{"id":76304,"date":"2025-08-21T23:05:32","date_gmt":"2025-08-21T17:35:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/?p=76304"},"modified":"2025-08-21T23:10:46","modified_gmt":"2025-08-21T17:40:46","slug":"how-to-start-sexting-a-guy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/women\/girl-talk\/how-to-start-sexting-a-guy","title":{"rendered":"33 Hot Ways to Sext a Guy &amp; 48 Naughty Examples to Make Him Hot &amp; Hard"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-want-to-turn-up-the-heat-over-text-learn-how-to-sext-a-guy-with-confidence-spice-and-safety-plus-naughty-examples-that-ll-leave-him-wanting-more\">Want to turn up the heat over text? Learn how to sext a guy with confidence, spice, and safety, plus naughty examples that\u2019ll leave him wanting more.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sexting a guy can feel like walking a tightrope, one wrong move and you&#8217;re spiraling into cringe territory. But done right? He\u2019ll be squirming in the best way possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re wondering how to sext a guy without sounding awkward or over-the-top, you&#8217;re not alone. The key is in knowing <em>how to start<\/em>, building tension, and learning how to turn him on with just your words (or, you know, a strategically placed emoji).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sexting isn\u2019t just about turning him on, it\u2019s about teasing, flirting, and deepening your bond, even when you&#8217;re miles apart. Studies show that sexual communication via texting can increase relationship satisfaction and intimacy, especially among younger couples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S0747563224003674\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Silke\u00a0Van Dijck, et al., 2025, The bright side of sexting<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s how to start sexting a guy in 5 quick moves<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><em>Start with a flirty tease<\/em>: \u201cI wish you were here right now\u2026\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Build suspense<\/em>: \u201cGuess what I\u2019m not wearing?\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Make it playful<\/em>: Add emojis or song references for mood<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Be bold but not graphic right away<\/em>: Let the tension build<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Gauge his response and keep going, if he\u2019s into it, you\u2019ll know.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-sexting-and-why-do-guys-love-it-so-much\">What is sexting and why do guys love it so much?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re new to the whole sexting thing and googled \u201chow to sext a guy,\u201d don\u2019t worry, you\u2019re not late to the party, you just haven\u2019t been invited into the spicy group chat yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sexting is sending sexually suggestive or explicit messages to someone you\u2019re into, whether it\u2019s your boyfriend, a sneaky link, or a flirt situation that\u2019s heating up fast. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It can be just a few cheeky texts, or a full-blown, steamy exchange that leaves you both breathing heavy behind your screens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And no, sexting doesn\u2019t <em>have<\/em> to lead to sex in real life. But let\u2019s be honest, if there\u2019s chemistry and trust, it <em>often<\/em> does.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/317600107_Is_Sexting_Good_for_Your_Relationship_It_Depends\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Is sexting good for you?, Drouin et al., 2017<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Start here for a complete guide<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Want a complete step-by-step guide on sexting, dirty talk, and the best secrets to arouse a guy and leave hium throbbing for more? Start with these guides:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/naughty-affairs\/how-to-start-sexting\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">How to Start Sexting: 59 Hot Examples &amp; 51 Sexy Ways to Sext Someone<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/wild-secrets\/20-sexy-questions-to-ask-a-guy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">156 Sexy, Dirty &amp; Spicy Questions to Ask a Guy or Your Boyfriend &amp; Make Him Horny AF<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/sexy-words-dirty-talk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Sexy Words: 27 Seductive Words, Dos &amp; Don\u2019ts to Make Dirty Talk Sound Erotic<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/texts-that-will-make-him-hard\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">113 Sexy Texts For Him to Make a Guy Hard, Turn Him On &amp; Leave Him Horny!<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-tell-if-a-guy-wants-to-sext-you\">How to tell if a guy wants to sext you<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ever had that moment where you&#8217;re flirting over text, and you&#8217;re <em>this close<\/em> to sending something spicy\u2026 but you hesitate? You&#8217;re not sure if he\u2019s just being playful, or if he\u2019s secretly hoping you&#8217;ll take it to a whole new level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s how to tell if a guy is <em>totally down<\/em> for a sext session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-he-drops-subtle-double-meanings\">1. He drops subtle double meanings<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If he\u2019s saying things like, <em>\u201cWish I could see you right now\u201d<\/em> or <em>\u201cWhat are you wearing?