{"id":51632,"date":"2025-12-02T12:16:17","date_gmt":"2025-12-02T06:46:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/?p=51632"},"modified":"2025-12-02T12:21:40","modified_gmt":"2025-12-02T06:51:40","slug":"taboo-sex-topics","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/fantasy\/taboo-sex-topics","title":{"rendered":"49 Sexual Taboos, Fantasies &amp; Dirty, Shocking Kinks All of Us Secretly Love"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-think-your-sexual-fantasies-are-too-dark-these-sex-taboo-kinks-prove-you-re-not-alone-and-most-are-way-more-common-than-you-d-think\">Think your sexual fantasies are too dark? These sex taboo kinks prove you\u2019re not alone, and most are way more common than you\u2019d think.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ever had a sexual taboo thought or a kinky fantasy so weird, you felt like you\u2019d go to jail just for thinking it? You\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether it\u2019s a sex dream about your professor, imagining a threesome with vampires, or craving that good ol\u2019 \u201ccall me Daddy\u201d degradation, sexual taboo fantasies are often the hottest ones. And guess what? They\u2019re way more common than you think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact, studies show that nearly <strong>90% of people have fantasized about things they\u2019d never dare act out in real life<\/strong>. That\u2019s because the brain doesn\u2019t care about \u201cnormal.\u201d It cares about what\u2019s forbidden, wild, or powerfully emotional, the very definition of taboo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, whether you\u2019re curious, shocked, or just here to make sure you\u2019re not the only one with a kink for sleeping beauty roleplay, here are the most common sexual taboos, fantasies, and kinks people secretly love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some are hot. Some are hilarious. And some are so messed up, you\u2019ll never look at a teddy bear the same way again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/327140003_Tell_Me_What_You_Want_The_Science_of_Sexual_Desire_and_How_It_Can_Help_You_Improve_Your_Sex_Life\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Lehmiller, J.J., 2018, Science of Sexual Desire and Your Sex Life<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-are-sexual-taboos-and-why-are-they-so-damn-hot\"><strong>What Are Sexual Taboos, And Why Are They So Damn Hot?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A sexual taboo is anything that breaks the unspoken rules of what society says is \u201cnormal\u201d in the bedroom. It could be a fantasy, an act, a kink, or even just a thought that feels too risqu\u00e9 to say out loud.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, taboos are cultural. Sometimes, they\u2019re legal boundaries. And sometimes, they\u2019re just&#8230; your grandma\u2019s worst nightmare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But here\u2019s the thing, the more forbidden something is, the more arousing it becomes. That\u2019s not just kink logic, it\u2019s basic psychology. The \u201cforbidden fruit\u201d effect is real. We\u2019re wired to crave what we\u2019re told we shouldn\u2019t want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact, one major study found that a huge number of people (around 90%) admit to having sexual fantasies that would be considered taboo or unconventional by societal standards. \ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/00224499.2016.1139034\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Joyal &amp; Carpentier, 2017, Paraphilic Fantasies in the General Population<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And before you start wondering if you\u2019re a little messed up for thinking what you\u2019re thinking&#8230; you\u2019re not. Fantasies are a normal, healthy part of sexual identity, even the ones that feel wrong or strange. The only line that matters is consent, and we\u2019ll keep reminding you of that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-types-of-sexual-taboos-from-vanilla-curveballs-to-the-deepest-desires\">Types of Sexual Taboos: From Vanilla Curveballs to the Deepest Desires<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Not all taboos are created equal, some are soft and flirty, like sex toys or public make-outs. Others? Let\u2019s just say they live rent-free in the corners of our minds marked \u201cDo NOT tell anyone.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sexual taboos come in layers. Some are based on cultural shame, others on power dynamics, fetishes, or forbidden themes that have been burned into our brains by society, porn, or personal experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To help make sense of it all, we\u2019re breaking down these sexual taboos into<strong> major categories<\/strong>, based on what they stir in our minds, and loins. This way, you can scroll through the sexy, the strange, and the <em>are-you-kidding-me<\/em> kinds of fantasies, and know you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Softcore Taboos<\/strong>: These are the fantasies that were once scandalous, but now flirt on the edge of mainstream. Think: oral, anal, threesomes, and casual sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Psychological Power Kinks<\/strong>: Fantasies that revolve around control, domination, humiliation, and submission, including rape play, age gaps, cuckolding, and being degraded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Fetish &amp; Body-Based Fantasies<\/strong>: The quirky, specific, sometimes hilarious stuff people eroticize. From foot fetishes to tickling, food play, and balloon kinks, these are wildly personal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dark Taboos<\/strong>: The kinks that live in the forbidden corners of your imagination. These include incest roleplay, somnophilia, knife play, even bestiality fantasies, with all the necessary disclaimers and psychological insight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Modern &amp; Digital-Era Taboos<\/strong>: Welcome to the age of AI porn, virtual lovers, sexting strangers, and getting off to deepfakes. The future is horny (and a little terrifying).