When it comes to relationships, they take a lot of work – you both need to put the effort into keeping the flame burning. And sometimes, it\u2019s not always as easy as you think. But it\u2019s amazing how the right kind of sexy texts to send your boyfriend can keep your engines going.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One good way for keeping the spark in your relationship is through sexual intimacy. This doesn\u2019t mean you show up at his door in lingerie *of course, that isn\u2019t a bad idea if you want to surprise him*. But you can also keep things spicy by sending him texts that\u2019ll make him crazy for you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you were wondering what \u201csexting\u201d is, that\u2019s basically it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Must-read sexting guides:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Want to get started with sexting? Start with these guides!<\/p>\n\n\n\n How to Start Sexting: 59 Hot Examples & 51 Sexy Ways to Sext Someone<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n 147 Dirty Phrases & Sexy Texts For Him to Turn a Guy On & Leave Him Horny AF<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting is a great way to tease and flirt with your boyfriend<\/a>. They\u2019re naughty, sexy, and the best part is, he has to wait until he sees you, thus, it builds up sexual tension<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Though men are visual, they also have very active imaginations, and sexting helps get his imagination working.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Once you master your sexting skills, he\u2019ll get a hard-on just seeing your name pop up on his phone. And that\u2019s always<\/em> the reaction you want to have when you\u2019re sending him a naughty text. So, if you want to turn him on with words, it won\u2019t take much, you just need to know what to say. [Read: 40 things to ask a guy that’ll leave him crazy about you<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n We’re here to help you. Here are some sexy texts to send your boyfriend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 1. I have a no pants rule in my house. <\/strong>Rules are rules. You follow them, and so should he. [Read:\u00a0113 Sexy Texts For Him to Make a Guy Hard, Turn Him On & Leave Him Horny!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2. I want you inside of me so badly right now. <\/strong>That\u2019s because he rocked your world the last time he was inside of you. And you want seconds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. Have you jerked off lately? If not, I can come over and help. <\/strong>Jerking off can get boring after a while. Why not spice things up by helping him out?<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. I love how your ass looks in those briefs\/boxers. <\/strong>He has an ass that you can\u2019t get enough of, and we can\u2019t blame you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5. I\u2019m not wearing any panties right now. <\/strong>Whether you are or are not wearing panties, let his imagination do the work. [Read: What you should have on your sexual bucket list<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 6. I can\u2019t stop thinking about your _____. <\/strong>Whatever it is you\u2019re obsessed about, whether it\u2019s his package, arms, or abs, let him know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 7. I get wet every time I think about you. <\/strong>He just has a magical member. You simply hit the jackpot with your man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 8. I bought new panties, want to see? <\/strong>Of course, he\u2019ll want to see, but you\u2019re going to make him wait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 9. I want you. Now. <\/strong>It\u2019s short, sweet, and to the point. You want him, end of discussion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 10. I didn\u2019t know I could orgasm like I did last night. <\/strong>He literally blew your mind last night. Let him know. It\u2019ll give him an ego boost, and he\u2019ll want to make sure he keeps you satisfied. [Read: 70 Sexy Texts to Send a Guy or Girl & Spark a Hot, Dirty Conversation Instantly!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 11. When I think about last night, I get shivers. <\/strong>And that\u2019s because he knows what he\u2019s doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 12. I\u2019m addicted to your dick. <\/strong>Yes, you are. You can\u2019t get enough of it. Day or night, that dick is on your mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 13. So, I bought a new sex toy today. Want to help me see how it works? <\/strong>You just bought yourself a dildo, good for you! Why not try it out with your boyfriend. I\u2019m sure he\u2019ll love using it on you. [Read: Homemade sex toys to try with your lover<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 14. I would love to see you right now… naked, that is. <\/strong>He has a smoking body and you can\u2019t get enough of it. Don\u2019t be shy, let him know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 15. You better f*ck me so hard I can\u2019t walk straight. <\/strong>If that happens, he\u2019s a keeper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 16. Oh, tonight I have a naughty surprise for you. <\/strong>Is it lingerie? Is it whipped cream? What is it?