\u201d<\/em>, he\u2019s probably hoping you\u2019ll pick up on the vibe and escalate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-he-responds-very-quickly\">2. He responds <em>very<\/em> quickly<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you send a slightly suggestive message and he texts back like he\u2019s been possessed by his hormones? Yeah. He\u2019s into it. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/sexy-text-messages\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">25 Sexy Text Messages to Initiate a Dirty Conversation with Anyone<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-he-sends-flirty-or-suggestive-emojis\">3. He sends flirty or suggestive emojis<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83c\udf51\ud83d\udca6\ud83d\ude08\u2026 If his emoji game includes any of these, he\u2019s trying to hint without spelling it out. Take that as an open door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-he-brings-up-memories-of-intimate-moments\">4. He brings up memories of intimate moments<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Does he text, <em>\u201cI can\u2019t stop thinking about last night\u201d<\/em> or <em>\u201cRemember what we did in the car?\u201d<\/em>? That\u2019s basically him saying: <em>Please sext me.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-he-asks-for-your-pics-or-fantasies\">5. He <em>asks<\/em> for your pics or fantasies<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A guy who\u2019s into sexting might directly say, <em>\u201cSend me a pic\u201d<\/em> or <em>\u201cTell me what you\u2019re thinking about.\u201d<\/em> If he gives you the green light, take the wheel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/281683780_An_Examination_of_the_Nature_of_Erotic_Talk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Peter Karl -PK- Jonason, et al., 2015, An Examination of the Nature of Erotic Talk<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/sizzle\/sexy-dirty-things-to-say-to-your-boyfriend\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">74 Sexy &amp; Dirty Things to Say to Your Boyfriend + Art of Dirty Talk Over Text<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-sext-a-guy-you-like\">How to sext a guy you like<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So how do you actually begin? It\u2019s likely that he has made some kind of suggestive remark in a text message that has got you thinking about sexting. If he hasn\u2019t, it\u2019s totally fine for you to make the first move. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/naughty-affairs\/how-to-sext-the-right-way\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">16 tips you shouldn&#8217;t ignore if you want to be a good sexter<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-start-slowly-and-feel-the-waters\">1. Start slowly and feel the waters <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When you first start sexting your guy, take it slowly and proceed from there. If he has sent you a text message that is a little suggestive, reply with a winking face emoji and a suggestive comment, e.g. \u2018I wish you were here now, we\u2019d have so much fun \ud83d\ude09&#8217; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are no right or wrong words to use, and there are no right or wrong things to say either. It\u2019s what feels good to you both.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-remember-it-s-meant-to-be-fun\">2. Remember it&#8217;s meant to be fun<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sexting is not meant to be ultra-serious, and you are not supposed to be some text-based adult movie star either! Keep it fun, because if it\u2019s not fun, it\u2019s not worth doing. Sexting isn\u2019t always about the actual act of sex, it\u2019s also about having a laugh, staying connected when you\u2019re not together, and deepening your bond.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The more you do it, the more confident you\u2019ll feel, and you\u2019ll come up with more things to say off the bat. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/women\/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women\/how-to-turn-your-boyfriend-on-while-texting\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How to turn your boyfriend on while texting him &#8211; 21 powerful tips<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-think-about-what-you-d-like-to-hear\">3. Think about what you&#8217;d like to hear <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When figuring out how to sext a guy, thinking about what you&#8217;d like to hear is often the easiest way to come up with a few useful messages. From there, just let it flow. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-be-as-descriptive-as-possible\">4. Be as descriptive as possible <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sexting is basically dirty talk via a text message. That\u2019s really what it boils down to. Just use words that evoke a response in that way because it automatically paints a picture in their mind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-if-it-really-makes-you-feel-uncomfortable-just-stop\">5. If it really makes you feel uncomfortable, just stop <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If it truly does feel awkward, cringey, and downright uncomfortable, just stop. In this case, sexting does not need to be a part of your repertoire. Perhaps the more in-person route is for you instead. