even remember when and where it actually started. Did Eve ask Adam to “Bite the apple and chill?” or was the Big Bang actually a movie that our ancestor microbes were witness to?

Suffice it to say, it is a thing and people are actually using it to get dates or to hook up. Admittedly, it might not be working out as planned, since women know better nowadays, but it is a funny ice breaker–especially when expressed without any hint of harassment.

Even if it is quickly becoming the world’s most viral pickup line, you can use it for the greater good—the greater good being the search for your one true movie buddy. So, if you’re wondering how to make this work to your advantage, here are the steps that you need to follow. [Read: 69 best & most romantic movies that are a must-watch in 2023]

What Does “Netflix and Chill” Really Mean?

Everybody knows what “Netflix and Chill” means or in case you don’t, let’s break it down. At face value, it sounds like a cozy night in with movies and snacks. But make no mistake, this phrase has evolved into a popular euphemism for a booty call.

What started out as a simple way to describe watching Netflix and relaxing has taken on a whole new layer of meaning. It’s now a playful code for inviting someone over with the intention of getting romantic or sexual once the play button gets hit.

As the phrase gained traction on social media, it quickly transformed from literal to a more flirtatious, suggestive language.

Step 1: Prep Your Movie Buddy

Before diving into your Netflix and chill session, it’s essential to prepare your movie buddy for an enjoyable experience.

Whether it’s a casual hangout or a cozy date night, setting the right atmosphere and ensuring both of you are on the same page can make all the difference. Here are five tips to help you both get ready for a fun and relaxed movie night! [Read: 32 must-knows when spending the first night together for an amazing time]

1. Choose Your Buddy

There are a lot of people who are willing to Netflix and chill, but you have to pick someone who will appreciate your taste in movies and is not likely to kill you if you fall asleep in the middle.

2. Decide Whether or Not You Want a Serious Relationship

To Netflix and chill denotes a temporary arrangement. You need to decide whether this is a precursor to Hulu and commit, or just a passing phase until the search for the next movie buddy begins.

3. Date Them For a While

We do not recommend that you watch a movie in your house with a complete stranger. That can end badly in so many ways, so it’s best to bide your time and see if it’s worth sharing your subscription with this person.

4. Tell Them You Want to Netflix and Chill

You don’t really have to use the actual phrase unless you can deliver it with finesse. Due to its rising viral reputation, it could be misconstrued as a mark against you, instead of a harmless joke to ease the tension. To start, just try asking your date to watch a movie at home. [Read: Awesome movies both ladies and gents will enjoy]

5. If They Reject the Offer, Date Them Some More

There’s a 50-50 chance that your partner may not be keen on the idea of being alone with you, in a room full of sexual tension. If that happens, just let them think about it some more. While they do, commence dating like normal people and wait for the perfect time to offer again.

Step 2: Settle Your Logistics

Before you dive into the fun, it’s important to sort out the logistics for your Netflix and chill session. A little planning goes a long way in ensuring everything runs smoothly, allowing you to focus on enjoying each other’s company. Here’s a handy list of things to take care of before the big night:

1. Purchase Sustenance

Just stick to the rules. Buy anything that can be eaten using your hands, or placed directly in your mouth, and make sure nothing has ingredients that linger in your mouth for days. Oh, and booze—booze should round it out.

2. Clean Your Place Up

‘Nuff said.

3. Pay Your Roommate Off

Send them off to watch a movie *or two* elsewhere. [Read: 32 must-knows when spending the first night together for an amazing time]

4. If They Won’t Leave, Pay Them to Stay Inside Their Room

It’ll be worth it.

5. Set a Date and Time That’s Agreeable For Both of You

Friday nights are good, but you’ll be better off scheduling something for Saturday so that your date won’t get to use the excuse, “I’m too tired from work.”

Step 3: Set the Mood

Creating the right ambiance is key to a successful Netflix and chill experience. Setting the mood helps foster a relaxed atmosphere where both of you can feel comfortable and ready to enjoy the evening. Here are some essential tips to help you create the perfect vibe before your movie buddy arrives:

1. Dim the lights

And so, it starts. If you can’t afford an electrician to install dimmer lights, do not try to use YouTube to do it yourself. Just buy candles or a low-cost lamp with warm lighting. [Read: Sexy bedroom: 24 sex room ideas to make any room look & feel sexy]

2. Make Sure the Room Smells Nice

Buy a few cans of air freshener, or a candle—preferably something floral or woodsy.

3. Prepare Your Refreshments

No need to create a nice presentation. As long as everything’s accessible on the coffee table, you’re good.

4. Choose a Bunch of Movies Before They Arrive

Choose a movie that shows off your personality or the personality you don’t have, but want to convey. Whether your date is a guy or a girl, your best bet is to choose something that will make both of you vulnerable and emotional.

The best choice, then, would be a Pixar movie. The Notebook is a little obvious. If you don’t feel like crying, choose a really, really, really scary movie, instead. [Read: 50 best steamy romance movies to get you both hot, naughty & in the mood]

5. Play Some Music First

Presenting Spotify’s “Alternative R&B” playlist—a surefire hit. [Read: The absolute sexy lovemaking playlist guide]

Step 4: When Your Date Arrives

When your date finally arrives, it’s time to kick off the evening with a warm welcome. Making your guest feel comfortable and at ease sets the stage for a fun night ahead. Here’s what to do as soon as they walk through the door:

1. Offer Your Date a Cool Beverage

Warm beverages are for people who are feeling down, as Sheldon says. Offering a cool beverage gives a welcoming atmosphere and can also lower your partner’s body temperature enough to want to cuddle.

2. Engage in a Little Chitchat

Not boring-as-hell-please-gouge-my-eyes chitchat. Ask questions. Be interested. Tell them about your day. Just get the ball rolling. [Read: 100 juicy, sexual questions to ask friends & have a fun, naughty time]

3. Invite Them to Sit Down on the Couch

Make sure you place a lot of throw pillows near the ends of the couch. That way, your date won’t have enough space to sit anywhere too far away from you.

4. Decide What Movie You’re Going to Watch

Present your choices to your date. If they have a different suggestion, just suck it up and hope you’ll end up liking the movie.

5. Watch the Movie. Until the End

Do not—I repeat, do not, under any circumstances, jump your partner in the middle of the movie. This is for your own good. Delaying gratification can increase your chances of developing a deeper connection.

This is a good rule of thumb, also, because there is a significant possibility that your partner may want to actually finish the movie. [Read: 13 non-porn erotic movies that are sure to turn the two of you on]

Step 5: After the Movie

Once the credits roll and the movie ends, the fun doesn’t have to stop there. This is the perfect opportunity to unwind and continue the good vibes. Here’s how to keep the momentum going after the film:

1. Offer them some cooler beverages

Bring out the booze!

2. Discuss the Movie

What else are you going to talk about?

3. Play Some Music Again

That playlist from earlier can still get the job done.

4. Flirt a Little

They say flirting is an art. That being said, use the tools at your disposal, like body language, consensual touch, and eye contact.

It’s pretty easy, especially if you’re comfy with each other after the movie. Just show your partner that you like them and that you’d like to see where this can go.

5. Chill

Defining the word “chill” is as easy as finding the meaning of life. It all depends on how you and your partner want to proceed.

Do you want to get more physical? Or do you just want to enjoy the evening and let the pieces fall where they may? [Read: How to get a girl horny & make her wet just by sitting next to her]

Keep Things Fun and Stress-free

Netflix and chill should ideally be a laid-back affair. While some preparation can help set the mood—like picking the right series or film, and perhaps arranging some comfy seating and snacks—there’s no need to stress over the details. The whole concept is rooted in simplicity and the relaxed enjoyment of each other’s company.

[Read: How to be chill and learn to live a happier life as a result]

No matter how your chill session turns out, the most important takeaway is the quality time you’ve spent with someone you like. And if Netflix and chill doesn’t quite hit the mark for you, remember, there are plenty of other casual hangout options. Why not try Chipotle and chill? Whatever your style, the key is to keep things fun and stress-free.

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Movies aren’t just designed to entertain, they’re also there to educate and help people explore different themes. Similarly, films about sexuality aren’t only there for the thrill, they can also help people who are struggling with their own sexuality and need a broader view.

The movie suggestions below explore certain very specific themes of sex and sexuality. Although several are quite steamy, they are considered true classics, not only in the genre but in cinema in general.

One only has to look at the names of the directors of masterpieces, such as Kubrick, Bunuel, Bogdanovich, and Malle, to see how important this theme has been to movie makers across generations. [Read: List of sexualities – 15 gender orientations you need to know about]

The best movies about sexuality

You might have heard of some of these movies about sexuality or you might not have. Either way, add them to your watch list and enjoy them at your leisure.

1. Belle de Jour

Katherine Deneuve’s protagonist is a frigid, cold, and unapproachable figure to her husband, having grown dissatisfied with her “vanilla” sex life.

To compensate, she begins to prostitute herself during his absence to explore her so-far unexplored sordid side. [Read: Married sex – 38 sex ideas and naughty tips to spice it up and stay passionate]

2. The Graduate

Not only containing one of cinema’s most famous quotes—”Why, Mrs. Robinson… are you trying to seduce me?”—it also explores the age-old theme of the mature seductress and the young, confused male object of her desires. See Dustin Hoffman in an early and truly memorable performance.

3. Boogie Nights

This movie is a little more tongue-in-cheek than most and provides many a laugh along the way. But it also explores the rise to success of porn star Dirk Diggler, as well as exploring the sexual and emotional relationships he develops along the way.

4. Lolita

This story of one man’s obsession with a teenage girl so famously encapsulates the theme that its title is now used to describe the younger half of such a relationship. This is great cinema done exceedingly tastefully. [Read: Age gap in relationships and the truths to date someone younger or older]

5. The Last Picture Show

Nowhere and at no time in one’s life is sex and sexuality more important than in the years surrounding the transition to adulthood.

In a small American town, a group of young layabouts come to terms with their own desires and passions.

6. American Beauty

A man is passing through a mid-life crisis and his daughter acquires a beautiful friend; it’s always going to be a recipe for disaster.

This is especially the case when he finally realizes how far off the mark he was in believing that she was attracted to him, too. There’s also a surprise dabble with the issues of homosexuality and homophobia.

7. Last Tango in Paris

After meeting, two people decide to avoid the complications of a normal relationship by hiding their identities from each other. Warning: this film is also notorious for a violent sexual scene. [Read: Toxic relationships – what it is, 107 signs, causes, and types of love that hurt you]

8. Blue is The Warmest Color

A beautifully made film about sexuality which sensitively and sensually explores the issue of sexual identity as two high school girls fall in love.

It’s the nearest thing to a recent masterpiece, so definitely add it to your to-watch list.

9. Heavenly Creatures

The darker side of a lesbian relationship is explored in this film, with a young Kate Winslet playing the seductress to a neighbor. Deep obsession and extant cultural values lead to a disastrous end. [Read: 18 empowering reasons to love being a lesbian!]

10. Fifty Shades of Gray

Although slightly out of place in terms of the superior quality that most other films on this list seem to possess, it would be remiss to leave out the film that took the world by storm. This one deals with the dominant/submissive relationship between billionaire Christian Gray and a young reporter.

11. Brokeback Mountain

Showing that homosexuality isn’t just confined to city-slickers, the burgeoning relationship between two hardened cowboys is truly heart-warming. [Read: 35 signs to tell if a guy is gay and what to do if your boyfriend is bisexual]

12. The Crying Game

Although this movie about sexuality is a thriller revolving around the IRA and a planned assault upon London, it is the protagonist’s relationship with a young lady that provides the eye-opener. And we really do mean an eye-opener. Watch it and see for yourself!

13. Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice

Looking back at the golden age of free love, this film very sensibly explores the dedicated foursome and the emotional issues that may arise as a result of a couple spreading their sexual wings. [Read: Swingers lifestyle – 61 secrets and tips to enter the erotic world of swinging]

14. The Seven Year Itch

A Marilyn Monroe classic, this a more light-hearted look at the theme of sexual obsession and how it can lead to adultery. Great performances all round.

15. Turn Me On, Dammit!

If you’re really in need of a break from films about sexuality that seem a little too patriarchal in their handling of the subject, then check out this film all about female empowerment—a true breath of fresh air.

16. Kids

An intriguing look at how young lives are being affected by HIV. The camera follows the protagonist around the city as she attempts to locate her only sexual partner. [Read: 17 condom types, their secrets, and ways to spice up your sex life with them]

17. Sex & The City

Although not everyone’s cup of tea, the familiar ensemble of four ladies living in New York City provides its own take on modern city sex and sexuality.

18. My Own Private Idaho

One of Keanu Reeves’ early films, this film is a great romp of a sexual road trip. Two homosexual friends are riding on the back of a motorcycle all the way across the U.S. on a quest to find a family member.

19. Murmur of The Heart

This film is the quirky story of a 14-year-old boy experiencing sexuality for the first time vicariously through the experiences of his older brothers, as well as a rather too comfortably developed oedipal complex. [Read: Teenage love stories – A reunion of teenage love]

20. Shadows

Shot amid the color and energy of the 50s Jazz era, Cassavetes’ gritty masterpiece is a wonderful piece of cinema, exploring romance, sex, and interracial relationships. [Read: Movie date – how to build sexual chemistry and create the perfect date]

21. Blue Jean

Set in 1980s England, Blue Jean is the story of Jean, who desperately tries to hide her sexuality to keep her job, but feels conflicted and wants to shout it out to the world. Gritty and extremely realistic, this film isn’t one to miss.

22. Rule 34

This film about sexuality centers around Simone, a law student and women’s rights advocate. During the evening hours, she is a sex cam performer with a desire to explore the darker sides of her sexuality.

23. How to Please a Woman

This comedy explores the lighter side of sexuality. Gina’s friends gift her a male escort for her 50th birthday, who helps her to explore different sides of herself. Although she does ask him to clean the house at first! [Read: 30 ways to please a woman and get her addicted sexually and emotionally]

24. Black Narcissus (Passion of The Swamp)

This is a slightly different type of film compared to the others on our list. In it, a former pornography director is the commentator.

The movie is about a porn start who endures a doomed romance with the woman of his dreams.

25. Paloma

Here, we follow the story of Paloma, a transgender woman who dreams of marrying the man of her dreams in a church. However, their relationship is not recognized by the Catholic Church. A sad and poignant story, but one brought to life by the amazing imagery in the film.

26. My Policeman

Firstly, fans of Harry Styles will want to watch this movie. But aside from that, it’s a wonderful story of a relationship in the 1950s that is affected by the arrival of a dark stranger and how his presence forces them to deal with their previous issues. [Read: Being sex positive – why this matters and why you need to get on board]

27. Orgasm Inc: The Story of One Taste

More of a documentary than a film, Orgasm Inc explores the history of OneTaste, a former organization dedicated to slow sex and orgasmic meditation.

28. Firebird

Firebird is a heartbreaking movie, based on real-life events. We follow Sergey, a soldier in the Soviet army and his fighter pilot love. The story takes place during the Cold War and it’s extremely realistic.

29. Good Luck to You, Leo Grande

Nancy Stokes has never had an orgasm, despite years of marriage. When her husband dies, she decides to throw caution to the wind and hires a male prostitute.