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember, not all fantasies are meant to be acted out. Some are hot <em>because<\/em> they feel wrong or impossible. What matters is understanding them, not shaming them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-softcore-taboos-the-vanilla-line-gets-blurry\">Softcore Taboos: The Vanilla Line Gets Blurry<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>These aren\u2019t the deepest, darkest fantasies, but they still live in that awkward zone between \u201cwe all do it\u201d and \u201cI can\u2019t believe I admitted that.\u201d Some are practically mainstream now, others still carry a whisper of shame. Either way, they all live just outside the edges of vanilla sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-oral-sex\">1. Oral Sex<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Once considered scandalous, oral sex is now basically a starter pack for intimacy. Still, it carries surprising taboos, especially for women receiving. Insecurity, hygiene anxiety, and cultural shame can get in the way of pleasure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But let\u2019s be real: most people want to give <em>and<\/em> receive, they just don\u2019t always know how to ask. And that\u2019s where the taboo lingers, in the silence. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/passion-pill\/how-to-eat-a-girl-out\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">How to Eat a Girl Out: 81 Oral Sex Tips to Eat Pussy &amp; Tongue Her to Bliss<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-anal-sex\">2. Anal Sex<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Despite its rising popularity, anal sex still gives people pause. For some, it\u2019s a bucket list item; for others, it\u2019s a hard pass. The stigma around it often stems from gender roles, homophobia, and fear of \u201cgoing too far.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the truth is, the anus is packed with nerve endings, pleasure central, if approached with care and consent. For men especially, prostate stimulation can be mind-blowing. \ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1371\/journal.pone.0181198\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Herbenick et al., 2017, Anal Sexual Experiences in the US<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-period-sex\">3. Period Sex<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s messy. It\u2019s primal. It\u2019s deeply taboo in some cultures. But medically speaking? It can relieve cramps, shorten periods, and release feel-good hormones that ease PMS. The only real \u201cgross\u201d part is the stigma we\u2019ve been taught to feel. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/fantasy\/having-sex-on-your-period\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">73 Sexy Tips to Try Period Sex, Myths &amp; Reasons Why You May Love It!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-sex-toys\">4. Sex Toys<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sex toys have officially gone from \u201chidden drawer\u201d to bedside staple, but not without a little emotional baggage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some partners still feel intimidated, threatened, or even insulted by a battery-powered addition to the bedroom. But toys aren\u2019t replacements; they\u2019re upgrades. When used together, they unlock whole new pleasure pathways. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/passion-pill\/types-of-sex-toys\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">15 Common Types of Sex Toys All Singles and Couples Must Know About<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-masturbation\">5. Masturbation<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone does it, but we still don\u2019t talk about it like we should. Self-pleasure can be a powerful tool for stress relief, body awareness, and sexual exploration. And yet, many grow up with religious guilt, shame, or embarrassment that lingers into adulthood. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For women especially, it\u2019s been treated as \u201cunladylike\u201d, which is wild, considering how many women discover orgasms <em>through<\/em> masturbation first. \ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/327140003_Tell_Me_What_You_Want\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Lehmiller, 2018, The Science of Sexual Desire<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-watching-porn\">6. Watching Porn<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Porn is everywhere. It\u2019s accessible, customizable, and wildly consumed by all genders and orientations. But talking about it? Still taboo. Especially if one partner watches more than the other, or watches stuff they wouldn\u2019t want to try IRL. Porn isn\u2019t inherently harmful, but avoiding the conversation around it definitely can be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-threesomes-amp-group-sex\">7. Threesomes &amp; Group Sex<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Threesomes top the fantasy list for many people, but pulling it off is trickier than the fantasy suggests. The idea is sexy; the reality? Jealousy, nerves, and post-sex awkwardness can crash the party. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Still, with the right communication and boundaries, it can be liberating. Taboo? Totally. But for some couples, it\u2019s just Saturday. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/obsession\/threesome-tips-things-to-know-before-entering-one\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">57 Signs &amp; Rules to Have a Threesome &amp; the Best Three Way Tips &amp; Positions<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-pegging\">8. Pegging<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Pegging, aka, when a woman straps it on and penetrates her male partner, is a rising star in the kink world. Some see it as empowering, others panic at the idea because of outdated masculinity norms. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the prostate is the male G-spot, and stimulation there can trigger intense, whole-body orgasms. Pegging flips the script, on roles, expectations, and pleasure. \ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/01490400.2023.2226669\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">D. J. Williams, et al., 2022, Investigation of \u201cPegging\u201d as Leisure<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-casual-sex-amp-one-night-stands\">9. Casual Sex &amp; One-Night Stands<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Casual sex used to be a one-way ticket to slut-shaming, especially for women. But in today\u2019s dating app era, it&#8217;s practically standard. