We all know the stereotypes about naked pictures. Guys ask for nudes right away and girls shut them down. You know those guys who gloat about getting all the naked pictures they want? They know what they\u2019re doing and they know how to get nudes without even asking for them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
There\u2019s definitely a right and a wrong way to get someone to send you naughty pictures. If you just flat out ask for them out of nowhere, you\u2019ll be disappointed with the response. You might even find that they don\u2019t speak to you again! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Luckily for you, we have just what you need to learn how to ask for nudes and actually get what you want. [Read: 30 hot, sizzling ways to spice up your sex life and leave you horny 24\/7<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n The reason you have to get it right is that not everyone actually wants to send nudes. You have to check beforehand, in the most subtle of ways, of course. Failure to do that means you could end up really offending someone you actually like, or even love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Look at it this way \u2013 if someone asked you to send a nude and you weren\u2019t even sure about them yet, would you want to do it? Would you feel okay about this person? Probably not! <\/p>\n\n\n\n The good news is that there are plenty of people out there who are totally down for a spot of naughty photographic fun – with the right person, of course. [Read: How to see a friend naked – The perverted ways to sneak a peek<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Some may say naked pictures and sexting are the worst things to happen to relationships. We disagree. If you\u2019re in a relationship, sending nudes to your partner can really improve it. You\u2019ll increase the anticipation and grow closer with all the fun flirting you’re doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As long as you\u2019re being safe about it, there\u2019s no harm in it. Being able to connect with your partner, even when you\u2019re far away, is important for maintaining a healthy relationship<\/a>. It\u2019s also really valuable for long-distance couples too. [Read: 16 mind-blowing ways to spice up your sex life<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s very easy for your sex life to get into a rut after a while. If you’ve been together a long time, things may have become a little stale. Sending nudes can help to add a little spice to your relationship and give your sex life some extra sizzle<\/a>! <\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s a great way to build up the tension during the day, telling your partner what you want them to do to you and sending them a nude as a way of getting them hot under the collar. The sex at the end of the day is sure to be mind-blowing. [Read: Sexting ideas – 45 sexy tips to effortlessly sext like a real pro and 50 examples to give it a try<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n In order to get the most gratifying naked pictures, you should never ask. We know that may seem difficult to understand because you may think other people won\u2019t just send you nudes. But you\u2019re wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Many people actually love to and want to send naked pictures but the second they\u2019re asked for them, they see red flags waving in front of their eyes. Here\u2019s how to get nudes without asking for them at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nobody is going to send you nudes if they don\u2019t trust you. Why would they? You\u2019ll have a naked picture of them and they\u2019ll have nothing but your word. And if they don\u2019t trust you, that means nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So make sure they trust you and don\u2019t just bullshit your way to get it either. Be a genuine person and show them they can trust you. That way, they won\u2019t worry about sending nudes. [Read: How to properly build trust in a relationship and make it last<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n A girl who\u2019s never stood in front of you naked won\u2019t want to send you naked pictures. That being said, you probably aren\u2019t going to get many nudes from random people this way. But you shouldn\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You need to have a sexual relationship with someone already if you want to know how to get nudes without asking. When you\u2019re committed to each other and regularly sexually active, you can use sexting as a way to connect further and you won\u2019t have to ask. [Read: 17 of the best naughty ideas to spice up married sex<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sexting is what you need to do in order to get nudes without asking. If you don\u2019t sext, you won\u2019t have anything prompting the other person to get on their phone and snap a picture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When you\u2019re already texting naughty things back and forth, sending a nude will just become natural to them. They\u2019ll do it as a means of sexting, especially if you set it up that way. [Read: How to initiate sexting – Make your partner hot and horny for you<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n That doesn\u2019t mean you have to be physically vulnerable. However, sending a nude picture is a really vulnerable thing and you have to be fair about it. Why would someone send something that risky to you if you won\u2019t even open up to them and let them in? <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you turn them on, they\u2019ll want to turn you on too. Talk about all the things they love that you do in bed. Go into detail about what you\u2019ll be doing to them later and specifically mention the body parts you want them to send you in a picture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If they start thinking you really want that specific body part, they\u2019ll be more likely to send it. You basically have to lead them into teasing you<\/em> with their nudes. [Read: 60 dirty and seductive ways to turn on your lover<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you start talking up their body and describing how much you like certain parts, they\u2019ll start thinking about sending you those things. You’ll build up their confidence too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can even say something about how seeing it would be too much for you right at that moment. This will probably make them want to send one even more!