From there, we follow the budding relationship between the two as Nancy discovers new sides of herself. [Read: 21 secrets to be more sexual and fall in love with the sexy side of you]

30. 99 Moons

When love is so obsessively strong and desire takes hold, what happens? In this film about sexuality, we find out, as we follow a couple with a need for one another so strong, it almost destroys everything.

31. Crash

Sex and danger have always been carefully linked, and in this film we follow couples who turn the extreme sexual energy generated by their car accidents to push their sex lives to new extremes.

32. I’m a Girl, I’m a Princess

This film is based on a true story that takes place in Argentina. It follows the story of Luana, a twin born male who never connected with her gender assigned at birth.

The story follows their parents as they learn to deal with the realization and Luana’s journey to be her true self. [Read: The different types of gender and why you really need to know them]

33. Tucked

Tucked is a sometimes lighthearted and sometimes heartbreaking story that follows two drag queens: one 80 years old and one just beginning his journey in drag.

Both struggle with their personal identities and life’s challenges, but they find solace in one another and learn to come to terms with who they truly are.

34. Our Bodies Are Your Battlefields

This hard-hitting film about sexuality follows two transgender women named Violeta and Claudia and their fight against the patriarchy in their home country of Argentina.

35. X

If you’re into old-fashioned slasher/horror movies, X is for you. A group of actors rent a house with the intention to film an adult movie. However, the two elderly owners of the house have other ideas and plan a massacre. [Read: Porn for women – why do we like it and where can we find it?]

36. The Unicorn

All too often, a couple’s decision to spice up their sex life with a threesome turns complicated, and The Unicorn shows why.

Caleb and Malory head to Palm Springs for a wedding and have a threesome. Yet, the reality of the situation is far from ideal and it forces them to address major issues in their relationship.

37. Nudo Mixteco

This film about sexuality follows three women as they explore their sexuality in a conservative and patriarchal society. Set in a rural part of Mexico, the landscapes are as breathtaking as the acting. [Read: Sexually fluid – what it means, how it feels, and how to make sense of it]

38. Tremors

Life doesn’t always lead us down the path we envisage, and that’s exactly what this film is about. An evangelical man is married and lives a conservative and traditional life. However, he falls in love with another man and everything he knew falls to pieces.

39. Matar a la Bestia

On a journey to find her missing brother, a girl searches the dangerous border area between Brazil and Argentina.

Here, she struggles against an identity crisis, a deeply religious environment, and a mysterious beast roaming the area. [Read: The 15 books every woman should read in their lifetime]

40. One Fine Morning

The hard-hitting One Fine Morning follows a mother with a young daughter who is also caring for her sick father. We explore life through her eyes, as she tries to fit love into her life, already packed with so many responsibilities.

41. Death of a Virgin And The Sin of Not Living

This gentle yet impactful film follows the lives of a group of friends as they navigate the pitfalls, highs and lows that life throws our way. [Read: 36 life lessons to instantly transform your life and draw in happiness]

42. Sex Appeal

Nerdy Avery is desperately trying to plan her first time with her long-term boyfriend, but she has no clue what to do.

Sex Appeal is a sometimes comedic, sometimes heartfelt look at life through the eyes of a teenager and their first foray into the sexual world.

43. Fantasies

Fantasies is a mixture of different individuals and couples who like to explore their personal fantasies and try to understand more about how they impact upon their relationships with others. From celibacy to group sex, all fantasies are covered. [Read: Arousing sex fantasies to try in real life]

44. Colors of Tobi

This heart-warming yet hard-hitting movie about sexuality follows a mother and her son as they navigate gender transition and the attitudes of others toward them. As they go on a journey of realization toward their new identity, they learn who they truly are.

45. Love And Leashes

Kinks and fetishes run amok in this comedy about a supposedly shy office worker’s secret fantasies. When their secret is exposed it leads to a contract with a colleague, allowing them both to explore their sexualities. [Read: Couples kinks list – 52 freaky and weird sexual fetishes many people indulge in]

46. Heaven Reaches Down to Earth

Tear-jerking and extremely impactful, Heaven Reaches Down to Earth follows the stories of two men from South Africa as they learn more about their sexual orientations and the desire they have for one another. All of this is set amongst some of the most stunning landscapes you’ll ever see.

47. Clouds of Sils Maria

A famous and experienced actress is forced to face up to her insecurities and the jealousy she has toward fellow actors, taking her on a journey of self-discovery.

Along the way, she meets a younger, less experienced actress and sexual tension sets their lives on fire. [Read: Am I gay? Signs and secrets you’re not straight and into the same gender]

48. More The Merrier

Not all films about sexuality have to be deep and tear-jerking! This comedy is about a woman who is desperately trying to find a balance between her budding career and her love life. She experiences quite a few hilarious hurdles along the way.

49. Superbad

Superbad is an extremely famous comedy that follows the typical lives of teenagers trying to find their way in the world. From mishaps to disasters, you’ll laugh along as the characters learn their lessons. [Read: Lessons you need to survive on your own]

50. A Tale of Love And Desire

A Tale of Love And Desire is tear-jerking and extremely impactful. We follow the story of a French-Algerian young boy who lives in a Muslim area of France and actively practices his religion. However, he falls in love with a Tunisian girl and desperately tries to fight his feelings.

51. Cobalt Blue

A traditional Indian family is ripped apart when both a sister and brother fall in love with exactly the same guy. Based on a book, this story follows hard-hitting themes of sexuality and forbidden love. [Read: 15 lessons you can learn from your own breakups]

Which of these films about sexuality will you watch first?

These films about sexuality cover a huge range of themes and will certainly make you stop and think after watching them. You’ll laugh, cry, and question many things about society and perhaps your own life.

But the question is: which will you watch first?

[Read: Happy sex life – What a good sex life should look like in real life]

Even if you aren’t seeking any particular questions on the theme of sexuality, there is some great viewing to be had from any of these films about sexuality. Just don’t expect to walk away without having a few new questions of your own!

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We all need a good cry sometimes. In fact, it is a luxury that many need: an afternoon of snuggling up under your favorite blanket, with nothing but your sweats on, chowing down some popcorn. Of course, your feel-good-crying moment is not complete without your go-to sad movies.

[Read: 66 really depressing songs to make you cry and heal you]

Sad romantic movies to cue the waterworks

Whether you got fired from your job, fought with your partner, had a breakup, or are simply in the mood for a good cry, here is a list of fail-proof, cry-your-heart-out romantic movies.

[Read: The stages to embrace and overcome loneliness]

1. Brief Encounter

If you’re the type who believes in love at first sight, then you have to watch Brief Encounter. This movie is about two people, Laura and Doctor Harvey, who meet one random day at a train station and fall desperately in love. It would all have been perfect except for one thing… they’re both married.

And so, knowing they can’t be together, they have to return to their respective boring marriages, which is the most tragic part of it all.

2. An Affair to Remember

If there’s one classic you should put on your list of tear-jerker sad movies, this should be it. Playboy Nickie and Terry fall in love while on a cruise. The thing is, they are both attached to other people.

They agree to meet again after six months, on top of the Empire State Building, after they have ended their respective relationships.

However, the heart-wrenching part starts when Terry doesn’t turn up, only for Nickie to discover that she is, in fact, wheelchair-bound.

3. Moulin Rouge

Set in Bohemian-themed, 1900s France, Moulin Rouge is a comedy-musical-love story and all sorts of spectaculars. Naïve writer Christian goes to Paris to fulfill his Bohemian dreams, only to be mistaken as the Duke by the famous courtesan Satine.

Christian is then hurled into writing a play, which Satine stars in. This play, however, is financed by the real Duke of Monroth, who was promised Satine on the night after the play’s premiere.

It exudes all the excitement of a budding, secret love. That is until many secrets are revealed and jealousy ensues. [Read: Jealousy in a relationship – how to accept, deal & overcome it in love]

4. Steel Magnolias

It starts with the most perfect couple having the most perfect wedding. You think, “What could go wrong?” Such a wonderful couple deserves their happily ever after, right? Wrong!

Shelby has type one diabetes, which means she’ll fall seriously ill if she ever gets pregnant. Tragically, she does *of course, that’s the point of the movie, right?*.

5. Blue Valentine

What’s more tragic than a blue Valentine? This fittingly-titled sad movie follows Dean and Cindy’s marriage from the all-peaches-and-cream meeting to the gut-wrenchingly devastating meltdown as their marriage is violently plagued by Dean’s alcoholism. [Read: Marriage advice – 20 real-life tips and lessons for a happily ever after]

6. P.S. I Love You

While many sad romantic movies have someone dying in the end, P.S. I Love You has the protagonist die in the beginning—clear-cut foreshadowing that the worst is yet to come.

And come it does, as his wife reads all the letters he wrote her before he died, guiding her into a life without him. For a sad movie from start to finish, this one is golden.

7. The Fault In Our Stars

What’s more tragic than a terminally ill, yet fresh-faced, witty, and endearing teenager? Two terminally ill, yet fresh-faced, witty, and endearing teenagers… falling in love. [Read: The 20 best inspirational movies for when your motivation lags]

8. A Walk To Remember

Prepare a box of Kleenex for this sad movie. Though it’s a classic plot of a popular guy meets and falls for an unpopular, geeky girl, who transforms beautifully like an ugly duckling into a swan, you’ve just got to wait for the twist. And boy, is the twist heartbreaking.

9. The Notebook

Author Nicolas Sparks really had it going in the tearjerker department when he wrote The Notebook.

The movie adaptation has tugged at everyone’s heartstrings, from Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams’ rain-soaked kiss that made us believe in true love, to the final hours of James Garner and the Alzheimer’s-stricken Gena Rowlands’ portrayal of undying love. [Read: 59 relationship lessons and honest love advice only experience can teach you]

10. Titanic

A box-office hit, a tragic romance classic, and a surefire tearjerker, Titanic gives us plenty of things to cry over *and be frustrated about—like, hey, they can fit on that floating board together*.

It’s the story of free-spirited Jack and newly-engaged-to-someone-else Rose, and how their love can transcend social norms and economic status. But just when you think they’re about to sail off into the sunset, an iceberg ruins it all for everybody. And the rest, as they say, is history.

11. Brokeback Mountain

Who says a man-woman romance is the only romance worth watching? If you’re up for some bromance that’ll bring out the waterwork, this is the sad movie to watch.

Brokeback Mountain brings romantic love between men into the spotlight. Never has any film portrayed this love with such a tragic ending. [Read: Gay dating apps that’ll connect you with a perfect lover for life]

12. Atonement

This is a story that is both infuriating and sad. Aristocrat Cecilia and commoner Robbie fall desperately in love, despite their different economic classes.

However, they are denied their happiness as Cecilia’s jealous little sister accuses Robbie of raping their cousin. Of course, being of lower class, Robbie has no way of defending himself and therefore has to go to prison.

What is tragic about this sad movie is that it shows us that sometimes, selfish and jealous individuals can tear apart true love. [Read: Jealousy in a relationship – how to accept, deal, and overcome it in love]

13. Romeo + Juliet

An adaptation of a Shakespeare classic, this Baz Luhrman take dazzles us with the vitality and pettiness of youth, as well as the rollercoaster of forbidden love between Romeo Montague and Juliet Capulet.

The masquerade ball is a great introduction for the two doomed lovers, foreshadowing a tragic ending, when they both end up victims of their own plots and poison. [Read: Real soulmates – what it is, how it works, 59 secrets, and signs to find yours]

14. City of Angels

Seth, an angel, falls from the sky, giving up his powers to experience life as a human. Part of this experience, of course, is falling in love. The apple of this angel’s eye? Maggie, a surgeon, whom Seth watches save a man’s life.

What follows is their curious love affair, leaving the fallen angel feeling one of the most human emotions: heartbreak.

This sad movie is more than just sad—it’s absolutely tragic.

15. Gone With The Wind

What is sadder than wanting something you can’t have? This is the idea behind the gut-wrenching, tear-jerking classic Gone With The Wind. This is one sad, sad movie you just have to watch at least once in your life.

It revolves around Scarlett, who resists the advances of Rhett over many years, all because she is in love with a married man, Ashley. It’s a doomed love triangle, and you just have to watch it until the very end.

There’s nothing like a good cry, especially when you feel like you are against the world, or you’re about to lose the love of your life. Going through difficult times, it can feel so darn good to let it all out, sob, and bawl your eyes out.

16. A Little Thing Called Love

This is a Thai movie that gained a huge following after its showing. It’s about how a girl called Nam uses a book called “Nine Recipes of Love” to make her crush fall in love with her.

You’ll be surprised to find that this movie can make you cry like that, even when you’re watching a happy scene.

17. The First Wives Club

Three divorcees seek revenge on their husbands after their friend took her own life after she experienced the same relationship troubles. It’s a comforting story about absolution and getting to know yourself better after a huge breakup.

Aside from the life lessons you’ll learn in this uplifting and sad movie, you can also enjoy the antics of some of the best actresses who ever walked this planet. [Read: 20 baby steps to be single after a long relationship, start over, and feel fulfilled]

18. Toy Story 3

You probably didn’t expect to find a kid’s film on this list, but it’s actually a really great watch when you need a sad movie to help you cry out your tears. Because funnily enough, Woody and his friends are just as much in the same boat as you are.

Sometimes we outgrow our roles in the lives of our loved ones. We need to let them go and forge our own paths to meet new people who need us as much as we need them. [Read: 26 deep daily reminders to fix your life forever and go forward]

19. A Hundred-Foot Journey

The Kadam family leaves India in order to start a new life in France. This story revolves around a family who has lost everything and decided to follow their hearts and find a new home.

The people in this story each have their own self-actualizing journeys, and there’s a chance that you might relate to some of them. [Read: Small ways to deal with big changes in your life]

20. 3 Idiots

This story is about a group of people who went in search of their long-lost friend. As they go on their journey, they recall everything they learned while they were younger, and how their friend taught all of them how to think differently.

This film will really get you thinking about the people you’ve met in your own life and how they’ve helped to shape you. And we all know how feeling appreciative of the people around us can get the waterworks going!

21. Eat, Pray, Love

Liz has just freed herself from a life full of comfort and stability. Now she has to find herself on a journey around the world.

Maybe her experiences can give you a new perspective on life and how you can start fresh as well. No one said that nothing good has to come from a sad movie. [Read: Relieved after breaking up? 20 happy reasons why it’s a very good sign]

22. Hard Ball

When a gambler suffering from heavy debt takes a gig as a little league coach for less-than-fortunate kids in one of the toughest parts of Chicago, his life is forever changed.

He soon finds himself attached to the children he’s coaching and becomes a big part of their lives—the good and the tragic.

23. The Best of Me

Oh, Nicholas Sparks. Will he ever not make us bawl our eyes out? In this sad movie, Amanda and Dawson were fortunate enough to have found love in their high school years, but one tragic event changed their lives’ course. When a mutual old friend passes away, they’re reunited. But will it last this time?

24. Pay it Forward

When an average Social Studies teacher assigns an assignment to his junior high students, he never expected it to have a lasting impact.

When one student goes above and beyond the call of duty and creates a plan to “pay it forward,” he causes a wave of kindness that is everlasting.

