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Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship, but how much is too much or not enough? What does a happy sex life really look like?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If there is one subject sure to cause embarrassment and fascination in equal measures, it\u2019s the perfectly happy sex life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s one of those discussions which nobody wants to have, yet everyone wants to hear about. Despite the fact we’re two decades into a new century, the subject of sex still causes the most controversy, yet the most interest the world over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of the most common discussions around sex is whether or not they\u2019re doing it enough or what to do if they\u2019re doing it too much. I mean, come on, surely any amount of sex if you want it is good enough?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apparently not. [Read: Too much sex? 15 signs to know if your sex life is well balanced<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Healthy Sex Drive<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In a healthy relationship, you should have a sexual connection that suits both partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We all have our own sex drives and an appetite that is unique to us. That means you could easily find yourself personally compatible with someone, love them endlessly, but you might be completely sexually incompatible at the same time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a quandary!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, sex drive fluctuates throughout your lifetime. There are a million things which can affect whether or not you want sex, such as stress, upheaval in your life, a personal drama, hormone issues, health problems, or basically anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What you need to focus on is a happy sex life… whatever that means for you and your partner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

By doing that, and perhaps compromising a little, you\u2019ll find that your relationship remains on the straight and narrow. It doesn\u2019t head off on a detour towards something awkward, confusing, and basically a little cringe-worthy to discuss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what does a healthy and happy sex life actually look like? How can you be sure that yours is within that category? Bottom line? You can\u2019t. Go with what feels right to you. [Read:\u00a037 secrets to have more sex as a couple & how often is totally normal<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What a Happy Sex Life Looks Like in Reality<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The single thing to avoid when thinking about your sex life is comparisons. Never compare your sex life to someone else\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How do you know they\u2019re telling the truth? They might be telling you they\u2019re swinging from the chandeliers every night and rivaling Fifty Shades of Grey<\/em>, but you can never be sure whether they\u2019re exaggerating or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Focus on creating your own version of a happy sex life. Don\u2019t concern yourself with anyone else\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re comparing, you\u2019re focusing on things that other people enjoy, not the things that you and your partner enjoy. Focus on the two of you as a couple only.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what makes a healthy sex life? Let\u2019s check out a few must-have elements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Both Partners are Equally as Comfortable<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

This means that one partner isn\u2019t placing too many demands on the other partner. Both of you are happy and comfortable with what you\u2019re doing and what you\u2019re trying, the amount of sex you\u2019re having. And you\u2019re both enjoying it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sure, there are going to be times when your sex drives are a little out of whack, but that\u2019s normal. What you need to focus on is the overall picture. [Read: 21 hot tips on how to increase sex drive & keep it sky-high<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. You\u2019re Both Having Your Needs Met<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

A healthy sex life is not one-sided. If one partner is getting all the pleasure and the other is simply giving without receiving then there\u2019s something wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Make sure that both of you are enjoying whatever you choose to do and wherever you choose to do it. Remember that sex within a healthy relationship is about giving and receiving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. A Willingness to Explore Within Your Own Comfort Boundaries<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

A healthy sex life includes a little exploration from time to time, but only if you feel comfortable with it. Ensure that it\u2019s within your own boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trying new things can keep your sex life fresh and exciting and increase the connection you feel with your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it goes without saying that you should never try anything you\u2019re not comfortable with. You should never feel forced into trying anything you don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Neither Partner Feels Pushed, Forced, or Inadequate in Any Way<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Within a healthy sex life and relationship, there is no space for either partner to be made to feel inadequate, lacking, forced into anything, or pushed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Respect, care, and attention should be given freely and without limits, and there should be smiles, pleasure, and laughter in the bedroom, nothing else. [Read:\u00a0Boundaries in a relationship: 43 healthy dating rules you MUST set early on<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Freedom From Body Image Hang Ups<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you have a healthy sex life and you\u2019re being intimate with someone you love and care about, then you should not experience extreme body image hang ups.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sure, it\u2019s normal from time to time to feel bloated and not want to be seen naked, and it\u2019s normal to have an odd crisis of confidence occasionally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If this is a common theme, look within and find out why you feel that way. A healthy sex life means freedom to express yourself, both fully clothed and naked! [Read: 22 honest secrets to look good naked & feel great without any clothes<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. A Frequency Which Satisfies Both Partners<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

There will always be times when you don\u2019t feel like having sex, perhaps because you\u2019re not feeling particularly well, you\u2019re stressed, or something else is happening in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, a healthy sex life means a frequency that suits both partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re going through a dry spell, chat about it and try and inject a little passion into your relationship. It is normally enough to move things back to normal, whatever that is for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Feeling Free and Willing to Communicate Your Needs and Any Concerns<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

A healthy sex life centers around communication. If you can\u2019t talk about sex with your partner, then you shouldn\u2019t be having it, it\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You must be able to talk about sex openly with your partner, and that means anything you\u2019re not happy with, anything you don\u2019t like, including anything you do like and anything you want to try.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This helps to build the connection, as well as trust and intimacy. [Read: Sex-positive movement: What it is & what we wrongly assume about it<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Remember it\u2019s All Individual<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve said it once before, and I\u2019ll say it again. Your sex life is unique to your relationship. You should never try and compare it to anyone else\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You might be happy with once per week, but your neighbors might be rattling those headboards every single night. So what? If it works for you and your partner, that\u2019s all you need!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every single person has a different sex drive, wants, needs, desires, and everything else. The only obligation you should focus on is your own and those of your partner. Forget everyone else\u2019s. Remember, Fifty Shades of Grey<\/em> is a story, it\u2019s not real! [Read: 48 sexy secrets to have better sex & explore new things to try in bed<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While you might think that installing your own Red Room and attempting to rival Christian and Ana is the route toward a healthy sex life, it\u2019s actually very far from the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A healthy sex life is simply one that is satisfying to both partners, with comfort, pleasure, and communication. It\u2019s really all you need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, if you want to add in a few added extras, by all means, do it, but it\u2019s certainly not a requirement! Why make things more complicated than they really should be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[Read:\u00a029 best sex secrets to have better sex & enjoy it more every single time!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you simply want a healthy and happy sex life, that brings pleasure to both of you, simply focus on your needs as a couple. Talk about it, laugh about it, and above all else, enjoy it!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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