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/sexy-things-to-text-your-boyfriend\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">76 Sexy Texts to Send Your Boyfriend &amp; Tricks to Get Him Hard Imagining You<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-you-don-t-have-to-send-pictures-but-if-you-do-keep-your-face-out-of-them\">6. You don\u2019t have to send pictures, but if you do, keep your face out of them<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re going to be sending naughty pictures, be careful. Even if you follow all precautionary measures, you could still end up finding your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/sizzle\/how-to-take-good-nudes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">naked selfie<\/a> all over the internet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So in order to protect yourself, just crop your face out of the naughty pics. This really doesn\u2019t change anything when it gets sent to your man. He\u2019ll enjoy it all the same, but you reduce the risk of people knowing who it is in the naughty photo. [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/wild-secrets\/sending-dirty-snapchats\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Warning! How to be careful while sending dirty snapchats<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-don-t-sext-when-you-ve-been-drinking\">7. Don\u2019t sext when you\u2019ve been drinking<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This should be the golden rule. We all need to remove our phones from our grasps when we\u2019ve been drinking because we can do some serious damage without even remembering it sometimes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sexting is OFF LIMITS when you\u2019ve been drinking. Sure, it may help calm your nerves so you can get that sext out, but if you\u2019re not comfortable enough to sext the person sober, then you shouldn\u2019t be doing it at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-delete-photos-after-sending-them\">8. Delete photos after sending them<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Right after you\u2019ve hit that \u201csend\u201d button and the photo is delivered to your special man, go into your photos and delete it. And for you iPhone users out there, you\u2019ll have to go into your \u201crecently deleted\u201d folder and delete it for a second time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This ensures that if you ever need to go back through your photos to show someone something, there\u2019s no risk of them seeing all your lady bits because you didn\u2019t delete that naughty selfie. A hugely important tip for how to sext a guy. [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/wild-secrets\/how-you-can-get-away-with-sending-naughty-photos\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">How to send sexy nude selfies and not get into trouble<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-make-them-do-the-talking\">9. Make them do the talking<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a really great technique for you to be able to sext safely, and it\u2019s also really great for newbie sexters, too. To do this, you just send them a very simple phrase like, \u201cI wish you were here ;)\u201d, followed by a question when they reply.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This works best when you use open-ended questions that are suggestive. Something like, \u201cWhat do you miss most about me ;)\u201d will give him the hint to get talking dirty. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This way, you\u2019re not the one sending all the dirty details\u2026 he is. But it\u2019s still sexting. [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/sexy-text-messages\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">25 sexy text messages to start a sexy, naughty conversation<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-only-do-it-on-your-personal-devices\">10. Only do it on your personal devices<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>An important point when learning how to sext a guy is to never, ever, ever sext when you\u2019re at work and on the company email. And never use a public computer or device to do so, either. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s far too easy for people to access, and you do not want that embarrassment on your hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-work-up-to-the-sexting\">11. Work up to the sexting<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you just dive right in to the sexting world, you\u2019ll be awkward, lost, and you\u2019ll probably not be very safe. The best thing to do to avoid this is to work up to sexting instead of just going for it right away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When learning how to sext a guy, send small, seemingly innocent sexts, and make your sessions really short at first. This will also help you gauge how he reacts and how safe you really need to be with the messages and photos you send. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/women\/attracting-and-dating-men\/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy-over-text\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">80 Flirty Texts, Questions &amp; Naughty Must-Knows to Flirt with a Guy Over Text<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-only-sext-after-being-intimate-in-person\">12. Only sext after being intimate in person<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the best advice we can really offer you because you should never be talking the talk when you haven\u2019t yet walked the walk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t sext someone you haven\u2019t actually been physically intimate with. Firstly, you don\u2019t know what would be effective to get them all hot for you in the first place, and secondly, the trust hasn\u2019t been built that far yet. Who knows how they could misuse the things you say or the images you share?