25. Marley and Me

If you’re a big dog lover, this sad movie will have you crying your eyes out. This movie is one that even makes the toughest of men cry. When two newlyweds decide to add a new member to the family, they never thought a dog could change their lives—for better or worse.

26. Old Yeller

Prepare yourself, yet again, for the waterworks. When this family comes across a dog damaging one of their fields, they never expect to take a liking to the animal. As the family grows closer to the cute pup, concerns over a rabies outbreak grow, as well.

27. Dead Poet’s Society

When a high-standards, all-boys preparatory school hires a new English teacher, they get more than they bargained for.

His unorthodox methods become a concern for the parents of these eager students. With his help, students come out of their shells and learn to seize the day!

28. My Girl

This film will crack even the toughest of nuts. One girl labeled as a freak—due to her mother’s death during her birth and her father’s job operating a funeral service out of their home—has a complicated adolescence.

Things are made more challenging by her love for her English teacher and a tragic accident. [Read: Unrequited love – 58 signs, types, and steps to get out of unreciprocated love]

29. Blindside

When a wealthy, typical southern mom takes in a homeless teenager, she faces criticism and a life-changing moment.

Michael Oher isn’t just some homeless young man. He is protective, kind, and damn good at playing football.

30. Freedom Writers

A dedicated teacher takes a position at a Los Angeles school full of at-risk teenagers amid racial turmoil. When her effort to teach the students, supposedly “incapable of learning,” does more than anyone expected, the whole world is surprised.

31. The Pursuit of Happyness

Being a single father, evicted from his home, and raising a young boy by himself with nowhere to go, Chris finds his life more than a struggle.

But when he lands a job as an intern at a prestigious brokerage firm that pays him no money, his life could be changed forever. [Check it out: Dating as a single parent – 56 must-knows to date a single mom or dad]

32. Keith

This lesser-known indie film will really tear at your heartstrings. A young girl thinks she has it all figured out… until she meets a guy who could change her life.

She is drawn to him, but he keeps holding back, unable to open up to her. What is he hiding? [Try: How to take care of a sick girlfriend – do it right without losing it]

33. Remember the Titans

Not many people are happy about the fact that this Virginia high school has to integrate an all-black school with an all-white school. And in a town where football is celebrated more than Christmas, it seems to be an even bigger problem… because the football teams have to integrate, too.

34. My Dog Skip

We all know that a dog can be your best friend. But Willie Morris had no idea this was possible until his birthday present came in the form of a talented terrier named Skip.

Soon, his struggle with bullies comes to an end and he even gets the affection of the prettiest girl in school. But none of this happens without hardship.

35. 12 Years a Slave

In the years leading up to the Civil War, a free black man from New York is kidnapped and sold into slavery down south. He meets with a malevolent owner, a kind owner, and a continuous struggle to survive with dignity. [Read: 19 simple ways to be a more socially conscious person]

36. The Boy in the Striped Pajamas

Amid WWII, an 8-year-old is swept away with his family to live near a concentration camp, where his father has become commandant.

He eventually wanders out near the camp and befriends a Jewish boy. Their naïve nature and kindness bring them more trouble than they deserve.

37. Up

It doesn’t matter how old you are, because if you are human and have a soul, this movie will make you tear up. If you watch this movie and don’t shed a tear, you have a black heart. Period. [Read: Growing together if you started your relationship young]

This movie is so sweet. There is nothing more precious than seeing Carl and his wife, Ellie, begin their relationship and grow old together.

When Ellie ultimately passes away, Carl’s way of keeping her memory alive is to have the adventure they’ve always dreamed of. He does whatever it takes to protect their memories and to keep the house they grew old together in.

38. How to Train Your Dragon

Sure, this might be a movie that appears to be made for children, but it’s actually another film that is great for all ages. Hiccup is the main character who is a misfit and struggles to find support from his father.

The underdog eventually makes his father extremely proud in the unlikeliest way, all the while forming an unbreakable bond with a dragon.

Let’s not even get into the friendship with the dragon, because we’ll probably start crying as we type this!

39. The Other Sister

Out of all the sad movies on this list, this movie by far will make you cry the most. Twenty-four-year-old Carla Tate is slightly mentally challenged. Her mother is extremely overbearing, protective, and doesn’t believe Carla will ever be able to do anything on her own.

Carla happens to fall in love with a boy, Danny, who is also mentally challenged. The Other Sister shows the relationship between the two mentally challenged people and how their love can conquer the odds.

It’s a movie that will leave you feeling all warm and fuzzy inside, but it’s also a movie that will wake you up for all the right reasons. [Read: Why we need to break down the stigma of mental illness]

40. Hope Floats

This film is about a broken family, and how Sandra Bullock’s character, Birdie, handles her kids while coming to terms with the fact their father has left them for another woman.

A plus to watching this movie is that Harry Connick Jr. is in it, and he’s definitely easy on the eyes! Be sure to watch this sad movie to the very end for one of the best quotes ever written about love and hope. You can thank us later. [Read: Top 30 reasons for divorce most couples ignore until it’s too late]

41. Million Dollar Baby

There’s just something about Clint Eastwood and Hillary Swank in this movie that really makes you feel every emotion from triumph to despair.

It also deals with the hard decisions and controversy surrounding taking people off life-support and trying to do the right thing to honor their wishes. This movie is inspirational, motivational, and so very sad.

[Read: 15 perfect feel-good movies for the brokenhearted]

We highly recommend these sad movies not just for movie buffs, but for those who are needing a good cry. They are also a great way to bond with your girlfriends, wallow about your troubled love lives, and just comfort each other over a good, sad, romantic movie.

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At some point or another, we all reach a point in our lives where we feel devoid of motivation. You’re burnt out, you’ve lost the energy to do anything, and nothing sounds like it’s worth your time anyway. When these hard times hit, inspirational movies can be the best pick-me-up you can find.

If you want to do nothing but nestle up on your couch and watch movies, why not kill two birds with one stone? There is an abundance of movies that can kickstart your creative juices again.

Having a mentor is a gateway to finding your motivation—whether that person is fictional or nonfictional. Here are some films that are sure to get you inspired and bring back your emotional energy.

[Read: 36 secrets to motivate yourself to achieve anything your heart desires]

Movies for motivation

Sometimes the best medicine for a lack of motivation is to see someone else be motivated. So take it from us, these movies are sure to kick your motivation back into full gear. [Read: 19 life quotes to motivate you to live a better life]

1. Forrest Gump

Who doesn’t love this classic movie about a slow-witted young man rising against adversity who lives not only a normal life but an incredibly inspirational one? After seeing it, you’ll want to do anything but sit and watch another movie.

2. Remember the Titans

This all-time favorite movie focuses on a time when integration in the school systems remained new and unwanted, and football was more important than Christmas.

Integrating an all-black school with an all-white school meant big changes for the football team. Despite the challenges, the main character overcame them.

3. Blind Side

This inspirational movie, based on a true story, made big strides in recognizing the missing talent in the game of football.

When a generous and wealthy family takes in a homeless high schooler, his entire life changes for the better. [Read: Ready for some tears? 20 movies that will make you cry]

4. Rush

Another movie based on a true story is the 1970s story of James Hunt and Niki Lauda—two Formula racers with a rivalry putting any other to shame.

Risking death with each race, their need to win and fierce competitiveness are sure to get your motivation pumping.

5. Life of Pi

This inspirational movie focuses on a young man’s journey after his ship from India to Canada was wrecked.

As a lone survivor, he battles the waves, ocean life, and also starvation—all on a single lifeboat with the company of a hungry Bengal tiger.

6. Freedom Writers

Racism, gangs, violence, and also a true story all wrapped into one.

This motivational movie follows a white high school English teacher as she voluntarily dives into the midst of an underperforming class of degenerates with a gang problem. She helps them face their problems and excel in school and life, all by giving them a journal to write in.

[Read: 26 whys and ways to surround yourself with positive people and remodel your life]

7. 127 Hours

He thought his exploration of a remote canyon in Utah would be a good idea.

Little did Aron Ralston know he’d become entrapped in its grasp beneath a big boulder for 127 hours with no way out other than to amputate his arm. All while contemplating his seemingly inevitable death.

8. Million Dollar Baby

She wanted to take charge. She wanted to be tough. Maggie Fitzgerald managed to squeeze her way into a Los Angeles veteran boxing trainer, a usually non-accepting world. Her life would change forever.

And yours will too with the amount of motivation her journey will inspire within you.

9. Gravity

This movie is about one woman who is trapped in space with barely enough willpower to attempt to make it home. It’s a long way back for someone who’s floating just above the earth.

After seeing this, you’ll feel far less accomplished and will want to get up and do something about it.

10. The Shawshank Redemption

Facing accusations of murders you didn’t commit isn’t easy to accept. Living life in a tough, brutal prison doesn’t exactly help.

Andy Dufresne befriends fellow inmate, Red, adapts to his new, cruel life, and also helps out the warden. If you haven’t seen this classic, it is a must on a list of inspirational movies.

11. The Pursuit of Happyness

Alone with his young son, it seems Chris Gardner loses all hope when his landlord evicts him from his apartment.

That is until a moment with a stranger lands him an unpaid internship at a brokerage firm. Although he has no money and no home, Chris is in pursuit of a better life for his family and never gives up. [Read: 48 real secrets to change your life and find the right path when you’re lost]

12. Little Giants

Who doesn’t love an old family rivalry? And who also doesn’t love a bunch of little kids playing football?

This inspirational movie follows two brothers who have always been at odds. One brother has always been better at everything than the other brother. They use their football teams as a means to end the rivalry once and for all.

13. The Help

1960s Mississippi wasn’t a place for an outspoken young woman. Skeeter knows that there is an entire life plan waiting for her after college: marriage, kids, and being a good wife. But that doesn’t mean she’ll listen to what society says she has to do.

With her big dreams of becoming a writer taking hold, she decides to start interviewing the black housekeepers who take care of prominent white families. It turns out that society doesn’t want to hear what they have to say, but that won’t stop her.

14. Morning Glory

She’s young, she’s full of motivation, and she’s so ready to take on her new position as the producer of a national morning news program. Becky Fuller wants to revitalize the low-rated show by bringing in a new host. If only she knew her co-worker wouldn’t exactly be up for her ideas.

This movie will leave you feeling happy, good, and ready to take on the world, just like Becky. [Read: Tried and tested ways to become a better leader at work]

15. Good Will Hunting

With a genius-level IQ, you’d think Will Hunting would be anything but a janitor at MIT. After unsuspecting professor, Gerlad Lambeau, discovers Will’s incredible math talents, he finds himself thrust into a world of finding his true potential.

This is definitely an inspirational movie for those feeling lost or not sure what to do next in life.

16. Unbroken

Troubled youth turned Olympic athlete, Louis Zamperini made a great life for himself. But when the war breaks out he decides to take it one more step and enlists in the military.

But after his plane crashes over the Pacific, he’s forced to survive adrift in a small raft. However, he never imagined those 47 days would be the easiest on his journey to surviving.

17. Pay It Forward

One social studies teacher never imagined his assignment of making the world a better place would cause one student to change the world.

When he decides he wants to change the world for the better by “paying it forward,” he not only changes the life of a young, struggling mother but turns it into a national phenomenon. [Read: 17 ways to be a citizen of the world while living at home]

18. 42

Branch Rickey forever changed the game of baseball in 1946. He became the first manager to sign the first non-white player the major league had ever seen—Jackie Robinson. Together they faced adversity, public scrutiny, and a changed life.

19. Southpaw

When tragedy strikes, Billy “The Great” Hope, the reigning junior middleweight boxing champion, hits rock bottom.

He puts his hope and trust into one Tick Willis with his future on the line, hoping he can turn his life around for himself and his family.

20. Soul Surfer

Bethany Hamilton is a natural surfer with a knack for snagging the sickest waves. But when the jaws of one hungry shark rip away her hope, future, and arm, she faces great difficulties in her everyday life.

But she has to push through her adversities, especially if she ever wants to get back on a surfboard.

21. A Beautiful Mind

This movie is inspired by the real-life story of John Nash, a mathematician. A brilliant and anti-social man, Nash tries to navigate his years in college and make connections with others.

But amazingly, he makes an astonishing breakthrough in his field that takes him to new heights. Despite these heights, Nash also encounters serious lows. [Read: Signs of social anxiety that hold you back & how to overcome it]

22. Brittaney Runs A Marathon

Brittaney’s party-hard lifestyle takes a quick turn when she’s told by her doctor that she’s unhealthy, unhappy, and needs to lose weight.

Unable to get a gym membership, she sets small goals for herself to exercise and compete in a marathon, also finding friends along the way.

This comedic and heart-warming movie is more about exercise—it’s about taking charge of your life and achieving your dreams.

23. Seabiscuit

Seabiscuit is a heartwarming story told during the Depression era. The main character, Charles, invests his time in a team of underdogs in horse racing.

His quirky teammate and an unconventional racing horse rehabilitate his life and the lives of their adoring fans during the hardships of the era.

24. Everything Everywhere All At Once

This film took the world by storm in 2022, and for good reason. It tells the story of Evelyn Wang, a hardworking mother and wife who tries to cope with her unsteady laundromat business, her failing marriage, and also her judgmental family. [Read: Stages of grief in divorce, ways to read them & the right steps to cope]

She encounters a rift in space and is submerged into a multiverse that opens her eyes to the possibilities of her life in parallel universes.

Evelyn uses her experience from each universe to navigate her broken relationships in her real timeline and see her worth. This is an intimate story about heartbreak, family dynamics, sci-fi, adventure, comedy, and kindness all in one.

25. The Bucket List

Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman join together in this film about companionship and finding the joys of life despite a negative situation.

They play two terminally-ill men who meet in a cancer treatment facility and go on a road trip together to complete their bucket lists.

26. Lone Survivor

If you’re looking for a movie about leadership, dedication, and drive, Lone Survivor is a great motivational movie to watch.

It tells the true story of a Navy Seals team mission that took a devastating turn for the worst. Despite their setbacks, they pushed through.

27. Cinderella Man

Another true story, James Braddock is a boxer during the Great Depression. By the 1930s, Braddock hit rock bottom, much like the rest of the population during this era.

But through his hardships, he never lost his will to keep moving forward and be the best version of himself. He carried his spirits high and set on a journey to fulfill his hopes and dreams. [Read: 17 signs of a supportive partner who encourages you & your goals]

28. The Legend of 1900

A coal worker on a ship finds an abandoned baby and is determined to raise him as his own. He names the child and hides him from the ship’s cruise.

The child, named Danny Boodman T. D. Lemon 1900, lives in hiding on the ship until he pursues his natural gift of piano playing.

It tells an inspirational message that no matter your circumstances, you can succeed with enough determination and hope.

29. Chariots of Fire

Based on a true story, Chariots of Fire follows two British track athletes and their attempts to compete in the 1942 Olympics.

Rather than a film focusing on sports, this movie focuses on the human experience and what drives these two characters to succeed in their sport. It’s about drive, motivation, personal reflection, and also passion. [Read: How to handle the pressure to live life to the fullest and thrive]

30. 12 Years a Slave

12 Years a Slave is a film that stays with you for life. Often referred to as one of the greatest cinematic pieces in history, this inspirational true movie tells an almost entirely forgotten story of a slave named Solomon Northup.