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bringing up the last time you two got intimate will immediately trigger their arousal. They\u2019ll be taken back to that moment and, assuming it was a good time, and they\u2019ll get really turned on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Be as detailed as possible so they know you really want to reimagine that moment together. [Read: 10 reasons why you should have morning sex more often<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019ve been apart for a while, tell them you miss them. Begin by pointing out all the things you miss about them that don\u2019t <\/em>have to do with their body. Then you can eventually talk about what specific parts of their body you miss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Doing this will first make them think you actually miss their presence, which will be touching and sweet. Then you\u2019ll increase the anticipation and make them miss you<\/em>, which will prompt them to send that nude you want so badly. [Read: How to make your partner miss you even more<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re picturing something about their body specifically, talk about it. Go into detail and make them see just how much you pay attention when you\u2019re intimate together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n This is a great way to turn them on and make them want to show you those parts you\u2019re imagining so much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The best way to increase your odds of getting nudes without asking for them is to be as grateful as possible when you do get them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you’re indifferent when you receive a nude from your partner, they’re probably going to think twice about sending another in the future. [Read: How to take nude pictures of your lover<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is crucial for getting them to send you nudes. If you want them to send naughty pictures, you have to get them in a naughty mindset. And that\u2019ll only happen if you know what turns them on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That way, you can easily send some dirty texts to get them in the mood. We’ve already established that the more turned on someone is, the more likely they are to send you some dirty pictures. So figure out their turn-ons and put those to work through sexting. [Read: How to sext the right way \u2013 16 tantalizing tips you can\u2019t ignore<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is, by far, the best way to get nudes sent to you. If you make them think it was their idea all along, they\u2019ll want to do it. To do this, you have to be a little sneaky. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dropping phrases like, \u201cI miss your naked body. It\u2019s like I forgot what it looks like,\u201d can get you nudes easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is something to remember whenever you ask for nudes. You can\u2019t expect to receive them ever. It\u2019s not your place to think people will send you nudes. It\u2019s always up to them and they might not always want to. <\/p>\n\n\n\n So be patient and you\u2019ll get your nudes in the end. [Read: How to look better naked by using 15 real life tips<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n The reason for this is simple: the photos disappear. This might make them more comfortable with the idea of sending nudes. If you start by texting and things take a turn for the naughty, move to Snapchat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sending some cute photos with naughty captions can make them think about sending you naked selfies<\/a>. When they know the photos will disappear after a few seconds, they\u2019ll feel more comfortable sending some riskier pictures. [Read: Snapchat sexting \u2013 How to own your lover with one snap<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s not only about how to ask for nudes, it\u2019s about understanding the responsibility of it too. Now, we\u2019re sure that you\u2019re asking for these naughty snaps with the best intentions and it\u2019s just to spice up your love life, but never show any of these snaps to anyone else. <\/p>\n\n\n\n They\u2019re intended for your eyes only and that means you need to be very careful with the safety and security of them, if you\u2019re planning on keeping them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n There\u2019s no 100% secure way to store nudes on your phone. You could lose your phone or it could be hacked. The latter is less likely but the former is totally possible. For that reason, it may be best to delete photos once you\u2019ve looked at them and enjoyed them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you do want to keep them, make sure you have a very strong password on your phone and that you do not share it with anyone. Store the photos in a separate folder and if you can, add a password to that too. [Read: How to keep your naked photo safe<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, it goes without saying that you should always double check that you\u2019re sending the photo to the right person, and they should do the same. It\u2019s very easy to be having more than one text conversation and accidentally send the wrong thing to the wrong person!<\/p>\n\n\n\n As long as you\u2019re careful and you share and store nudes in the spirit they\u2019re meant to for, it\u2019s a great way to spice up your sex life and keep the bond of trust alive between you. <\/p>\n\n\n\nNot everyone is down to send nudes <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Why sending nudes when you’re in a relationship can be a great thing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
How to get nudes without ever asking for a single picture<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. Form a bond of trust<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
2. Make sure you’ve already been intimate<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. Sext regularly<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
4. Be a little vulnerable yourself<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
5. Turn them on first<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
6. Mention how much you love their body<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
7. Talk about the last time you were together in bed<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
8. Tell them you miss them … and their body<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
9. Go into detail about what you’re imagining <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
10. Be appreciative as hell when you do get them<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
11. Know what turns them on<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
12. Make them think it was their idea <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
13. Don\u2019t expect nudes to come your way<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
14. Start with Snapchat first<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Let\u2019s talk about nude snaps and safety <\/h2>\n\n\n\n