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-if-you-don-t-like-the-sext-don-t-send-it\">13. If you don\u2019t like the sext, don\u2019t send it<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re feeling really uncomfortable about a certain sext and you just don\u2019t want to send it, then don\u2019t. There\u2019s not a rule about how to sext a guy saying you HAVE to send everything you type up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you don\u2019t think you should send it, or if it\u2019s just a little too personal for your taste, just delete it and start completely over. [Read:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/ways-to-talk-dirty-over-text-and-turn-a-guy-on\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">85 Sexting Tips &amp; Examples to Talk Dirty Over Text With a Guy &amp; Get Him Hard<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-14-read-back-over-your-sexts-before-hitting-send\">14. Read back over your sexts before hitting \u2018send\u2019<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This should be an obvious tip for how to sext a guy, yet you see so many damn sexts online that were turned into something\u2026 not sexy at all. And that\u2019s all because someone didn\u2019t read through their message before sending it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In order to make a sext effective, you have to proofread it. You can\u2019t just send a mistake and expect them to stay in the mood, especially if they have no idea what you even mean! [Read:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/texts-that-will-make-him-hard\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">147 Dirty Phrases &amp; Sexy Texts For Him to Turn a Guy On &amp; Leave Him Horny AF<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-15-make-sure-you-trust-who-you-re-sexting\">15. Make sure you trust who you\u2019re sexting<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is by far the most important rule to follow when learning how to sext a guy. You can never send a sext and have it be safe in another person\u2019s hands if you don\u2019t trust them yourself. You have to know that this person isn\u2019t going to show others or laugh at your attempts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trusting whoever you\u2019re sending naughty pictures to is a must if you want to sext effectively as well. Being comfortable is what makes sexts meaningful, and that comfort has to be built on trust. [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/love-couch\/sweet-love\/how-to-build-trust-in-a-relationship\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">How to build trust in a relationship and make it last<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-16-use-the-right-words\">16. Use the right words<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s no good beating around the bush here, if you\u2019re going to learn how to sext a guy, you need to know the words to use. That means not using obscure words and trying to sugarcoat what you want to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to tell him that you can\u2019t wait to touch his dick, go ahead and say it! Don\u2019t come up with an innocent word for the part of his body you want to touch \u2013 be direct! [Read:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/naughty-affairs\/emoji-sexting\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Emoji Sexting: 30 Fun Emojis to Make Any Text Seem Extra Flirty &amp; Naughty!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-17-leave-a-little-to-the-imagination-nbsp\">17. Leave a little to the imagination&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sexting is basically teasing. While we\u2019ve talked about being direct, you still need to hold back just a little. You could say something like, \u201cI can\u2019t wait to see you later, I\u2019ve got some fun in store\u201d and then he\u2019s sure to ask you what that fun is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can then tease him with little snapshots, rather than giving him the full story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-18-you-can-use-voice-notes-too\">18. You can use voice notes too<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Add in a few breathy voice notes to your regular messaging routine, and you\u2019ll have him begging for more! Tell him that you\u2019re touching yourself and thinking about him, and then send him a few seconds\u2019 worth of you moaning for him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He\u2019ll be desperate to get his hands on you! [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/how-to-moan\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">How to moan and look and sound sexy AF when you do it<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-19-do-it-for-you-and-not-for-him\">19. Do it for you and not for him <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>First of all, you do it not to please him but to pleasure your little self. Doing so will make it more natural and less awkward, therefore upping up the ante on the titillation factor. This will also make the experience more fun for you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The more fun you have, the more sex appeal you will channel through your sexts. [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/wild-secrets\/20-sexy-questions-to-ask-a-guy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">20 sexy questions to sext a guy and seduce him discreetly<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-20-building-up-tension-is-important\">20. Building up tension is important <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>What\u2019s exciting about sexting is the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/sizzle\/what-causes-sexual-tension\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sexual tension<\/a> built up over time. Coming on too strong or too fast may throw your guy off, especially if you have just met. Don\u2019t escalate from a simple hello to, \u201cI\u2019m totally touching myself while thinking of you.