Soloman is a well-educated family man living in New York in 1841, a time after slavery was outlawed. But this ruling didn’t overwrite the cruel reality of human trafficking, which Solomon was subjected to. It tells the gruesome experience of his fight to stay alive and keep his dignity.

31. Hacksaw Ridge

Desmond Doss is a WWII medic played by Andrew Garfield in this chilling retelling of the battle in Okinawa. During this bloody battle, Doss saved over 70 lives without carrying a single weapon onto the battlefield.

His courage and faith have been admired long before the movie’s debut, and this retelling only brings more praise to his bravery and dedication to love. [Read: 25 must-know secrets to be successful in life & transform your future today]

32. The Green Mile

Adapted from Stephen King’s novel The Green Mile, this inspirational story follows the imprisonment of the main character, John Coffey told from the point of view of a death-row prison guard. It tackles the injustice system and also opens audience members’ eyes to society’s morality.

It is a serious wake-up call to those who judge people by their outward appearances and qualities.

33. My Left Foot

My Left Foot tells the story of a man with cerebral palsy who makes the best of his shortcomings. Christy Brown is born into a poor Irish family and is disregarded by society for his handicap. However, he goes on to become an established writer and painter using only his left foot.

His story highlights the unshakable will of the human spirit to succeed despite all odds. Brown’s strength, drive, and optimism still hold as incredibly inspirational even 35 years after the film’s release. [Read: What should I do with my life? 22 steps to find a way when you feel lost]

34. Erin Brockovich

Julia Roberts stars in this true story of an unemployed single mother who becomes a legal assistant to investigate a California power company that she believes is profiting from poisoning residents.

Despite her battered looks and the judgment of others, she is driven to fight for what she believes in no matter who stands in her way.

35. Hachi: A Dog’s Tale

Hachiko is a well-loved and admired dog whose story has been retold for many decades however, its grip on people’s hearts never falters.

His story takes place in Japan in 1923 where he lived on a farm with his owner, Hidesaburō Ueno. After Ueno’s shift at work, Hachiko greets him at the train station every day for years. This story exemplifies true loyalty, willpower, and love.

36. Slumdog Millionaire

An 18-year-old orphan from the slums of Mumbai gets presented with the opportunity to turn his life around by joining India’s Who Wants To Be A Millionaire as a contestant. But his luck turns around quickly when he’s suspected of cheating and is later arrested.

Because of the main character’s lack of education, he’s taken into question how he’s so knowledgeable about the show’s content. From here, he shares his life and love troubles, eventually revealing his true motivations. [Read: The honest truth – can money buy happiness in love?]

37. Schindler’s List

This historical drama follows a German industrialist during the time of the Holocaust. He opened his business to thousands of Jewish people to save them from the cruelty of concentration camps.

It is based on the true story of Oskar Schindler, whose vain and greediness evolved as he became an unlikely hero.

38. Yes Man!

Yes Man! is perhaps one of the greatest inspirational movies for anyone who feels stuck in a rut. Jim Carrey plays a man lost for luck until he attends a motivational seminar. Here, he’s told to say “yes” to everything. Although it wasn’t meant to be taken literally, he does just that.

Carrey’s character says yes to every question thrown his way. This comedic plot delves into the truer meaning of the human experience—trying new things, following what makes you happy, and living your life for yourself. [Read: 32 secrets to be present & live in the moment when life is speeding past you]

39. The Greatest Game Ever Played

Francis Ouimet is an underdog who came to shock the golf world when he set out to compete with his idol and golf champion, Harry Vardon.

His perseverance, passion, and strive despite the judgment of others is truly an inspiring story.

40. Coach Carter

This sports drama stars Samuel L. Jackson as real-life basketball coach Ken Carter. Carter accepts the job of coaching his old high school’s basketball team.

However, he comes to find its players are underdisciplined and failing in academics and sports. He sets out to change the team’s behavior through a strict regime that teaches them the value of life. Carter uplifts his team’s spirits and the audience members’ spirits.

[Read: How to take that first step towards success – everything you need to know]

Through their powerful storytelling, these inspirational movies will motivate you to see yourself and the world differently. So whenever you’re feeling stuck, pop one of these in, sit back and let your motivation return to you.

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Everybody remembers the hot and heavy erotic novels that took the world by storm just a couple of years ago. But steamy romance movies are not always as cheesy as steamy romance novels. They can have some amazing acting, wonderful plots, and of course, sexy scenes.

Whether you are stuck in a rut, in the mood for some loving, or just want to turn movie night into something a whole lot hotter, check out this undeniable list of steamy romance movies to get you in the mood.

[Read: How to get in the mood for sex – 17 horny tricks]

Why we love steamy romance movies

The love of steamy romance movies is nothing new, people have loved these films since film was created. And it isn’t just about the sex. If you just wanted sex, you’d watch porn, right? Then there’s no obligation to care about the plot – not that there is one anyway!

Steamy romance movies are the opposite of porn movies. They’re all about the chemistry between the characters, the music, the passion, and the tension. Sometimes, people won’t even have sex on screen. They’ll just talk or think about it. And that’s more than enough for a seriously sexy film!

You don’t have to be in a relationship to enjoy steamy romance movies, either. Sure, they can be a great way to create a sexy atmosphere on a date. But even if you’re single, watching a few sexy scenes has a ton of benefits.

These movies can get you in the mood, help you release any tension, or be a good prerequisite to some of your own steamy romance. So, that’s a few reasons why we love steamy romance movies. [Read: Sexy questions for couples to keep that spark going]

Our favorite steamy romance movies

Action films, horror movies, and chick-flicks are all well and good to watch. However, sometimes you need to add some spice to your movie night.

So, if you’re looking for something steamy to watch alone or with your partner, then check out our list of the best steamy romance movies.

1. Nymphomaniac: Volume I and II (2013)

Lars Von Trier, without a doubt, has to be on this list of steamy romance movies. The Nymphomaniac movies tell the story of a sex addict, and the struggles and trauma she goes through throughout her life.

Okay, each movie is over two hours long, but it’s worth it. The films go into depth about the character and what made her do what she does. Is there nudity? Yes. Are there moments that make you squirm? Yes. It has it all – even some spanking. [Read: BDSM tips and tricks for curious first-timers]

2. Blue Is the Warmest Color (2013)

This French film tells the story of a teenage girl exploring her sexuality with a blue-haired art student. It’s a passionate love story, and because it’s a French film, add another layer of passion on top!

Once you press play, you won’t be able to stop watching. So if you have any plans, cancel them – because this movie is over three hours long. The scenes are extremely sexual and passionate. And there’s quite a bit of nudity, so don’t watch this with your parents. It won’t be fun for you, or them.

3. I Am Love (2009)

Sex and drama, how can the two not go together? Some people think she looks like an alien, but Tilda Swinton plays quite the sex kitten in this film. Plus, the director is Luca Guadagnino, who’s also the director of another of our faves, Call Me By Your Name.

Swinton plays the Russian-born matriarch of a rich Italian family, who has an affair with their chef. Unfortunately, the affair threatens to completely ruin her life as she knows it… Dun dun duuuuun.

4. Y Tu Mana Tambien (2001)

What do you get when you have two young teenage guys and a 28-year-old married woman on a road trip together? Well, you’ll have to watch this steamy romance movie to see. This movie includes everything that’s probably going through your mind.

Best of all, Alfonso Cuaron also directs it. If you don’t know who he is, he directed Children of Men and Gravity—so it’s going to be good. [Read: Arousing sex fantasies to try in real life]

5. Fatal Attraction (1987)

Here’s the storyline: man has an affair with a woman, man wants it to end, but the woman doesn’t. Then she goes insane. This is a classic storyline, but Fatal Attraction is the first movie ever to try it. It’s hot, it’s passionate, it’s naughty. It’s the ultimate steamy romance movie! And it’s from the 80s, so they all have crazy hairdos.

6. Gloria (2013)

There aren’t too many steamy romance movies out there that focus on middle-aged people… Usually, it’s always about young, hot people. But in this case, you’ll be pleasantly surprised – it’s about older hot people.

This Chilean film follows the story of a middle-aged, divorced woman looking for love by going to singles’ dance clubs. Does she find love? Of course. Does it come with its own drama? How could it not? [Read: Movie date – how to create sexual chemistry]

7. Basic Instinct (1992)

This movie created Sharon Stone. Mainly, it was *that* interrogation scene which made her into the sex symbol she is today. Stone’s character, a crime novelist, becomes a suspect in the death of a rock star. Then, she seduces the homicide detective into a steamy relationship.

Of course, this is a classic situation we’re sure all of us have been in. Anyways, just watch it. You can’t go wrong with watching this movie.

8. Dirty Dancing (1987)

There’s just something about Patrick Swayze that will always be sexy. We think it’s the arms. Anyways, this movie made Patrick a sex symbol. Plus, have you seen his dance moves? That’s one graceful man. It’s pretty steamy. Like, the way he lifts her… Mmmm…

Oh, right, the movie. In this steamy romance movie, a rich family goes on vacation to a resort. The main girl, Baby, played by Jennifer Grey, gets close with the dance instructor, Johnny, aka. Patrick Swayze. Yeah, now you got the wheels turning. [Read: Date night movies to get you both in the mood]

9. Cruel Intentions (1999)

Ah, Reese Witherspoon. Innocent Reese. This steamy romance flick follows the story of two super-rich step-siblings – Kathryn and Sebastian – who make a cruel bet that Sebastian can take naive Annette *Witherspoon*’s virginity.

Well, as you can imagine—the challenge was accepted! Her boyfriend in the film is Ryan Phillippe. And we all know they got married in real life, so you can only imagine how intense the scenes are between them.

10. Young & Beautiful (2013)

This movie tells the story of a teenage girl experimenting with her sexuality by secretly being a prostitute. It’s interesting to see what hides behind her innocent face. Is she hiding it from her friends and family? Yes. So, you can only imagine the buildup in this film.

It’s intense and oh-so-steamy. Sure, there are subtitles — but don’t you start sighing! Reading is great, and trust us, this movie is worth it.

11. Boogie Nights (1997)

This steamy romance movie came out when Marky Mark was just stepping into the limelight. Mark Wahlberg stars as a young man in the 70s, getting into the porn industry. There is a prosthetic penis in the film, but you can pretend it’s the real deal. That’s what we did—it helps you sleep better at night.

If you think Boogie Nights is all about glamor, well, you’re half right. But it also depicts the dark side of the porn industry. [Read: Uncovered secrets about the female porn industry]

12. Sleeping Beauty (2011)

We don’t mean the Disney movie! In this erotic thriller, a young college student becomes a niche sex worker for a high-end brothel where customers pay to touch her while she sleeps. Doesn’t sound creepy at all, eh?

It’s an amazingly odd film, but it’s a really great watch. Emily Browning does an amazing job, and she’s basically nude for half of the film. Which, kudos to her, takes balls — figuratively speaking.

13. Fifty Shades of Grey (2015)

How could this movie not be on the list? This is the definition of a steamy romance movie, and there are several sequels to get through once you’re done.

Based on books that were originally Twilight fanfiction, this is the adult version of a dark, brooding guy who falls for a simple yet unique lady. Instead of vampires and werewolves, you get BDSM, stalkers, and revenge – which takes this romance from PG-13 to R-rated. [Read: Movies to watch with your boyfriend – 30 films he’ll love]

14. Call Me By Your Name (2017)

The beauty of the Italian scenery, the romance, the ’80s attire… It’s all stunning. Italian director Luca Guadagnino stunningly depicts the budding romance between a seventeen-year-old student and his older lover.

As he falls in love with his father’s research assistant over an unforgettable summer, Timothee Chalamet’s character learns about his true erotic self. You might not feel the same way about peaches after this one, though.

15. Out of Sight (1998)

Jack Foley, played by the handsome George Clooney, is the most successful bank robber in the country. But upon breaking out of prison, he meets Karen Sisco, played by Jennifer Lopez. Although she is everything he wants in a woman, she is also a federal marshal.

They have to choose between their jobs, the law, and their romance. Tough choice, right? Especially when your girlfriend’s Jennifer freaking Lopez! [Read: How to have great sex – 46 expert-level tips and tricks]

16. Unfaithful (2002)

This erotic thriller stars Richard Gere and Diane Lane as a married couple. However, things aren’t as good as they may seem. Before long, Gere’s character discovers his wife has been lying about an affair!

But instead of fighting, counseling, or other methods, he confronts her lover. From there, the rage he experiences is like nothing he’s felt before. If you’ve ever been wronged in love, this steamy romance movie will really touch your emotions.

17. Titanic (1997)

This is a classic among the classics. It has everything you want in a movie, especially a hot and steamy romance movie.

Jack and Rose fall in love across class lines and share an unforgettable romance during their voyage on the Titanic. However, as we all know, there’s a big iceberg floating in the way of their happily ever after.

It’s all about the Romeo and Juliet type of passion and longing. Plus, the fact that it’s all going down during a crisis is heartbreaking, hot, and unforgettable.

18. How Stella Got Her Groove Back (1998)

Stella is a stockbroker who is less than unlucky in love. But, when her friend, played by Whoopi Goldberg, whisks her off to Jamaica, she engages in a sexy fling with a younger man. But, by the end of her vacation, she realizes it might be more than she bargained for. Can their relationship withstand their age difference and geographical distance?

19. The Girl Next Door (2004)

High school senior Matthew Kidman, played by Emile Hirsch, is an overachiever to the point of boredom. Then, his dull life turns upside down when he falls for his new neighbor. His fantasies of her spin out of control when he finds out she is a porn star. But his emotions are deep.

He discovers his sheltered life was nothing compared to the love and adventure he can find with the girl next door. They even make their own sex tape at one point! [Read: Hot sex ideas to blow your partner’s mind]

20. Blue Valentine (2010)

Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams star in this understated romance. They play a couple living a seemingly simple life. However, as you watch, you see their relationship slip away. What seemed to have so much potential is ruined by everyday problems.

Now, this might just sound like watching an everyday relationship, but don’t be fooled. Gosling was nominated for a Golden Globe for his performance, whilst Michelle Williams narrowly missed out on the Oscar for Best Actress. So you can expect some steaming hot performances in this one.

21. Brokeback Mountain (2005)

Brokeback Mountain is one of the most iconic gay romance movies of all time.

A rodeo cowboy, played by Jake Gyllenhaal, and a ranch hand, played by Heath Ledger, are hired as sheepherders in Wyoming. One night after a drunken tryst, they start an affair that spans marriages, children, and 20 years. Be prepared – this one will make you cry!

22. Ghost (1990)

This is not your typical steamy romance movie, one of the sexiest scenes in the film takes place between a woman and the ghost of her lover. Not only does the love and passion between these two outlive even death, but there is a crime to solve in the midst of this heartbreaking tale.

If you’re not creeped out by the idea of having sex beyond the grave, this is the perfect steamy romance movie for you. And even if you are freaked out, this fact might change your mind – the ghost is played by hunky 80s heartthrob Patrick Swayze. [Read: 20 unromantic movies with surprisingly romantic twists]

23. After (2019)

In her first year of college, a young and inexperienced woman begins dating a bad boy with a poor attitude, violent outbursts, and secrets. Although he seems to respect her desire to slow things down physically, their passion overwhelms her, and they have sex. This seems to derail a lot of her plans for her life, and things become hazy.

