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You\u2019re merrily gossip messaging a friend and bam! You send an accidental text to the wrong person. Breathe\u2014it\u2019s not as bad as you think. <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019ve all done it. The accidental text. It\u2019s the price to pay for being a sociable soul. You\u2019re messaging more than one person at a time, but you\u2019re having a rather gossip-laden conversation with one particular friend, perhaps about a different friend. You get yourself a little confused. Before you know it, you sent the wrong message to the wrong friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You press send. Your heart stops for a second. A cold chill works its way up your body. You can\u2019t pull the message back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Drama. [Read: How to be a good friend: 49 traits & friend codes that define a real pal<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What Are You Supposed To Do Now?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

First, take heart that sending an accidental text to the wrong person is a common thing. You\u2019re not the first, you certainly won\u2019t be the last. But it doesn\u2019t really help the fact that you\u2019re about to have an all out friendship war on your hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s not the greatest idea to suddenly go offline and stop messaging everyone. It makes you look super-guilty and doesn\u2019t help matters at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The best advice is the hardest route. Own up and apologize. Who knows, actually telling your accidental text friend why you said what you said could sort out an issue that has been brewing for a while.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What if they never speak to you again? Well, that\u2019s a possibility, for sure, but hopefully your friendship will be strong enough to be able to survive such knocks. [Read: Am I a bad friend? 16 bad friendship skills that push people away<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despite that heart-stopping moment when you realized you sent an accidental text to the wrong person, are there any instances in which this type of text could be beneficial?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actually, yes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Art of the Fake Accidental Text<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Have you ever wanted to tell someone you like them but you don’t have the guts to do it directly? Have you ever wanted to get out of something but you can\u2019t find the courage to come out and say it? The accidental text could be the way forward!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I used this method successfully not so long ago. Of course, I don\u2019t encourage you to lie on a regular basis. This isn\u2019t really lying, it\u2019s more of a subtle \u2018oops\u2019 moment that causes no harm to anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let me explain how this works. Let\u2019s assume that you are trying to get someone\u2019s attention. For example, you are crushing on them. They\u2019re showing a little interest but the going is rather slow. An accidental text in this case could be enough to get them wondering what you\u2019re doing. Piquing their interest to the point where they actually start to pick up the pace a little.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is the very situation I found myself in, sitting in my pajamas at home one night, I \u201caccidentally\u201d sent a text to my crush stating: \u201cHaving a great time, Kate! So sorry you couldn\u2019t come.\u201d Of course, that text wasn\u2019t for Kate. I didn\u2019t even know a Kate. I sent it to my crush and waited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The idea was that said crush would think \u201cOh, what are they doing out at this time? Where are they?\u201d And send a text back full of interest and intrigue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you know what? It worked!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The reason it worked is that my crush was half invested in the idea of taking things further, but not quite there yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The fact that I had quite blatantly shown that I was out having fun, and therefore perhaps in the company of other potential crushes, caused a ripple effect. My crush didn\u2019t like that, they wanted to turn my attention firmly back to them. [Read: 39 secrets to get your crush to notice you & stages to get their attention<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a rather sneaky way of going about things but it\u2019s a way that often works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t have to be about a crush-type situation either, it can be any situation in which you want to tell someone something, or you want to get them to do something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re basically pushing them to do it, without you telling them to directly. You could call it reverse psychology, but I\u2019m not sure it\u2019s actually that complex!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In The Days Before Technology\u2026<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The fact that we have these rather back-handed ways to get someone\u2019s attention without actually speaking to them makes you wonder what people used to do before mobile technology and the Internet! Those poor souls had to actually go up to someone and speak to them\u2014face to face. How terrifying!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In those days, there were no subtle ways to get someone\u2019s attention and make them sit and message you all night, because messaging wasn\u2019t around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The only way to show your crush that you liked them was to actually tell them, or get someone else to tell them for you. Can you imagine the embarrassment if it all went wrong?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having said that, simpler times also have their advantages. While accidental texting is certainly a great strategy to use, it is a little sneaky if we\u2019re honest with ourselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re tricking the person we have our eye on into thinking that we\u2019re doing something that might cause our attention to move away from them. By doing that, you cause a panic reaction which actually forces them into conversing with you. [Read: 20 flirty, wicked ways to make a guy really jealous & win his attention ASAP<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Okay, you\u2019ve got their attention, but wouldn\u2019t it be better if they actually messaged you first because they wanted to? Not because you told them you were out living it up at a party… accidentally, of course.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whether you\u2019re actually at a party or not really isn\u2019t the point. I sat watching TV in my unsexiest pair of pajamas, half a bar of chocolate in one hand, and my phone in the other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Have You Been an Unwitting Victim?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It also makes you think about whether you\u2019ve been the unwitting victim of an accidental text in the past. Have you received a message from a friend or someone you\u2019re into and they\u2019ve \u201caccidentally\u201d let on that they\u2019re out having a great time?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You probably have. How did that make you feel? A major case of FOMO?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s the point of it, accidental texts are there to make someone think they\u2019re missing out, or in danger of missing out on something or someone they want. It forces them into action.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Clever, but somewhat underhanded, I think you\u2019ll agree. [Read: Mind games in a relationship: Why play, when it\u2019s okay & how to stop it<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recovering From an Accidental Text Disaster<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Of course, it could be that you simply made a mistake and genuinely sent a text to the wrong person. It really depends on what you said in terms of how bad it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I hope for your sake it wasn\u2019t a cutting remark about someone that you then accidentally sent to that very person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It happens. It\u2019s all too easy to message anyone, whenever we like these days. Rather than picking up the phone and having an actual vocal conversation, we send a stream of messages, which actually take three times as long to type as they do to actually say!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m guilty of this. If someone calls me, I sometimes wait for the call to end and then message them back! Terrible, I know. I think most people find messages a more comfortable way of conversing. That doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re not without risk!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[Read: How to be a good person & 32 ways to transform into a better human<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve sent an accidental text to the wrong person. Now you\u2019re left panicking about their reaction. Hold your hands up and apologize. Learn from the mistake, and don\u2019t gossip behind their back again.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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