\u201d\u009d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Start out with a simple text, and get flirtier and flirtier as you progress. Build up the anticipation by making your texts naughtier and naughtier, until your man can\u2019t wait to actually do the deed with you. [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/naughty-affairs\/naughty-texting-games\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Sexy, naughty sexting games to leave you both horny all night long<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-21-use-your-imagination-but-not-too-much\">21. Use your imagination, but not too much! <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Saying that you\u2019re going to tie him up to a pole and whip the bejeezus out of him isn\u2019t something that will turn him on, especially because he knows it\u2019s ridiculously untrue *unless it\u2019s true!*. In fact, it may even freak him out a little.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Always text something that you really plan on doing, so there is follow through. Be imaginative, but don\u2019t make it an utter fantasy or an empty promise. However, if you\u2019re playing the fantasy card and he totally gets the role-play, then text away. [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/wild-secrets\/20-sexy-questions-to-ask-a-guy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">110+ sexy, dirty questions to ask a guy and seduce him in no time<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-22-know-when-to-ease-off\">22. Know when to ease off <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s important to know when to hit the breaks when naughty takes a turn toward being nasty. If he\u2019s sexting you about threesomes or something that is really not your cup of tea, you can either steer the conversation to something else, or you can be vocal, and let him know that you\u2019re not into certain things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being in the heat of the moment doesn\u2019t mean you have to play along with something that you\u2019re really not comfortable with. After all, you should be having fun too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-23-be-open-to-real-text-conversations-too\">23. Be open to real text conversations too <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If your man texts you that he had a rough day at work, don\u2019t respond by saying, \u201cOooh, I\u2019m so horny honey.\u201d Show that you are responsive not only when he\u2019s being kinky and frisky, but that you\u2019re also there for him when he\u2019s down or if he just needs someone to talk to. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t substitute sexting in place of having real conversations or getting to know him even better. Use sexting only as a tool to add spice to the relationship, and not as your sole form of connecting with him. [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/sexy-conversation-starters-to-get-you-both-horny\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The sexy conversation starters to get you both horny<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-sext-a-guy-48-sexting-examples-to-arouse-him-in-minutes\">How to sext a guy: 48 sexting examples to arouse him in minutes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Now you know how to sext a guy, you might need a little inspiration to get you started. Try one or two of these examples, and then let your mind run wild!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. <\/strong>You going to be alone tonight? Want to play a game? [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/naughty-affairs\/naughty-texting-games\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Sexy, naughty texting games to have fun all night long<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. <\/strong>I bet you\u2019d be amazing in bed<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3.<\/strong>&nbsp;I can give you a hand, if you want&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4.<\/strong>&nbsp;I\u2019m about to get in bed, want to join?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5. <\/strong>I\u2019m imagining you\u2019re with me right now\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>6. <\/strong>Thinking about kissing you\u2026 everywhere<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>7. <\/strong>I\u2019ve been wondering lately\u2026 about what you\u2019d do to me <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>8. <\/strong>Be honest\u2026 have you ever fantasized about me?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>9.<\/strong>&nbsp;I think I want you&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>10. <\/strong>I don\u2019t know why, but all I want is sex right now<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>11.<\/strong>&nbsp;I need you here. Now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>12.<\/strong>&nbsp;I keep touching myself&nbsp;[Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/passion-pill\/naughty-playful-texts-to-keep-things-hot-and-horny\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">40 naughty sexts to keep things hot and horny<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>13<\/strong>.&nbsp;Can I have my way with you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>14.<\/strong>&nbsp;I want to serve you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>15.<\/strong>&nbsp;I am so into you, I want to be in you right now<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>16.<\/strong>&nbsp;I feel wasted just by looking at your pictures<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>17<\/strong>.&nbsp;If you could do anything you wanted to me, what would you do? [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/sizzle\/sexy-dirty-things-to-say-to-your-boyfriend\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">60 sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend + the art of dirty talk<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>18.<\/strong>&nbsp;I don\u2019t know what you did to me last night, but\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>19.