This movie is all about the transformative effect great sex can have on your life. Sometimes, feeling intense passion can change everything you thought you knew about yourself. The whole point of After is capturing that feeling.

24. Eyes Wide Shut (1999)

This erotic mystery stars former married couple Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman. Cruise’s character is shocked to discover that his wife has had fantasies about cheating on him. From there, he becomes obsessed with having an adulterous sexual encounter, so much so that he finds himself in the middle of an orgy.

Eyes Wide Shut was directed by one of the best directors of all time: Stanley Kubrick. That means you can expect stunning visuals and a pacy plot, as well as some super steamy sex scenes! Also, did you know that Kidman and Cruise were married in real life when they made this movie? Knowing that fact makes things extra spicy.

25. Good Luck to You, Leo Grande (2022)

Who doesn’t love Emma Thompson? If you’re still crying over her heartbreaking scenes in Love Actually, this movie might help you dry your tears. Thompson plays Nancy Stokes, a retired schoolteacher who feels fed up with her humdrum life. In search of sex and excitement, she hires young sex worker Leo Grande, played by the dishy Daryl McCormack.

However, Nancy ends up finding a closer connection with Leo than she anticipated. There’s a lot of sex in this movie, and all of it features the older female lead. This steamy romance movie just goes to show that you can still be sexy at any age!

26. Love & Basketball (2000)

Love & Basketball combines representation and sex appeal, following the romantic relationship between two young Black Americans. Monica and Quincy are two childhood friends who both dream of becoming professional basketball players. Throughout the movie, we experience the ups and downs of their careers and their lifelong love story.

This movie is great for people who love sports. Producer and Hollywood legend Spike Lee insisted that the leads in this movie both had real basketball skills, so both of the actors are semi-pro players too. [Read: Get in the mood with these 15 movies with a lot of sex]

27. Malcolm & Marie (2021)

A filmmaker returns home with his girlfriend following a celebratory movie premiere as he awaits what’s sure to be an imminent critical and financial success. The evening suddenly takes a turn as revelations about their relationships begin to surface, testing the strength of their love.

The movie stars John David Washington and Zendaya as the central couple. On top of this, the whole movie is filmed in black and white for an extra classy artistic vibe.

28. Lady Chatterley’s Lover (2022)

This classic story is so steamy that it was banned in England and the publishers had to go on trial to be allowed to sell the book. It follows the story of aristocratic lady Constance Chatterley, who is unhappily married to her wheelchair-bound husband, Clifford.

When Constance meets her estate’s gamekeeper, Oliver Mellors, they embark on one of the hottest affairs ever recorded on screen. There’s a reason why this story has been notorious for over 100 years! It really is one of the steamiest romance movies around.

29. Something New (2006)

This movie is directed by Sanaa Hamri, the lead actress from Love & Basketball. She also stars as successful single accountant Kenya McQueen, who lives a super uptight and rigid lifestyle. She’s never had time for love, so she decides to open up and try a series of blind dates.

When she meets her blind date, she’s surprised to discover he’s white. The story goes on to navigate their culture clash, exploring interracial dating and African American family values. [Read: 30 famous movie lines you can use to woo a guy or gal]

30. Duck Butter (2018)

Ever thought you knew your date, only to find out that everything was totally fake? That’s the kind of dishonesty the lead characters in Duck Butter are sick and tired of.

In hope of changing their attitudes to dating, they decide to try an experiment: they make a pact to spend 24 hours together, having sex every hour. That way, they can experience their relationship on “fast forward” – with nothing fake, and everything laid bare.

This is a powerful gay love story that’ll really make you think about art, love, and sex. Also, it’ll teach you the term “duck butter”. Don’t Google it though, seriously. It’s gross.

31. Friends With Benefits (2011)

In this movie, a young man and woman decide to take their friendship to the next level without becoming a couple, but soon discover that adding sex only leads to complications. Did we mention that the couple are played by Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis? Who wouldn’t want to see them have sex?

While they’re trying to have no-strings sex, the two characters are forced to confront their emotional pasts. Jamie, Mila Kunis, is seriously emotionally damaged, whilst Dylan, Justin Timberlake, is emotionally unavailable. It really shows you how things that happen in our past can affect our present.

32. Addicted (2014)

Based on the bestselling erotic novel, this is a tense and steamy romance movie with tons of thrills. It follows the story of a successful art collector and gallerist, who risks everything – her career, her family, and even her sanity – by embarking on an affair with a talented painter whose work she exhibits. It’s all about lust and uncontrollable desire. [Read: 40 romantic movie quotes about love and relationships]

33. Deep Water (2022)

Deep Water is an unsettling tale of infidelity and betrayal. Ben Affleck plays a rich husband who allows his beautiful wife, Ana de Armas, to have affairs in order to avoid a divorce.

However, things get complicated when he becomes a prime suspect in the disappearance of one of his wife’s lovers. This movie is based on the 1957 novel by Patricia Highsmith, so expect lots of mystery and intrigue alongside the steamy sex.

34. Fatal Attraction (1987)

This classic 80s erotic thriller stars Basic Instinct‘s Michael Douglas and is solidly one of the steamiest romantic movies of all time. The film centers on a married man who has a weekend affair with a woman, played by Glenn Close. But when he tries to break things off, she refuses to let go – with crazy and catastrophic results!

Fatal Attraction was nominated for a heap of Oscars, including Best Picture and both lead acting awards. It also spawned the phrase “bunny boiler”, to describe a sexy but deranged woman. Trust us, Glenn Close’s character is one of the craziest girls in cinema. [Read: The realistic romance movies that can teach you a lot about love]

35. Yes, God, Yes (2019)

Set in the fall of 2000, this movie follows Catholic teenager Alice on a journey of self-discovery. After an innocent AOL chat turns racy, she discovers masturbation and struggles to suppress her new urges in the face of eternal damnation.

If you’re looking for a short but sweet coming of age story – with lots of religious-themed laughs along the way – then this is the movie for you.

36. American Pie Presents: Girls’ Rules (2020)

American Pie movies aren’t usually known for their steamy romance, they tend to be funny or gross instead of sexy. However, this ninth movie in the series is a little different as it doesn’t feature any of the regular characters and focuses totally on a group of girls.

Steve Stifler’s cousin, Stephanie Stifler, bands together with her four best girlfriends on a quest to have the best senior year ever. Their saga includes sex toys, blowjobs, pajamas, and John F. Kennedy – and it’s just as hilarious as it sounds. By the end of the movie, they’ve all managed to achieve their goal of losing their virginities. Not that it was easy!

37. MILF (2018)

Speaking of American Pie, here’s another movie all about MILFs. In the south of France, three best friends in their 40s navigate loss and heartbreak while embarking on torrid affairs with much younger men.

It’s sexy, funny, and French – which pretty much guarantees it’s going to be steamy. Cécile, Sonia, and Elise’s realization that they’re still sexy is super empowering, too. [Read: 20 enlightening movies all about sexuality]

38. Emmanuelle (1974)

This might be an old movie, but that doesn’t make it any less sexy. In fact, this movie was so explicit that it was censored for years – the uncut version wasn’t allowed to be released until 1984. Even then, it had to carry an X-rating! Some critics at the time called it straight-up porn, but we think it’s definitely more of a steamy romance movie.

Emmanuelle is a beautiful 19-year-old model who has just married an older man, a diplomat named Jean. They move to Bangkok together, but Emmanuelle finds her life dull and uninspiring. What she wants is an affair. But to have one, she needs to learn to have sex without guilt. Cue lots of hot sex scenes with every other character!

39. Elisa and Marcela (2019)

For hundreds of years, gay people have faced prejudice. It’s this prejudice that prevents Elisa and Marcela from getting married, even though they’ve been in love for years. To evade the law, they decide to dress up as a heterosexual couple – and become the first same-sex couple ever to get married in Spain.

Although this movie is set in 1901, it still has lots of beautiful, moving, and hot sex scenes. It’s truly a love story for the ages. [Read: Netflix and chill – how to do it the right way]

40. The Piano Teacher (2001)

This movie won the Grand Prix at Cannes in 2001, along with Best Actor and Actress for the two leads. Isabelle Huppert and Benoit Magimel play a piano teacher and student, who share an intense sadomasochistic relationship at a Vienna Conservatoire. It’s stylish, psychological, and very, very kinky.

This isn’t one for the faint-hearted, though. Critics described Huppert’s performance as “a rich incarnation of a woman we might see on the street, and never guess that she contains fires, earthquakes, and infernos”. If you want a disturbing but compelling watch, check this one out.

41. 9 1/2 Weeks (1986)

Another 80s steamy romance movie! In this one, Kim Basinger portrays a New York City art gallery employee who has a brief yet intense affair with a mysterious Wall Street broker, played by Mickey Rourke. Don’t worry, this was before the boxing – so they’re both as hot as each other!

Rourke and Basinger’s affair grows into a BDSM arrangement, where Rourke orders her to perform increasingly intense sex acts and plays twisting mind games. At first, it’s fun, but things soon get complicated.

42. An Easy Girl (2020)

This French comedy drama follows Naima, the sixteen-year-old daughter of a cleaning lady. She has given herself the summer to choose what she wants to do with her life before an important audition. However, she’s then swept up into the life of her glamorous, sexually liberated older cousin Sofia.

Sofia hooks them up with a duo of rich art collectors, who whisk the girls away on their private yacht for a summer of luxury, opulence, haute couture, great restaurants, and sumptuous Mediterranean villas.

43. Don Jon (2013)

Written, starring, and directed by Joseph Gordon-Levitt, this movie tells the story of a womanizing playboy who decides to change his ways. Jon Martello is tired of his overwhelming sex life and decides to fix his unhealthy relationship with pornography and sex.

This is a totally different role for Joseph Gordon-Levitt, who 90s kids will remember as the dorky friend in 10 Things I Hate About You. Here, he perfectly captures Jon’s emotional journey as he reconnects with himself. While also “reconnecting” with Scarlett Johansson. [Read: 20 of the most romantic seasonal winter movies]

44. Oh, Ramona! (2019)

This Romanian movie follows a teenager named Andrei as he enters the world of romance. He has a crush on the “hottest girl in school”, Ramona, who also likes him back. However, he’s also falling for his vacation romance, Anemona. This is another steamy romance movie all about a love triangle.

45. You Get Me (2017)

Sex symbol and OnlyFans star Bella Thorne plays the lead in this sexy thriller. A one-night stand turns into a nightmare for a high-school student when a young woman’s obsession grows dangerous. Everywhere he goes, she follows him – determined to either have him or ruin his life.

You Get Me offers a fresh, modern, and youthful take on the Fatal Attraction formula. [Read: The famous movies that teach bad lessons about love]

46. Dry Martina (2018)

Dry Martina is about a former young singing star – sort of like an Argentinian Britney Spears. Since Martina’s fame faded, she has become completely uninterested in sex and disenchanted with love.

Yet when her sister arrives with her sexy boyfriend, Martina’s sad tale transforms into a steamy romance movie. Martina’s sister encourages her to take a trip to Chile and rediscover her libido. There are tons of twists and turns in this one, so it’ll keep you guessing right until the very end.

47. Cuddle Weather (2019)

Why is it people always get to pay for sex, but nobody gets to pay for cuddles? That’s the question the lead characters in Cuddle Weather are asking. Experienced sex worker Adela teams up with newbie Ram, for some loud, cuddly, no-strings sex. It seems like their “cuddle partner” arrangement is working out just fine. Until one of them starts to catch feelings… [Read: The modern movie couples we can all learn from]

48. The Handmaiden (2016)

Korean director Park Chan-wook is usually known for his violent revenge flicks, such as Oldboy and Lady Vengeance. However, his BAFTA-winning film The Handmaiden is definitely more of a steamy romance movie. Set in 1930s Korea under Japanese colonial rule, it depicts the relationship between a young maid, Sookee, and her Lady, Hideko.

Initially, Sookee seems to be just an ordinary loyal servant. But in fact, she is a pickpocket involved in a plan to seduce the Lady, rob her of her fortune, and lock her up in a madhouse. The plan works – until Sookee’s passionate relationship with Hideko gets in the way.

49. Secretary (2002)

Secretary is all about… you guessed it, a secretary. Maggie Gyllenhaal stars as a woman named Lee Holloway, who gets a job as a secretary for a demanding lawyer after being released from a mental hospital. However, their relationship quickly goes from employer-employee, to master-slave. Their sadomasochistic relationship leads to plenty of spicy sex scenes.

50. The Voyeurs (2021)

The Voyeurs stars Sydney Sweeney as Pippa, half of a young couple who have just moved in together in Montreal. Pippa and her boyfriend soon become obsessed with the lives of their neighbors, Rear Window-style, they’re convinced that both of the neighbors are cheating on each other.

Every night, they watch the neighbors having wild encounters, and before long, Pippa’s having sex with the husband. In the end, all of these movies involve watching other people have sex. At least The Voyeurs acknowledges it!

[Read: The flirting moves you can learn from famous movies]

So, grab some popcorn, get snuggled underneath the sheets, and watch one of these steamy films. Who knows, maybe one of these movies will inspire you and your partner?

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As someone who is both a movie buff and the girlfriend of a boyfriend who isn’t the biggest fan of romantic movies, I can tell you that agreeing on a movie to watch can get complicated. But, after two years together, I have discovered the best movies to watch with your boyfriend that you will both enjoy.

I’d never say all guys hate rom-coms or romance movies but forcing your boyfriend to sit through a sap-fest when he prefers action and adventure can be tough. So, instead, finding a compromise within these great movies that serve to both your tastes is ideal. [Read: 69 best & most romantic movies that are a must-watch in 2023]

Finding Good Movies to Watch With Your Boyfriend

Before I offer you a full list of movies you and your boyfriend are sure to like, here is some advice on movie hunting.

Firstly, if you and your boyfriend don’t click on movie tastes, it is not the end of the world. You don’t need to have the same favorite movies to enjoy watching them together.

Not only is compromising a great thing for your relationship, but opening up to new things that you wouldn’t have watched before is great. For instance, I had never seen the Marvel movies, Lord of the Rings, or Star Wars before meeting my boyfriend. I had no interest, but I watched because he wanted me to, and now I’m a huge fan.

I’ve also introduced him to some movies he was sure he wouldn’t like, and he adores them now. So you never know what branching out might offer both of you. [Read: Compromise in a relationship: Ways to give & not feel like you lost]

The Best Movies to Watch With Your Boyfriend

You may not be able to head to your local Blockbuster to pick a movie together, but with Netflix, Hulu, Disney+ and oh so many more streaming services, the options of movies to watch with your boyfriend is essentially endless.

For those of you struggling to work together, the following movies to watch with your boyfriend should get you started on your next at-home date night.

1. Up

If you believe in adventure and adorableness, then watch this movie together. Whether you’ve already seen it or not, you can’t watch this one enough.

This sweet and heart-warming cartoon follows a grumpy old man on a life-long journey that is hilariously interrupted by a young scout, a dog, and much more chaos. Why is this a good movie to watch with your boyfriend? It is full of fun, laughter, and even a few tears. [Read: 40 romantic movie quotes about love and relationships]

2. 50 First Dates

So your boyfriend keeps telling you you’re so forgetful? Then hit the couch together, grab some popcorn, and watch this Adam Sandler flick. Enjoy the laughs you share, especially with the ever-present Rob Schneider in the cast.