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n 17. You better make me scream your name tonight. <\/strong>The good orgasm scream, not the \u201couch, please get off of me\u201d scream.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 18. If I was next to you in bed right now, what would you do? <\/strong>The minute he sees the word bed, he\u2019ll start picturing all the things he\u2019d want to do to you at that very moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 19. You just bring out the naughty in me. <\/strong>Yes, he does! <\/p>\n\n\n\n 20. I hope you like lace. <\/strong>Don\u2019t go into too much detail. Give him a small hint of what it is and let his imagination do the rest. [Read: How to take sexy photos and look great in all of them<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 21. I read about this sex position<\/a>, do you want to try it out? <\/strong>If you want to try out a new sex position, why don\u2019t you suggest it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n 22. What\u2019s your wildest fantasy? <\/strong>Oh, he has one. And if he says he doesn\u2019t, he\u2019s lying. [Read: 20 sexy questions to text a guy and seduce him within minutes<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 23. I\u2019m so horny thinking about you. <\/strong>Well, it\u2019s not your fault. He\u2019s the one that is amazing in bed and knows exactly what to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 24. When you pin me up against the wall, I get so wet. <\/strong>We ladies love a man who takes control. If he pins you up against the wall, that\u2019s a panty dropper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 25. I feel like there\u2019s something missing between my legs. <\/strong>Well, it\u2019s not your fault you\u2019ve grown accustomed to his manhood!<\/p>\n\n\n\n 26. Ever had sex in public? <\/strong>Maybe he has, maybe he hasn\u2019t. Either way, he\u2019ll want to try it with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 27. I was thinking about you when I was in the shower. <\/strong>The minute you mention the word shower, every guy goes through his fantasy check-list.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 28. My bed feels so empty without you in it. <\/strong>This is a sweet and sexy text, reminding him where he belongs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 29. What is the dirtiest thought you had of me? <\/strong>Oh, trust us, he\u2019s had a couple, and we’re sure he\u2019s going to show and tell. [Read: 80 Flirty Texts, Questions & Naughty Must-Knows to Flirt with a Guy Over Text<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 30. If you could do anything to me, what would you do? <\/strong>Well, this will get his imagination going.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 31. Had a long day at work? Come over, and I\u2019ll help you relax.\u00a0<\/strong>You could give him a massage, even a foot rub; show him that you care.\u00a0[Read:\u00a018 Smitten Secrets to Impress Your Boyfriend with the Psychology of Charm<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 32. The door\u2019s unlocked. I\u2019m waiting for you upstairs\u2026 <\/strong>When he\u2019s on his way home from work, get him excited with this sexy text to send him! <\/p>\n\n\n\n 33. FYI, I\u2019m not wearing any panties right now. <\/strong>Well, someone needs to know! What better person to have this information than him?<\/p>\n\n\n\n 34. Do you get hard thinking about me? <\/strong>It\u2019s an obvious question, and he\u2019s going to give you an obvious answer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 35. Should we Netflix and Chill tonight? <\/strong>We all know what that<\/em> means\u2026 [Read: How to leave your guy feeling loved and adored<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 36. I found my French Maid costume\u2026 want to see if it still fits? <\/strong>The naughty maid is a fantasy for many men; maybe he\u2019s one of them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 37. Why am I suddenly turned on? <\/strong>Could it be because of him? We all know the answer to that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 38. Join me in the shower when you come home from work. <\/strong>Use this sexy text to send him if you intend to go into the shower a couple of minutes before he arrives home. And get yourself all wet for him!<\/p>\n\n\n\n 39. I bought a new toy today \u2013 come over, and we can try it out. <\/strong>You like toys; he likes toys \u2013 why not show him your new purchases?