<\/strong>&nbsp;My _______ gets super ________ when I think about you&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>20.<\/strong>&nbsp;You\u2019re a dirty boy\/girl, aren\u2019t you? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>21.<\/strong>&nbsp;I\u2019m going to wait until you\u2019re begging for more\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>22.<\/strong>&nbsp;Promise not to stop?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>23.&nbsp;<\/strong>Could you go nice and hard on me? [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/fantasy\/how-to-dirty-talk-say-the-sexiest-words\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">23 sexy tips to talk dirty and say the sexiest words<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>24 <\/strong>I want you to go deep inside, hard!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>25. <\/strong>I want you to pull my ________, and force my ________ on your ________<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>26.<\/strong>&nbsp;I\u2019m going to hold your hands down and\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>27.<\/strong>&nbsp;Are you going to _______ for me, baby? [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/naughty-affairs\/random-funny-questions-for-flirty-guys-and-girls\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">36 racy, random questions for flirty guys and girls<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>28.&nbsp;<\/strong>I\u2019m going to _______ you so good tonight<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>29.<\/strong>&nbsp;Mmm, I want to taste myself on your ______&nbsp;[Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/men\/guy-talk\/20-dirty-questions-to-ask-a-girl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">20 dirty questions to text a girl and make her wet<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>30.<\/strong> I had a dream about you last night.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>31. <\/strong>What are you wearing?<strong>&nbsp;<\/strong>[Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/women\/attracting-and-dating-men\/40-flirty-questions-to-ask-a-guy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">40 flirty questions to ask a guy and leave him thinking of you<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>32. <\/strong>What are you doing right now?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>33. <\/strong>If I were with you right now, what would you want to do to me?&nbsp;[Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/wild-secrets\/20-sexy-questions-to-ask-a-guy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">20 sexiest texts to send a guy and seduce him<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>34. <\/strong>Sucking on a lollipop and thinking of you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>35. <\/strong>Lying in bed and bored, want to come over and change that?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>36.<\/strong> I\u2019m horny right now.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>37. <\/strong>Listening to this *insert song with dirty lyrics* and it\u2019s making me think of you.<strong>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>38. <\/strong>What you did to me last night is making me wet just remembering it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>39. <\/strong>I am touching myself and thinking of you. [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/texts-that-will-make-him-hard\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">35 texts to make him hard and crave your touch<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>40. <\/strong>Just out of the shower.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>41. <\/strong>Have I told you how sexy I find you?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>42. <\/strong>I have a surprise for you later.&nbsp;[Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/ways-to-talk-dirty-over-text-and-turn-a-guy-on\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The sexiest ways to talk dirty over text and turn a guy on<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>43. <\/strong>You. Me. Naked. Tonight.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>44. <\/strong>Good morning. I am not wearing any panties today. Just thought you should know. [Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/dating-game\/good-morning-text-important\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">20 reasons a good morning text is so important<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>45. <\/strong>I want to act out your wildest fantasy. Just tell me what it is.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>46. <\/strong>Let\u2019s call in sick and stay in bed all day.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>47. <\/strong>Bring whipped cream.&nbsp;[Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/women\/how-to-tips-and-guide-for-women\/how-to-talk-dirty-to-a-guy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">How to talk dirty to a guy and sound really sexy<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>48. <\/strong>You\u2019re so sexy it takes my breath away.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-new-tech-savvy-ways-to-sext-a-guy\">New Tech-Savvy Ways to Sext a Guy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s be real, sexting isn\u2019t limited to texting anymore. These days, people are getting creative with how they turn up the heat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re ready to level-up your sexy game, here are the most popular ways people are sexting <em>right now<\/em>, and how to do it right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-voice-notes-are-the-new-dirty-talk\">1. <strong>Voice notes are the new dirty talk<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Want to drive him crazy? Whisper into your phone and send a breathy little voice note. Say his name slowly, describe what you\u2019re doing, or let out a soft moan. It\u2019s intimate, raw, and totally addictive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Bonus tip: Use AirPods or headphones to record so your voice comes through clear and extra sensual.