This flick is about a playboy who falls in love with a girl with no short-term memory due to an accident. So now, he makes it his mission to get her to fall in love with him every day. And who is this lucky lady? None other than the talented and gorgeous Drew Barrymore.

3. Along Came Polly

A perfect mix of quirky, funny, and unpredictability *well, sort of* from an unlikely pair: hot Jennifer Aniston and the comic Ben Stiller. This romantic comedy helps ease you into the many discomforts you go through early in the relationship. This flick highlights everything from having sex with a new partner to suffering from embarrassing bathroom incidents.

This is a good movie to watch with your boyfriend because it shows how two very opposite people can still be attracted to each other and how they make things work. [Read: Romantic clichés: What rarely works in real life & those that surprisingly do]

4. Slumdog Millionaire

This movie is an undying testament to how game shows like Who Wants to Be a Millionaire can change your life. Well, no. Seriously, this movie is one of those intelligently done films.

And this isn’t just any love story. This film shares the beautiful and heartbreaking journey of a boy from the slums and his journey to being part of the infamous game show, finding love, and more. Overall, a great movie if you and your boyfriend want to be enveloped in an intense and adventurous story.

5. Love and Basketball

This is a chick flick with an underlying sports theme that is wonderfully well done. It has gone down as a romantic classic for a reason.

It follows a childhood relationship into adulthood, and portrays the difficulties of balancing family life, careers, and relationships. If you are craving a romance and your boyfriend is in the mood for sports, this with satisfy you both.

6. A Quiet Place

The popular movie starring real-life couple John Krasinski and Emily Blunt will terrify you and move you. This horror film is not what you’d expect. It shows the struggles of a family trying to survive monsters that hunt sound.

Not only will you love cuddling up with your guy for the scarier scenes, but it is a good movie to watch with your boyfriend because it has something for everyone. [Read: Hopeless romantic: What it means, 28 signs you’re one & the big struggles]

7. The Lord of the Rings

The Lord of the Rings trilogy is a commitment, but a worthwhile one. These films tell the story of the fantasy novel by J.R.R. Tolkien. Adding this collection of films to your viewing list will please your boyfriend to no end.

This is a multilayered epic about friendship, loyalty, and love. Watching this trilogy together will bond you. Not only will the story reach even the deepest parts of your soul, but the length of time you’ll sit and enjoy the acting, the plot, and the cinematography will bond you.

8. How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days

With the charming and ageless Kate Hudson paired up with hunky fellow A-lister Matthew McConaughey, the result is a movie worth watching many times. Hudson just glows, and McConaughey is every man’s man, making this flick really work. All the mind games, trickery, and battle of wits from both endearing characters prove to be a perfect movie to watch with your boyfriend.

9. Pretty Woman

Playboy billionaire who won’t commit meets southern belle-turned street hooker. An unlikely pair, alright, but it works! This classic romantic movie, stars Julia Roberts and Richard Gere and explores how love blossoms in the most outrageous setups and in the most unlikely couple.

This may be more of a chick flick than some others on this list, but if you can sit through something like Baywatch for him, he can watch this. Plus, who wouldn’t want to see Julia Roberts for an hour and forty minutes? [Read: 69 best & most romantic movies that are a must-watch in 2023]

10. My Best Friend’s Wedding

Another of the best performances of Julia Roberts, this movie actualizes the belief that there really is no such thing as friendship between men and women because, eventually, one falls for the other. Whether this is similar to your love story or not, the clever comedy and charm of young Cameron Diaz should be enough to suck you in. [Read: What do guys think of their female friends? Secrets revealed]

11. Star Wars

Ah, this classic. Watch the original three if you really want to enjoy it like a longtime fan.

This is not just a trilogy about space wars but rather about friendship, love, and second chances. This is such a good movie to watch with your boyfriend because he gets the adventure and intensity he wants, but it is so beautifully paired with the emotions that grab your attention.

If you’re anything like most of the world, you’ll love it so much that you’ll want to watch the prequels and sequels as well. [Read: Growing together if you started your relationship young]

12. Hitch

A little run-of-the-mill rom-com, this movie stars Will Smith in the lead role. He helps guys get their moves on and snag the girls of their dreams. However, Smith himself is a far-cry from smooth and suave as he tries to woo the gorgeous Eva Mendes.

This movie has some gut-wrenching physical comedy scenes as well as the sweet and touching moments you crave.

13. The Big Sick

This movie is based on the true story of how Kumail Nanjiani met and wooed his real-life wife. Your boyfriend will love the awkward moments between Kumail and his girlfriend’s parents as they all navigate the most important woman in their world, being in a coma. It is such a serious story with such heart and humor.

14. The Princess Bride

Obviously, this is a classic, and if you and he haven’t seen it yet, well, I’m losing hope in you. But, even if you’ve seen it, I’m guessing it has been a hot minute since then. So, sit back and relax while Westley and Buttercup go through trial and tribulations with the help of some unlikely friends to ultimately find their happy ending.

This is a movie for the young, the old, and everyone in between. If your boyfriend doesn’t like this movie, it may be time for find a new boyfriend. I’m kidding. Sort of. [Read: Accidental love – Love lessons from “Serendipity”]

15. Deadpool

If you wanted the perfect movie to watch with your boyfriend, this and its sequel, Deadpool 2 are what you want. This is hilariously dark and raunchy, yet it has those touching moments of romance you want too. It has gorey action and violence mixed with a shockingly heartbreaking story about a man who would do anything to survive and save the love of his life.

Ryan Reynolds kills in his performance as Deadpool. If you want to laugh your head off and maybe shed a few tears, this is the movie you need to watch now. [Read: 50 romantic winter movies to warm your heart & toes in the cold season]

16. Titanic

Of course, a classic. This movie doesn’t even have to try to be part of the list. It’s just a beautiful, heart-warming-and-then-heart-crushing tale of two strangers of different social classes who meet in a grand ship, only to be pulled apart by tragedy.

Excellently crafted, with plenty of unforgettable scenes, such as when Leonardo DiCaprio’s character, Jack, draws Rose, played by Kate Winslet. Surely, your boyfriend would love to watch the movie a few more times just for this scene. [Read: 20 romantic secrets & examples to write a love letter & melt their heart]

17. Always Be My Maybe

This is a newer and maybe less well-known movie, but that shouldn’t take away from its perfection. Co-written and starring comedians Ali Wong and Randall Park, this romantic comedy is so unexpected and refreshing.

It follows the lives of two childhood friends into their careers and a newfound relationship. But their history and differing lifestyles throw a wrench in their plans and could end not just their romance but also their friendship. With the addition of some killer scenes starring Keanu Reeves, you and your boyfriend will crack up.

18. I Love You, Man

This buddy comedy isn’t just for your man. Paul Rudd stars as a wonderful boyfriend who just happened to have no friends of his own. That is until he meets, Jason Segel’s character and they start bonding over some super unique stuff.

Their friendship is the bromance every guy dreams of and is seen through the most hilarious lens. The guest stars in this movie alone make it perfect for you to watch with your boyfriend. [Read: 72 bromandments: The bro code rules every guy must know & follow]

19. Bridesmaids

You know that time in your life when you’re single, you haven’t figured out your career, and it seems like every moment that could turn out badly does? That is what this movie centers around. Kristen Wiig stars as Annie, a failed bakery owner, letting men treat her poorly, who is just at a bad spot, but whose best friend is marrying the love of her life.

An oddball group of ladies gets together for the bridal events, and so much nonsense ensues. Sure, it is a mostly female cast, but that’s what makes it so great. You and your boyfriend will adore this movie.

20. Friends With Benefits

Did you have a FWB situation with your boyfriend before you settled down? Even if you didn’t, this sexy and hilarious rom-com starring Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis will make you wish you had. It is clever, joyous, and have some awesome cameos from Emma Stone and even Shaun White.

This is a good movie to watch with your boyfriend because it is simple fun. It doesn’t require a ton of emotion or thought. It is just your classic romantic comedy, but not so cutesy.

21. Forgetting Sarah Marshall

This is the movie that started the male-driven romantic comedies. Instead of following a sad woman who is single or dealing with heartbreak, this movie stars Jason Segel trying to come to terms with a major breakup. But, when he takes a trip to unwind, his ex is there with her new beau.

It shows the deepest lows of a breakup and the awkwardness that is facing an ex that you’re just not over. Your man will definitely find this relatable, and you will find it oddly insightful. [Read: Bumped into your ex? 19 super-cool ways to show them YDGAF]

22. You’ve Got Mail

Okay, this may have made this list because it is one of my personal favorites, but it is still worthy of this list regardless of my personal feelings. This classic 90s romantic comedy stars the one and only Tom Hanks, and the rom-com icon herself, Meg Ryan.

Sure, this may not have the hot sex scenes, action, or even intense humor that some other movies on this list have, but, so what? What more could you want than two dueling bookstore owners in New York catching feelings for each other?

23. About Time

This is a sweet movie about love, life, and a unique father son relationship. This isn’t necessarily a comedy, but an underrated one. It shows a young man come of age and learning that like his father, he can go back in time. With this new power, he struggles to use it to his advantage.

Through love, parenthood, and loss, he learns the true meaning of life while having some funny encounters along the way. It may sound somewhat deep, and that’s because it is, but it is driven with a remarkable cast and clever dialogue.

24. Marley and Me

Trying to convince your boyfriend to adopt a dog with you? Well, this movie could really push him either way. Jennifer Aniston and Owen Wilson star as a couple that adopt a puppy and it follows that trio throughout marriage, kids, and more.

This sweet comedy is more than romance. It shows how a pet, even a crazy one, can truly impact your life. Just a warning, have a box of tissues ready. [Read: Adopting a pet? The true signs you’re ready to get a pet together]

25. We’re the Millers

Another Jennifer Aniston led comedy, but this one is much more rated R. With amazing casting additions like Jason Sudeikis, Emma Roberts, and Nick Offerman, you cannot go wrong. The Millers, a made up family trying to get an RV of drugs across the border, come across some unique characters that make their trip a bit more than they bargained for.

This isn’t just hilarious, but it even has some pretty sweet and romantic moments as well. Don’t get me wrong, the intense level of comedy overpowers them, but they’re there if you want them.

26. Meet The Parents

This Ben Stiller classic that casts Robert DeNiro as former CIA future father-in-law is comedy gold. This is the perfect movie to watch with your boyfriend to prepare him for meeting your parents. It will show him the worst of the worst things that could happen, so he’s ready for anything. [Read: How not to screw up when meeting the parents for the first time]

27. Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind

This is one of Jim Carrey’s most underrated films. Co-starring Kate Winslet, this movie deals with the fallout after a breakup. It is a balance of sci-fi, romance, and indie genres. There really isn’t a better way to explain, so you’ll just have to watch.

Suppose it seems like something you or your boyfriend might not like. Then, I encourage you to give it a chance. My boyfriend actually got me to watch it because he likes it so much, and I am now a convert.

28. A Star is Born

There are number of versions of this movie, but I have to recommend the most recent starring Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper. This modern version of a classic story is heartbreaking, beautiful, and cinematic perfection.

I do also want to let you know that it is NOT a musical if you and your boyfriend are firmly against those. This movie features rock music, a little pop, and some amazingly vocalized ballads, but they work with the plot, and there are no choreographed dance numbers. However, the chemistry and vocals shared between the stars are unmatched and cannot be missed. [Read: 20 most romantic songs for the one you love]

29. Forrest Gump

This is an epic love story for the ages. Tom Hanks absolutely kills his role as a young man facing bullies, reality, and politics while being raised by a single mother in the south. His life experiences span the globe as he finds true friendship, love, and more than ever imagined.

30. Bicentennial Man

I had to include at least one Robin Williams classic on this list. This movie takes place in the not-so-distant future. Williams plays a robot butler who falls in love with his human family and has humanity within him that is so unique.

The movie follows him through generations as he learns what it truly means to be a family, be in love, and be human.

[Read: 20 unromantic movies with surprisingly romantic twists]

Of course, there are other great movies to watch aside from these, but if you’re clueless about what movies to watch with your boyfriend, this is a great list! Enjoy!

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The idea of realistic romance movies or rom-coms is often mocked. The guy gets the girl. A grand gesture means more than months of respect and kindness. Chemistry counts for more than communication.

As an avid romance movie watcher and lover, I have seen my fair share. And 90% of them, although enjoyable, are so unrealistic they can be painful to watch.

Now, I am not saying the movies I’m sharing here are 100% realistic in every way, but the romance is certainly believable. [Read: How to be more romantic: 46 cute ways to melt your partner’s heart]

What is a Realistic Romance Movie?

I’m sure you can identify a nonrealistic romance movie from a mile away. Let’s name a few just to make sure: The Notebook, Pretty Woman, You’ve Got Mail. Now, I have nothing against these movies, they are actually some of my favorites.

You cannot argue that watching a couple that has everything going against them work it out and have a happily ever after is enjoyable. But, sometimes you just want to see yourself and your love life represented on the big screen. You want to see people break up or enjoy being single. [Read: 42 secrets to be happy being single & alone and lessons it can teach you]

A realistic romance movie is about romance based on practicality rather than happily ever after. It is a movie inspired by true events or true feelings, not dreams and fairy tales. It is a movie you can relate to.

A realistic romance movie does not tell you that you can be awful to someone and expect them to forgive you because you made a speech in front of their coworkers. Instead, it shows how your words and actions matter.

A realistic romance movie teaches you right from wrong. It shows characters dealing with the consequences of their actions, not being rewarded for a brief shining moment. [Read: 40 romantic movie quotes about love and relationships]

Realistic Romance Movies You Can Learn From

Romance movies do not have to be cheesy, corny, and fake. Find the right ones and you can actually enjoy them as if they were based on reality.

So, whether you hate rom-coms or just roll your eyes every time the couple ends up together despite everything else that happens in the last 20 scenes, these movies are for you.

1. My Best Friend’s Wedding

This 90’s classic features Julia Roberts, Cameron Diaz, and Dermot Mulroney. From the start, we follow our anti-hero, Julianne *Roberts*, who is determined to breakup her best friend’s wedding because after years of maybes, she finally wants to be with him.

Throughout the antics and even a classic sing-along scene you think she is going through these trials to finally be with the guy she has lusted after for years.

But, instead, we see a woman who is selfish and a bit deranged end up alone. We see a couple that is in love overcome doubts. We learn how valuable a true friend can be. [Read: 33 secrets to be true to yourself & 15 signs you need to unfake your life]

2. Bridget Jones’s Diary

In case you were unaware, Bridget Jones’s Diary is based on the classic Jane Austen novel, Pride and Prejudice. This movie is a modern-day reimagining of a recurring theme in romance all over the world.

In a movie obsessed with judgment and self-pity, Renee Zellweger finds herself while weeding her way through the ploys of Hugh Grant’s character and the miscommunication from Colin Firth’s.