<\/p>\n\n\n\n 40. What do you think of my new bra\/panties\/heels *sent with a picture*. <\/strong>Only send a photo to a partner you trust. [Read: How to take a sexy picture: A photographer\u2019s guide to do it right<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 41. I loved your sweaty body on top of mine; it made me sooo wet. <\/strong>He needs to know what turns you on, and there\u2019s nothing wrong with that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 42. I\u2019m crossing things off my bucket list\u2026 Having sex in public is the next thing on my list. <\/strong>Ooohh, how naughty! Public sex can be a thrilling experience, and if it\u2019s something you want to try, let him know. [Read: The best places to have sex \u2013 41 wild and naughty ideas beyond the bed<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 43. I get so wet thinking about what you did to me last night. <\/strong>What he did to you has never been done before, and it\u2019s been replaying in your mind the entire day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 44. I\u2019m lying naked in bed right now, touching myself to the thought of you inside me. <\/strong>If you\u2019re looking for sexy texts to send him, use this one to get his imagination in fifth gear! He\u2019ll make sure he stays on your mind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 45. You cannot believe the dream I had about you last night. I can show you what happened tonight? <\/strong>Is he up for round two? Of course, he is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 46. Is it bad that you\u2019re on my mind when I touch myself? <\/strong>Of course, it\u2019s not bad. This is the best news he\u2019s received all year!<\/p>\n\n\n\n 47. Send him suggestive emojis.\u00a0<\/strong>Sometimes, you don\u2019t need to use words.\u00a0[Read:\u00a0Emoji Sexting: 30 Fun Emojis to Make Any Text Seem Extra Flirty & Naughty!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 48. I love how you <insert sexual act> last night. <\/strong>Use this sexy text to send him to let your guy know what part of sex you enjoyed most with him. He\u2019ll make sure to do it again. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 49 Let\u2019s play a game of Simon Says. You go first. <\/strong>Oh, this isn\u2019t going to be an innocent game, by the way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 50. When are you finished at work? I\u2019m super horny and\u00a0need<\/em>\u00a0to see you.\u00a0<\/strong>If he\u2019s smart, he\u2019ll be coming over to your house the minute work is over.\u00a0[Read:\u00a0How to Make a Guy Hard: 25 Casual & Subtle Moves No Man Can Resist!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 51. I can\u2019t stop thinking about you kissing me. <\/strong>The kisses you two shared were passionate and blew your mind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 52. What\u2019s your wildest fantasy? <\/strong>Maybe you share the same fantasy\u2026 you don\u2019t know unless you ask. [Read: The top 50 kinky sex ideas for a lust-fuelled relationship<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n 53. I can\u2019t stop thinking about what we did last night. It\u2019s driving me insane! <\/strong>Use this sexy text to send him off you shared an amazing experience! It\u2019s great to let him know he did a mind blowing job. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 54. I\u2019m home alone right now\u2026 <\/strong>If he doesn\u2019t get the hint, then we don\u2019t know how obvious you need to be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 55. Guess what I\u2019m wearing right now\u2026\u00a0<\/strong>We’re assuming you\u2019re wearing something that\u2019ll turn him on? [Read: How to Dirty Talk: 36 Sexy Tips & 55 Examples to Turn Anyone On with Words<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting is a great way to get your imagination going and playfully tease your boyfriend. Here are some guidelines to help you become a pro at sexy texts to send your boyfriend. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting loses its charm if you do it every day. Not that you don\u2019t turn him on, you do, but you should use sexting as a way to tease him and make him run home to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n We wouldn\u2019t recommend using it every day – use it as a way to shock or surprise him. If you do it daily, you won’t find excitement in it anymore. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019re probably thinking sexting is all about being naughty, which is a decent assumption, but it doesn\u2019t always have to be naughty. You don\u2019t have you send him a nude or tell him all the dirty details. Though he\u2019ll expect that, he\u2019ll be even more surprised when you play nice instead. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mix it up! [Read: 72 romantic and cute things to say to your boyfriend and make his heart melt<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n For you, they\u2019re just boobs. For him, they\u2019re heavenly pillows. If your goal is to sext, sending a boob pic is a 100% guaranteed way to achieve your goal. Men are visual, so if you send him a full body or boob shot, he\u2019ll be drooling. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Just make sure you\u2019re sending it to someone you trust, or better yet, keep your face out of the shot. As long as you’re safe, this is one of the best sexy texts to send your boyfriend. [Read: The reasons why guys love breasts so much and why they love touching it<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Though boob and body shots are naughty, you can add some mystery by taking a photo with your clothes on. Gasp! We know! Take a shot of your hand around your neck, with your teeth biting your finger, or a shot of your cleavage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You don\u2019t have to be naked to be sexy. We mean, when you first met, you were most likely clothed\u2026 we think. [Read: Use boudoir photography to arouse your man<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re wondering how to turn your boyfriend on while texting, start by keeping your sexts short. No one wants to read an essay when they\u2019re horny. That way, they can quickly read it and have time to imagine it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If your sext is too long, they\u2019ll be spending more time reading it than touching themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Your inner writer can come out now. Use a lot of detail and description. You want him to be able to visualize what he\u2019s doing to you or what you\u2019re doing to him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Think of it like you\u2019re explaining sex to someone who\u2019s a virgin – step by step. [Read: The Best Dirty, Sexy Texting Games to Get Naughty With One Text!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Though you\u2019re getting him turned on, this is a great opportunity to show him what turns you on. When you\u2019re sexting, describe what you want him to do to you. This is the best and easiest way to get them to do it. Like they\u2019re going to forget that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Let’s be honest, if you get something out of it too, it’s one of the best sexy texts to send your boyfriend. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re just sexting to pass the time and you\u2019re not getting anything out of it, then why bother? However, if it\u2019s turning you on and you\u2019re getting off on it, then go for it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You shouldn\u2019t be sexting your boyfriend if it\u2019s not turning you on. You should want to do it. [Read: How to have great sex with your lover<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ah, yes. Timing is everything when it comes to knowing how to turn your boyfriend on while texting him. So, if he\u2019s in a business meeting or at the doctor\u2019s office, why not sext him? He\u2019ll feel so dirty, however, he\u2019ll be all over it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Is it wrong to have a boner at your doctor’s? Yes. It is. Or when he\u2019s at the fax machine? Absolutely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you don\u2019t feel like sexting him words, why not use a clip from x-rated movies to show what you want to do to him? Maybe it\u2019s a position you two haven\u2019t tried before. It’s one of the sexy texts to send your boyfriend that’ll drive him wild! <\/p>\n\n\n\n Not only is it easier to send a clip, it\u2019ll get his mind going 100 miles a minute. Trust us, you won\u2019t see anyone coming home faster than him. [Read: Why p*rn might save your relationship<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n We aren\u2019t in high school right now. Use emojis if you must, but use them sparingly or to get the point across. Don’t flood his inbox with a hundred emojis of every kind! <\/p>\n\n\n\n We don\u2019t want to see you put a happy face or a thinking face at the end of any sentence. Use them strategically if you must, so each of your emojis has some value!<\/p>\n\n\n\n We know that people are using \u2018lol\u2019 in exchange for ‘ok.’ But why would you be sexting \u2018ok\u2019 to your boyfriend? There\u2019s nothing funny about him entering your vagina, so, no need for ‘haha’. Unless, of course, there\u2019s some inside joke you two have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n At the end of the day, you want to keep the sext sexy. [Read: Frexting: What It Is, How To Do It & Why Sexting Friends Is a Thing<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Rather than him telling you what he wants, switch it up. You\u2019re going to sext him a request. It\u2019s not what you\u2019d like to do, it\u2019s what will actually happen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Try saying something like, \u201cI want you to come,\u201d \u201cYou\u2019re going to bang me hard tonight,\u201d or \u201cI want you to ____ my ____.\u201d<\/em> You\u2019re in charge and he\u2019s going to love it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can text him with a question that he\u2019ll have to choose from. That gets his imagination going and he\u2019ll think about doing these things with you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n So, you can say something like, \u201cDo you want me to spank you or run my nails down your back?