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-snapchat-or-instagram-close-friends\">2. <strong>Snapchat or Instagram Close Friends<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>These platforms are made for teasing. A suggestive selfie on IG\u2019s Close Friends story or a disappearing snap with just the right angle? Perfect! Plus, the disappearing feature gives you a little extra peace of mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Just make sure you trust him, and don\u2019t include your face in the shot.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>[Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/sizzle\/snapchat-sexting\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Snapchat Sexting: How to Own Your Lover With the Snap of a Camera<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-use-apps-with-vanish-mode-or-disappearing-chats\">3. <strong>Use apps with vanish mode or disappearing chats<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Instagram DMs now have a \u201cvanish mode,\u201d and WhatsApp has disappearing messages too. Perfect for a little after-dark flirty fun without leaving a permanent paper trail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/chapter\/10.1007\/978-3-319-71882-8_1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Michel Walrave, et al., 2018, Social Media and Privacy in Sexting Behaviour<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-send-sexy-song-lyrics-or-tiktok-audio\">4. <strong>Send sexy song lyrics or TikTok audio<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Text him a suggestive lyric from a steamy R&amp;B song. Or better yet, use TikTok\u2019s audio messages to say something spicy over a trending sound. It\u2019s modern foreplay with a side of creative flair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-use-private-folders-for-saved-spicy-content\">5. <strong>Use private folders for saved spicy content<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Some couples like to keep a little \u201cvault\u201d of shared content on apps like Telegram or even in a locked note on their phones. If you\u2019re deep into sexting with someone you trust, this can be a fun way to keep the heat on low simmer, ready when you both are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Sexting is evolving fast, and it\u2019s no longer just about clever wordplay. Explore different platforms, keep it safe and fun, and most importantly, stay in control of your comfort.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>[Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/naughty-affairs\/naughty-texting-games\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Best Dirty, Sexy Texting Games to Get Naughty With One Text!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-stop-feeling-awkward-and-embrace-the-fun-to-start-sexting-a-guy\">Stop feeling awkward and embrace the fun to start sexting a guy!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The one thing holding most women back when it comes to learning how to start sexting a guy is embarrassment. Perhaps not knowing the right words to say, the risk of sounding weird, or that he\u2019s going to laugh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You want to know the truth? He\u2019s not going to laugh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He\u2019s going to be so over the moon that you\u2019re talking in a suggestive or even dirty way that he\u2019s simply thrilled about the whole thing. To be honest, he\u2019s got his hand down his pants and he\u2019s not laughing, that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The single best way to begin is to embrace the whole thing as a lot of fun. He\u2019s going to be saying things to you, you reply, he\u2019ll say something else, and you might giggle a little, but it will make you smile. That\u2019s the whole point! If you end up getting off on it, well, that\u2019s a very pleasant side effect indeed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-sext-a-guy-and-leave-him-craving-more\"><strong>How to sext a guy and leave him craving more<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The truth is, learning how to sext a guy isn\u2019t about being a wordsmith or a sex goddess. It\u2019s about trust, confidence, and a willingness to play. You\u2019re not auditioning for an erotic novel, you\u2019re letting someone special in on your desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your hands shake the first time you type something spicy? That\u2019s okay. According to research, sexual expression and anticipation, even over text, can deepen emotional intimacy and boost desire over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/342516953_Sexting_and_Sexual_Satisfaction_on_Young_Adults_in_Romantic_Relationship\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Sexting and Sexual Satisfaction on Young Adults, Imelda Oriza et al., 2020<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[Read:&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/sizzle\/signs-hes-making-love-to-you\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">34 passionate signs he&#8217;s making love to you and not just having sex<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Learning how to sext a guy is not difficult. A mere suggestion is all you need, and you can build from there.<\/strong> <strong>The more confident you become, the more fun your sexting sessions will be!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Want to turn up the heat over text? 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