While it has a happy ending, it shows you how opening your eyes and your mind can lead you to actual happiness, not what you thought you wanted. [Read: 34 true secrets to find love & why you haven’t found the right person yet]

3. The Break-Up

The Break-Up is a 2006 rom-com featuring Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston living in a stunning condo. Then, their long-term relationship takes a hit. Although over the top at times, this romantic comedy is one of the most realistic in Hollywood.

This is a couple that cannot seem to let go of each other. They are petty, juvenile, and jealous. Although they both know deep down they are not meant to be together, they are comfortable and can’t seem to move on from a tumultuous situation. I can name five people in my life that have lived this.

This movie is hilarious, full of awkwardness. Plus, it features the stunning Jennifer Aniston. But, it also shows how a real relationship unfolds.

4. Before We Go

This is one of my personal favorite movies. It is certainly underrated. But be warned, the ending leaves a lot unsaid, but it is spectacularly relatable.

It features two of the most attractive actors, Chris Evans and Alice Eve. They play two strangers that just happen to stumble upon each other in New York.

Throughout the events of the night, they form a bond. They keep secrets from each other but still have a connection and chemistry that cannot be missed.

But, instead of dropping their responsibilities and running away together, they are forced to come to terms with their decisions and face their fears.

This movie reminds me of a fantastic first date where you feel an undeniable bond from the start. You open up and expect something to happen. You think this date could change your life. But, things do not always work out how you hoped or imagined. [Read: 41 best sad movies to heal your broken heart, make you cry & feel better]

5. The Big Sick

The Big Sick is a realistic romance movie because it is based on the true story of how the co-writer and main character Kumail Nanjiani met his real-life wife, Emily.

The movie starts with a meet-cute. They start an enjoyable romance but end it due to cultural differences.

Soon after the breakup, Emily lands in the hospital with a serious illness. Although no longer together, Kumail sticks around to face her outspoken parents, stand up to his own family, and realize what he truly wants.

This is a story of love, unlike most romance movies. This shows the external struggles that are often removed from movie plots but are things we all face in a serious relationship. [Read: Cross culture romance: 40 secrets to have a happy intercultural relationship]

6. The New Romantic

This movie just released last year and is stacked full of new faces. Instead of a fairytale-like romance, this movie shines a light on dating in the modern age. It shows the lack of romance that we often see where swiping right is the equivalent of sweeping someone off their feet.

The New Romantic follows Blake through her love life… or lack thereof. She learns what romance really is and what she truly wants it to be.

This movie makes you question a lot of what we think is romantic and what we actually want from a partner.

7. Enough Said

Finally, a romance that stars actors over 40. Just that alone makes it a whole lot more realistic. The talented James Gandolfini and superb Julia Louis-Dreyfus team up to play single parents trying to find love later in their lives.

It shows you that just because you are more mature does not mean you know it all. Being open and honest is front and center in this movie and shows there are truly two sides to every story. It is not the most glamorous romance, but it will leave you smiling.

8. La La Land

I know, I know, a musical cannot be a realistic romance movie, but give it a chance. I for one did not see what the fuss was about with La La Land. Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone are fantastic actors and the film is beautifully shot, but I wasn’t really getting it, up until the end.

This movie features a couple with their own dreams. They want to be together, but are they willing to compromise their life’s work for each other? Is there a way they can both get what they want? Or do sacrifices always have to be made?

9. My Big Fat Greek Wedding

This movie screams 2002. It is funny. It is ridiculous. And it is family. This movie does not feature the most attractive actors in Hollywood. It does not show a dysfunctional relationship working out right at the end.

What it shows is a true romance between two people from different worlds. They have a healthy relationship. They talk, they are open and honest, and they trust each other. And they put up with their crazy families, as we all do because they love each other. [Read: 20 healthy expectations in a relationship that define a good love life]

10. It’s Complicated

Another realistic romance movie that reminds viewers that glowy skinned twenty-somethings are not the only ones with romance on the brain.

Meryl Streep, Alec Baldwin, and Steve Martin star in this hilarious and relatable romantic comedy about dating after divorce.

It tells older viewers that love is still out there. It shows younger viewers that growing up doesn’t mean you stop making mistakes. And it really makes clear the difference between a healthy relationship and a chaotic one.

[Read: 50 best steamy romance movies to get you both hot, naughty & in the mood]

So, which of these realistic romance movies are you going to watch tonight?

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When it comes to the season of romance, winter faces stiff competition. Spring boasts greenery and blossoms, summer offers lakeside skinny-dipping and city park picnics, and autumn dazzles with scarlet and crimson canopies. Yet, winter has its own charm, especially when cozying up with romantic winter movies that turn the cold weather into an excuse for warmth and closeness.

Even with this intense competition, winter holds a special place in the soul of the romantic—the starkness of a white winter backdrop almost seeming to highlight the warmth of human emotion.

Not without reason, then, the season has produced some of the most classic and heartwarming cinematic offerings. Of these, the following twenty are what we consider the absolute best. [Read: Movies to watch with your boyfriend: 30 films he’ll love]

50 Best Romantic Winter Movies Ever

As the first flakes of snow start gently falling, transforming the world into a serene winter wonderland, there’s no better way to embrace the season than by cuddling up with the best romantic winter movies.

These films are perfect for warming the heart and soul, creating an ideal backdrop for love to blossom against the chilly outside air. Whether you’re looking to ignite a spark or keep the flame burning bright, these movies offer the perfect mix of romance and cozy winter charm.

1. Groundhog Day *1993*

“Groundhog Day” has a strong opening score for what is, essentially, a comedy—mainly due to Bill Murray’s masterly performance as a cynical weather reporter who keeps reliving the same day over and over again.

During his repeated days, he is shown falling in love, over time, with the female TV producer who has accompanied him.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

2. The Holiday *2006*

Cameron Diaz and Kate Winslet’s characters do a holiday home swap to escape the winter blues and the men who have ruined their lives… both accidentally falling in love with the friend/brother of the other. [Read: Things I learned about love from watching The Holiday]

Our winter romance rating: 8/10

3. Friends with Kids *2011*

An independent film with a killer cast, this romantic comedy offers a more contemporary view of winter romance, as well as a beautiful, well-rounded, and real-world grittiness.

Our winter romance rating: 6/10

4. Bridget Jones’ Diary *2001*

This most famous of female farces plots the efforts of one singleton to make a decision over the right man for her: either the charming womanizer, played by Hugh Grant, or Colin Firth’s surly gent.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

5. White Christmas *1954*

There’s little more to be said about this 1954 Bing Crosby movie than this: if you haven’t seen it yet, then you need to do so-immediately. This film is the king of the Christmas romance classics. [Read: Should you spend the holidays together? Or is it too soon?]

Our winter romance rating: 8/10

6. Love Actually *2003*

This film scores so highly, as it offers not just one romantic plot, or even two, but a dozen beautifully crafted tales—from the hilarious story of the English guy who travels to the US to let his accent do the hard work, to the genuinely striking romance between Colin Firth’s character and the Portuguese maid who wins his heart.

Look out for a couple of cameo appearances by Rowan Atkinson, of Mr. Bean fame, as a modern-day Christmas spirit.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

7. Winter’s Tale *2014*

A supernatural fantasy romance, this film might have been a box office flop, but won us over. “Winter’s Tale” explores the relationship between the spirit world and the real world against the backdrop of a beautiful New York winter.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

8. Edward Scissorhands *1990*

Remember the scene with the ice sculptures? Now is the time to renew your relationship with Depp’s outlandish character and the young, estranged girl who falls in love with him.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

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9. Love Story *1970*

“Love Story” is a beautiful tale, which explores the classic theme of a man giving up his wealth and inheritance to be with the woman he loves. The conclusion is epically tragic but, set against a running winter’s theme, a timeless romantic classic.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

10. Dr. Zhivago *1965*

A little heavy for some, this story of a man and woman’s love for each other, set to a backdrop of a snow-laden winter in revolutionary Russia, is regarded as not only one of the best romantic movies, but one of the best movies ever made.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

11. The Empire Strikes Back *1980*

This is the second of the original Star Wars franchise, set on the snowy planet Hoth. Action packed sci-fi though it may be, Leia’s blossoming romance with cocky Han is actually quite touching… especially at the end, when he is captured.

Our winter romance rating: 6/10

12. Serendipity *2001*

Two people shopping at Bloomingdale’s for their respective partners start a chain of events revealing that destiny has plans for them to be together. The clue is in the title. [Read: Accidental love – Love lessons from Serendipity]

Our winter romance rating: 8/10

13. The Office *2005-2013*

Not strictly speaking a movie, but a two-part Christmas special from the UK’s “The Office” series. Easily as good as the U.S. counterpart, if not better, the relationship between Dawn and Tim that has proved so desperately fruitless throughout the series, finally blossoms in a scene that is one of the most touching and heart-warming that this writer has ever seen. This is comedy at its beautiful best.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

14. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind *2004*

A stunning piece of art, as well as an amazing winter tale of romance, this movie plays with the traditional concept of love overcoming all in an untraditional manner, and is possibly Jim Carrey’s strongest performance to date.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

15. Just Married *2003*

A newly-married couple take a winter holiday in Europe, which ends the honeymoon period with sudden and violent rapidity. Of course, love conquers all and the happy ending is never far away. [Read: Famous romantic moves that teach really bad lessons about love]

Our winter romance rating: 6/10

16. The Gold Rush *1925*

Once again, comedy shows itself to be a great facilitator of romance, and in the hands of the master, Charlie Chaplain, we are presented with the first true winter romance.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

17. Beauty and the Beast *1991*

Disney does romance undeniably well, and with a little sprinkling of winter in its tale, this entry definitely deserves both its place and its rating. [Read: 30 famous movie lines you can use to woo any guy or girl]

Our winter romance rating: 8/10

18. It’s a Wonderful Life *1946*

Officially the most popular Christmas film of all time, this entry is ostensibly a retelling of the classic Scrooge theme. The numerous flashbacks to the protagonist’s days of courting the woman destined to become his wife win this movie a place on the seasonal romantic hit list. It boasts a wonderfully charming performance by Jimmy Stewart.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

19. Elf *2003*

Will Ferrell as an Elf in New York might not seem a typically romantic theme, but the relationship he strikes up with the dry and cynical female lead, slowly converting her to his joyful ways, really is quite sweet.

Our winter romance rating: 6/10

20. Titanic *1997*

Not typically considered a Christmas or winter movie, its inclusion is solely by merit of it entering icy arctic waters. That, and the fact that it has entered the annals of movie history as the most successful romance of all time.

Our winter romance rating: 8/10

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21. The Family Stone *2005*

The Stone family’s annual Christmas gathering is a mixer of comfort and chaos, where the eldest son brings his straight-laced girlfriend home, hoping to get his family’s blessing for marriage. The cold winter air is thick with tension as her attempts to fit in chill the holiday warmth.

Miscommunications and personality clashes lead to humorous encounters, but as the frosty barriers melt away, unexpected bonds form, showing that love can be as unpredictable as a winter storm.

Our winter romance rating: 7.5/10

22. While You Were Sleeping *1995*

It’s a winter’s tale as old as time in Chicago, where a transit worker, Lucy, pines for a handsome stranger she knows only from afar. After rescuing him from the tracks, she’s mistakenly identified as his fiancée while he’s in a coma, and she’s welcomed into the warm embrace of his family during the holiday season.

The situation becomes comically complicated when she falls for his brother, which makes her question everything as she stumbles through the snowflakes of deceit. [Read: Complicated relationship: What it is & the best ways to fix it or get out of it]

It’s a heartfelt journey that proves love can be found in the most unexpected places, even amid the frosty muddles of a wintery mix-up.

Our winter romance rating: 8.5/10

23. The Shop Around the Corner *1940*

Set against a snowy Budapest backdrop, two shop employees constantly at odds with each other live for the letters they receive from their dear anonymous pen pals.

Little do they know, their correspondents are much closer than they think—just a counter away. As they navigate the busy Christmas rush and their personal animosities, the cold winter serves as a foil to the warmth of their growing feelings for their pen pals.

This movie is a charming reminder that sometimes love is hiding in plain sight, wrapped in winter scarves and misunderstandings.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

24. The Best Man Holiday *2013*

Years after their college days, a group of friends reunites over the Christmas holidays, only to find that time doesn’t always change old feelings.

The snowy holiday setting is perfect for rekindling old flames and stirring up old rivalries, with plenty of laughter and tears along the way. As they navigate the complexities of their relationships, the characters learn that the warmth of friendship can thaw even the longest-held grudges. [Read: True friendship: 37 Real friend traits & what it takes to be a good, loyal one]

This winter romantic movie is a testament to the enduring power of love and friendship, especially around the holidays.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

25. Happiest Season *2020*

In this holiday comedy, a woman plans the perfect Christmas to propose to her girlfriend at her family’s party, only to discover that her partner hasn’t yet come out to her conservative parents.

The wintry setting heightens the tensions of a family striving for perfection during the holidays, leading to a comedic cascade of secrets and revelations.

Amidst the festive lights and yuletide cheer, the movie explores the complexities of love, family, and the courage to be oneself.

This winter romantic movie wraps up the message that the best gift of all is being true to who you are and whom you love. [Read: 25 perfect gifts to get your girlfriend for Christmas]

Our winter romance rating: 8/10

26. Carol *2015*

In the frost-bitten New York City of the 1950s, an elegant and sophisticated woman finds herself in a chance encounter with a young, bright-eyed shopgirl.

The winter chills are soon forgotten as they embark on a journey of self-discovery and forbidden love that defies the era’s norms.

As the snow gently blankets the city, their bond deepens, challenging the societal expectations that seek to divide them. “Carol” is a beautifully crafted winter romance that speaks to the timeless nature of love and the courage it takes to follow one’s heart against the blizzards of adversity.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

27. Last Christmas *2019*

A heart like a snow globe, full of whimsy yet shaken by life, Kate meanders through London, making a mess of her life and her job at a year-round Christmas shop.

Enter Tom, a man who seems too good to be true and challenges her cynical world view, bringing a touch of magic to her mundane life. As the city transforms into a winter wonderland, Kate learns to put the pieces of her life back together in ways she never expected. [Read: I’m so bored with life: 20 ways to bring the spark back when life is boring]

Full of holiday cheer and unexpected twists, “Last Christmas” is a love letter to the joys and trials of the season.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

28. The Age of Adaline *2015*

Adaline Bowman has a secret—due to a rare occurrence, she’s remained 29 years old for nearly eight decades, never allowing herself to get close to anyone who might reveal her truth.

During a particularly snowy season, she meets Ellis Jones, a charismatic and endearing philanthropist who ignites the spark of life and romance she’s been avoiding.

As the winter deepens, so does their relationship, forcing Adaline to make a decision that could change her life forever. This film weaves a magical tale of love that stands the test of time, set against the backdrop of a world in the constant flux of seasons.

Our winter romance rating: 8/10

29. The Longest Ride *2015*

In the winter white of North Carolina, two love stories intertwine when a college senior and a bull-riding cowboy fall in love, and an older man reflects on his past romance after a car crash. Through the old man’s memories, the young couple learns about the sacrifices and rewards of enduring love.

As they face their own trials, the couple finds inspiration in the winter-bound tale of an enduring past romance, discovering that love can be as resilient as the evergreens under the snow. [Read: How to face relationship challenges & overcome them as a couple]

“The Longest Ride” offers a poignant look at the many facets of love, with the winter setting serving as a stark, beautiful metaphor for life’s trials and triumphs.