\u201d<\/em> He won\u2019t be able to choose, just watch. [Read: 20 sexy questions to ask a guy and completely seduce him<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Everyone loves compliments, especially when they’re related to sexual performance. So, give him some compliments about things he does to you that you enjoy. Say, \u201cOh, I love it when you f**k me from behind,\u201d<\/em> or \u201cYou make me so wet when I look at you,\u201d <\/em>or \u201cYou feel so good inside of me.<\/em>\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n These compliments make him feel like he\u2019s the man<\/a> and that he\u2019s pleasing you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can use memories in your sext. \u201cRemember that weekend in Paris when we were in the hot tub.\u201d Yeah, he remembers, alright. Trust us on that one. That\u2019s a great way to get his mind going. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can always start a sext by using a sexual memory. [Read: 25 hilarious myths about sex most of us used to believe<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now, whether or not you would do this in real life is a different story. But for your sext, you can tell him your deepest and most sexual fantasies. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can say, \u201cI\u2019m picturing me with another woman while you watch,<\/em>\u201d or \u201cI want your d*ck deep in my ass.\u201d <\/em>Whatever it is that is your ultimate fantasy, say it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When looking for sexy texts to send your boyfriend, there might be a lull in the conversation. If he says sexts a reply back to you and you don\u2019t know what to say, there are some basic lines you can use to keep the conversation going. Obviously, if you don\u2019t reply, that\u2019s not good. <\/p>\n\n\n\n So, when in doubt, say, \u201cThat really turns me on,\u201d \u201cThat makes me so wet,\u201d \u201cWhat else would you to do me?,\u201d \u201cI want you so badly right now.\u201d<\/em> Use any of these lines, and you\u2019ll be in the clear. [Read: 20 sexy things guys like in bed but won’t ask for and why they don’t<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you want to know how to turn your boyfriend on while texting, use the same words that you would normally use for body parts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you never say ‘penis,’ don\u2019t text him using the word ‘penis.’ If you normally call his penis, ‘dick’ or ‘cock,’ use those terms instead. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Some people think to dirty text, you have to be vulgar with your words – you don\u2019t actually. You don\u2019t have to send a sext that\u2019s so explicit even pornstars wouldn’t use it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Use whatever words you want, and you’ll still be sexual. So, go with your comfort level. [Read: 20 traits to be a classy lady<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting doesn\u2019t have to be a full-out description of what you want to do to them. We mean, typically, it is, but you can do whatever you want with sexting. There\u2019re no limits when looking for sexy texts to send your boyfriend. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re not comfortable going full out with your sext, you can give him a sneak peek.<\/p>\n\n\n\nSexy things to send your boyfriend to make you irresistible<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
How to turn your boyfriend on while texting<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. It shouldn’t be an everyday event <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
2. Don’t always be naughty <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. Show a little boob <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
4. Try a little burlesque<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
5. Keep the sext short <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
6. Use details and descriptions <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
7. Let him know what turns you on <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
8. Make sure you’re having fun <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
9. The wrong time is the right time <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
10. Use pervy clips <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
11. Go easy on the emojis <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
12. No lol-ing or haha-ing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
13. Request <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
14. Give him a choice <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
15. Compliment him <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
16. Memory lane <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
17. Tell him your fantasy <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
18. What to say when you don’t know what to say <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
19. Keep your lingo casual <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
20. Dirty texts don’t have to be vulgar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
21. Sneak peek <\/h3>\n\n\n\n