Our winter romance rating: 7.5/10

30. The Holiday Calendar *2018*

A talented but struggling photographer inherits an antique holiday advent calendar, which may or may not be predicting the future and pointing her toward love.

As the winter days pass, each door she opens leads to unexpected encounters and takes her one step closer to finding a love she didn’t even know she was seeking. Amid the snowy backdrop of the season, the calendar is a source of wonder and mystery, and her heart must decide if she’s willing to take a leap of faith. [Read: How to trust again & give someone your heart when you’re scared]

This winter romantic movie is a sweet reminder that sometimes, the path to love is lined with the twinkling lights of possibility and a bit of holiday magic.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

31. You’ve Got Mail *1998*

In this quintessential winter romantic movie, the frosty streets of New York City set the scene for a complex love affair between two bookshop rivals.

Online, they are anonymous email confidantes sharing their lives and growing close with every ‘You’ve got mail’ chime, unaware of their real-world enmity. The chilly weather pushes them into cozy cafes and the warmth of heartfelt conversations, fostering a digital romance that eventually forces them to confront their offline personas.

“You’ve Got Mail” showcases the complexities of modern love, reminding us that the heart often knows before the mind catches on.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

32. When Harry Met Sally… *1989*

Can men and women ever just be friends? This question lies at the heart of a winter romantic movie that follows Harry and Sally through years of chance encounters in New York City.

As the seasons change and the two navigate the complexities of friendships and relationships, the cold winter backdrop mirrors their evolving connection. [Read: 40 secret signs a friend likes you romantically even if they’re hiding it]

With witty banter and iconic scenes, the film captures the humorous and often messy nature of love and friendship.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

33. The Lake House *2006*

Time itself seems to pause for winter in this romantic drama where an architect and a doctor exchange letters through a magical mailbox, connecting them across years.

The frost-covered lake house serves as the nexus for their growing bond, which develops into love despite the barrier of time.

The movie delicately explores the threads of fate and timing in relationships, all set against the reflective stillness of the winter season. [Read: Right person, wrong time? 28 scenarios & secrets to time things right in love]

Our winter romance rating: 7.5/10

34. The Princess Switch *2018*

A cozy winter romantic movie that takes ‘trading places’ to a heartwarming level, featuring a duchess and a commoner who are identical lookalikes.

The holiday season serves as the perfect backdrop for a switch that leads to unexpected romances for both women. With the festive spirit in the air and a sprinkle of royal charm, they navigate their new lives while finding love in the most surprising of circumstances.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

35. About Time *2013*

As the winter chill sets into the English countryside, a young man discovers he can travel in time and uses this extraordinary ability to improve his future and find love.

The movie is a heartfelt journey through the highs and lows of family, love, and the essence of time, emphasizing the beauty of the mundane moments that make up a life.

It’s a romantic tale that encourages viewers to savor every minute, especially those winter moments that seem to hold time still.

Our winter romance rating: 8.5/10

36. Pride & Prejudice *2005*

The biting cold of an English winter fails to stifle the warm embers of romance in this classic tale of misunderstood intentions and the prideful dance of love.

As Elizabeth Bennet and Mr. Darcy navigate the social mores of the time, their initial frigid relations thaw into something much deeper and more tender.

With winter’s touch accentuating the period’s stark beauty, their journey reminds us that love often resides beyond first impressions.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

37. The Notebook *2004*

Not typically categorized solely as a winter movie, this iconic romantic drama features pivotal scenes that unfold against the backdrop of a South Carolina winter.

The stark, leafless trees and the chilling cold mirror the obstacles faced by the young lovers, whose summer passion is as intense as their winter separation. [Read: Fear of losing someone you love: Why you feel it & ways to get over it]

This tale of enduring love moves through the seasons of life, showcasing that true love can weather any storm, be it the scorching sun or the freezing rain.

Our winter romance rating: 8.5/10

38. Sweet November *2001*

A unique take on love blossoms during the chill of winter, as a man learns that he is part of a woman’s monthly ritual—taking in a new lover each month.

November brings a poignant and transformative love story that defies conventional boundaries and timelines.

As the winter progresses, so does their unconventional romance, revealing the depths of connection and the bittersweet nature of their arrangement.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

39. A Christmas Prince *2017*

A wintry European kingdom is the setting for this fairytale romance, where a young journalist finds herself entangled with a handsome prince during the holiday season.

The snowy landscape and regal festivities add to the enchantment, making it a perfect addition to any winter romantic movie list.

As they navigate royal duties and personal desires, the movie wraps viewers in the cozy blanket of a Christmas love story. [Read: How to balance your career, social life, and dating life]

Our winter romance rating: 6.5/10

40. Let It Snow *2019*

This film interweaves the lives of a group of high school seniors in a small town during a Christmas Eve snowstorm. Each character discovers that love and friendship can bloom in the chilliest of times.

As they overcome teenage angst and the struggle to find their identities, the magic of the winter season acts as a catalyst for their romantic entanglements and personal revelations.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

41. The Christmas Chronicles *2018*

While not a romantic movie in the traditional sense, this holiday adventure weaves together themes of family love and the spirit of Christmas.

When two siblings team up with Santa Claus for a night of high-flying holiday hijinks, they learn about trust, family bonds, and the joy of giving.

The warmth of the holiday season radiates through the frosty winter escapades, making it a modern classic for all ages to appreciate the love that defines the holiday spirit.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

42. Cold Mountain *2003*

This epic tale of love set against the backdrop of the American Civil War follows a wounded Confederate soldier as he journeys through a winter-ravaged landscape to return to his love. [Read: What it’s like being a military significant other]

The harshness of the winter mirrors the brutality of the war, yet the flame of love remains unextinguished, guiding him home. This winter romantic movie captures the endurance of love amidst the bleakest of circumstances.

Our winter romance rating: 8/10

43. Last Holiday *2006*

When a shy cookware saleswoman learns she has only a short time left to live, she decides to spend her last holiday in luxurious style, at a posh European resort.

Through a winter landscape straight out of a snow globe, she embarks on a journey of self-discovery and finds romance in the most unexpected places.

This movie is a celebration of life and a reminder to embrace every moment with passion and love.

Our winter romance rating: 7.5/10

44. The Knight Before Christmas *2019*

This Netflix original brings together medieval magic and modern romance when a 14th-century knight, Sir Cole, is transported to present-day Ohio during the holiday season. [Read: Chivalry is dead: What it means, the types of men & why chivalry matters]

He crosses paths with Brooke, a kind-hearted science teacher who’s lost her faith in love. As Brooke helps the disoriented knight navigate the modern world, their shared quest to fulfill his mysterious quest before Christmas Day leads to unexpected romance.

This movie wraps up chivalry, time-travel, and yuletide cheer in a snowy bow, making it a lighthearted addition to the winter romance genre.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

45. The Before Trilogy *Before Sunrise (1995), Before Sunset (2004), Before Midnight (2013)*

These films, although not exclusively winter-themed, capture the romantic journey of two individuals who meet serendipitously on a train to Vienna and spend a night *and eventually a lifetime* together.

As they wander through European locales, the changing seasons, including the starkness of winter, serve as a backdrop to the evolution of their relationship. [Read: Relationship stages: Phases couples go through by months & years]

The trilogy is a profound exploration of connection, conversation, and the bittersweet nature of passing time.

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

46. Dash & Lily *2020*

While technically a miniseries, “Dash & Lily” captures the essence of winter romance across its eight episodes.

Set in a snowy New York City during the holiday season, a cynical Dash finds a mysterious red notebook at The Strand bookstore, containing dares and dreams written by the optimistic Lily.

They exchange messages and dares without meeting, leading to a heartwarming and whimsical romance that explores whether opposites can truly attract.

Our winter romance rating: 8/10

47. Holidate *2020*

In this holiday-themed romantic comedy, two strangers, tired of being single during the holidays, agree to be each other’s “holidate” for a year, committing to accompany each other to festive gatherings.

With no romantic strings attached, they navigate a year’s worth of celebrations, but as they spend more time together, they find that they might be developing real feelings amidst the faux pas and festivities. [Read: 23 signs your friend has a crush on you & can’t wait to date you!]

It’s a modern take on the romantic genre, offering laughs and love with a side of seasonal charm.

Our winter romance rating: 7/10

48. A California Christmas *2020*

Set amidst the rolling hills and vineyards of California, this movie gives a twist to the classic city-meets-country romance trope.

With his mother’s company on the line, wealthy charmer Joseph is tasked with convincing a hardworking farmer, Callie, to sell her family’s land. As the holiday season progresses, his quest is complicated by unexpected feelings that arise between them.

The film offers a sunny backdrop to the typically snowy winter romantic movies, providing a warm holiday spirit that defies the colder settings of its genre contemporaries.

Our winter romance rating: 7.5/10

49. Little Women *2019*

Although not strictly a romantic movie, this adaptation of Louisa May Alcott’s classic novel is woven with threads of romance, family, and the pursuits of four sisters growing up during the Civil War era.

The changing seasons serve as a backdrop to their evolving lives and relationships, with winter’s chill highlighting the warmth of their bonds.

It’s a tapestry of love, loss, and the enduring power of family, beautifully wrapped in the coziness of a New England winter. [Read: Family oriented: The meaning & what it means to be this person]

Our winter romance rating: 9/10

50. Holiday in the Wild *2019*

In this seasonal Netflix film, Kate Conrad, played by Kristin Davis, embarks on a solo second honeymoon to Africa after her husband ends their marriage right before the trip.

The majesty of the African winter landscape and the company of a rugged elephant conservationist, Derek, played by Rob Lowe, lead her on an unexpected journey of self-discovery and a new romance. [Read: 25 self-discovery questions to bring you closer to learning who you are]

The film is a picturesque safari of the heart, demonstrating that sometimes the best gifts are the ones you didn’t know you needed.

Our winter romance rating: 7.5/10

Don’t let the cold of winter get you down. Use it as an excuse to watch some of the most romantic winter movies ever made to warm your heart, as well as your fingers and toes.

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If you’re trying to set up a fun bachelorette party/wedding game filled with romantic movie quotes, or you’re simply looking for a little romantic inspiration, movie quotes are where it’s at. Who doesn’t love mouthing along with their favorites characters’ declarations of love? Whether it’s shout-from-the-rooftop love, or melancholy Gatsby romances, we’ve collected our 40 favorite romantic movie quotes from across the decades! [Read: 55 funny quotes about love and all its complications]

40 Magnificent Quotes About Love

Without further ado, we bring you 40 of the best movie quotes dedicated to L-O-V-E.

1. “He looked at her the way all women want to be looked at by a man.” – The Great Gatsby

2. “It was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, meant we were supposed to be together… and I knew it.” – Sleepless in Seattle

3. “When I look at you, I can feel it. I look at you and I’m home.” – Finding Nemo [Read: Profound relationship quotes anyone can relate to]

4. “You were my new dream.”

“And you were mine.” – Tangled

5. “Why do you want to marry me, anyhow?

“So I can kiss you anytime I want.” – Sweet Home Alabama

6. “Did my heart love till now? Forswear it, sight; for I ne’er saw true beauty till this night.” – Romeo and Juliet

7. “Listen to me, mister. You’re my knight in shining armor. Don’t forget it.” – On Golden Pond [Check out: 30 really sweet & romantic ideas for couples to feel loved & connected 24/7]

8. “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.” – Moulin Rouge

9. “Maybe it’ll be enough, if you know that in the few hours we had together, we loved a lifetime’s worth.” – Terminator

10. “I’d rather die tomorrow than live a hundred years without knowing you.” – Disney’s Pocahontas

11. “May I admire you again today?” – Pretty in Pink [Try: 30 relationship rules, secrets & tips to make your love life way, WAY better!]

12. “I love her and that’s the beginning and the end of everything.” – The Great Gatsby

13. “To me, you are perfect.” – Love Actually

14. “With this hand, I will lift your sorrows. Your cup will never be empty, for I will be your wine. With this candle, I will light your way into darkness. With this ring, I ask you to be mine.” – Corpse Bride

15. “You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how.” – Gone With the Wind [Read: How to be more romantic: 46 cute ways to melt your partner’s heart]

16. “I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss of her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it. One.” – City of Angels

17. “I wish I’d done everything on Earth with you.” – The Great Gatsby

18. “If ever there is a tomorrow when we’re not together, there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we are apart, I’ll always be with you.” – Winnie the Pooh

19. “It’s like, at that moment, the whole universe existed just to bring us together.” – Serendipity [Try: Love at first sight: Why we fall, how it feels & 21 signs to prove it’s real]

20. “We’re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day.” – The Notebook

21. “I like you very much, just as you are.” – Bridget Jones’ Diary

22. “You are my greatest adventure.” – The Incredibles

23. “If I don’t ask you to be mine, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life. Because I know, in my heart, you are the only one for me.” – Runaway Bride [Read: 45 saddest lost love quotes for the broken-hearted]

24. “You have bewitched me, body and soul.” – Pride and Prejudice

25. “You love me. Real, or not real?”

“Real.” – The Hunger Games

26. “You realize that trying to keep your distance from me will not lessen my affection for you. All efforts to save me from you will fail.” – The Fault in Our Stars

27. “You complete me.” – Jerry Maguire [Read: 35 greatest quotes on love, sex, and relationships]

28. “You meet thousands of people and none of them really touch you. And then you meet one person and your life is changed. Forever.” – Love & Other Drugs

29. “My first love was everything all at once.” – Endless Love

30. “When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” – When Harry Met Sally

31. “I promise: I’ll come back for you. I promise: I’ll never leave you.” – The English Patient [Read: 29 secret ways to subtly flirt & make them desire you subconsciously]

32. “Love is passion, obsession, someone you can’t live without. If you don’t start with that, what are you going to end up with?” – Meet Joe Black

33. “Me? I’m scared of everything. I’m scared of what I saw, I’m scared of what I did, of who I am, and most of all, I’m scared of walking out of this room and never feeling the rest of my whole life the way I feel when I’m with you.” – Dirty Dancing

34. “He saved me. In every way a person can be saved.” – Titanic [Read: 36 ways & questions to fix a broken relationship & rebuild it with love]

35. “Death cannot stop true love. All it can do is delay it for a while.” – Princess Bride

36. “After all… I’m just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.” – Notting Hill

37. “You’re a beautiful woman. You deserve a beautiful life.” – Water for Elephants [Try: What is true love? 58 signs & ways to tell if what you’re feeling is real]

38. “What do you want? You want the moon? Just say the word and I’ll throw a lasso around it and pull it down.” – It’s a Wonderful Life

39. “You are a song, a dream, a whisper, and I don’t know how I could have lived without you for as long as I have.” – The Notebook

40. “I’m gonna treat you so nice, you’re never gonna let me go.” – Pretty Woman

[Now that you’ve read other people’s words on love, why not try writing your own? Next, read: 20 romantic secrets & examples to write a love letter & melt their heart]

There you have it: from Disney classics to modern romantic comedies, the most romantic movie quotes to inspire the love within! Do you have some favorite romantic movie quotes that you don’t see listed? Feel free to let us know in the comments below.

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