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Still, the emotional fallout can be real if boundaries or expectations aren\u2019t clear. The taboo now is less about doing it, and more about being honest about why you\u2019re doing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-public-sex-risky-locations\">10. Public Sex \/ Risky Locations<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether it\u2019s in a car, a bathroom, or that suspiciously empty library corner, public sex is about more than just getting off, it\u2019s about getting caught. The thrill, the risk, the adrenaline, it all heightens arousal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the legal risks are real, and so is the shame if you\u2019re walked in on. Still, for some, there\u2019s nothing hotter than breaking the rules in broad daylight. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/fantasy\/best-places-to-have-sex\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">100 Hottest Places to Have Sex that are Naughty, Risky &amp; Adrenaline Racing!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-psychological-power-kinks-control-shame-amp-the-thrill-of-the-forbidden\">Psychological Power Kinks: Control, Shame &amp; the Thrill of the Forbidden<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>These kinks live in the messy middle between the brain and the bedroom. They&#8217;re not always about pleasure alone, they&#8217;re about who\u2019s in charge, who gives in, and who gets used. For some, it&#8217;s a reclaiming of power. For others, it&#8217;s the freedom of letting go completely. Either way, these are fantasies that run deep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-being-degraded-consensually\">11. Being Degraded (Consensually)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people get off not just on sex, but on being called names, used, or told they\u2019re worthless, as long as it\u2019s 100% consensual. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Degradation play taps into power dynamics where humiliation is the turn-on. For many submissives, it\u2019s a way to surrender emotionally as well as physically. Done wrong, it\u2019s abuse. Done right, it\u2019s one of the most intimate forms of trust. \ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/264904555_Kink_in_Community_and_the_Modern_Clinic_Sexual_Outsiders_Understanding_BDSM_Sexualities_and_Communities_By_David_M_Ortmann_and_Richard_A_Sprott\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Ortmann &amp; Sprott, 2014, Sexual Consent in BDSM<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-cuckolding\">12. Cuckolding<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This kink revolves around one partner (often a man) getting turned on by watching their partner have sex with someone else. Sometimes it&#8217;s about humiliation. Sometimes, domination. Sometimes, it\u2019s just voyeurism turned all the way up. Cuckolding plays with jealousy, possession, and the thrill of sexual surrender. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/fantasy\/cuckold-fetish-fantasy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Cuckold Fantasy: The Fetish &amp; What You Need to Know to Try It<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/fantasy\/cuckquean-guide\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Cuckquean Guide: Do You Like Watching Your Man with Someone Else?<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-rape-fantasy-consensual-non-consent-cnc\">13. Rape Fantasy \/ Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is one of the most common and controversial sexual fantasies, being taken without consent. The key word is fantasy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In real life, it only works when boundaries, consent, and aftercare are deeply in place. It\u2019s not about wanting to be harmed, it\u2019s about surrendering control in the safety of trust. \ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/00224490802624406\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bivona &amp; Critelli, 2009, The Nature of Women\u2019s Rape Fantasies<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-14-daddy-mommy-roleplay\">14. Daddy\/Mommy Roleplay<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>No, it\u2019s not about actual incest. It\u2019s about the erotic power dynamics of being cared for, protected, or controlled by someone older and \u201cin charge.\u201d It plays into deep attachment wiring and the fantasy of being spoiled or dominated. For many, it\u2019s a blend of nurturing and power, and yes, \u201cDaddy\u201d is the new dirty word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-15-age-gap-amp-barely-legal-fantasies\">15. Age Gap &amp; Barely Legal Fantasies<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s a whole genre of porn centered around \u201cshe just turned 18,\u201d and while it\u2019s legal, it\u2019s definitely taboo. These fantasies often stem from power imbalance: teacher\/student, boss\/intern, mentor\/prot\u00e9g\u00e9. Some people find the idea of innocence being corrupted deeply arousing, as long as it&#8217;s fantasy only.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-16-somnophilia-sleeping-beauty-fantasy\">16. Somnophilia (Sleeping Beauty Fantasy)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This kink involves arousal from the idea of sexual activity with someone who\u2019s asleep or unconscious, consensually, within roleplay only. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s about control, vulnerability, and total surrender. Many people don\u2019t want to act this out in real life but enjoy imagining it. Fantasy = okay. Reality = absolutely not without clear consent boundaries. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/obsession\/middle-of-the-night-sex-are-you-having-it\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Middle of the Night Sex: How to Enjoy It, Tips &amp; Tricks &amp; When to Avoid It<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-17-objectification-dollification\">17. Objectification \/ Dollification<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the fantasy of being used, or using someone, like a sex object. Think: being stripped of identity and turned into a toy, doll, or human sex prop. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/fantasy\/dollification\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Dollification: A Newbie Guide to Dolls, Arousal, and the Fetish<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For submissives, it\u2019s a way to shut the mind off and give up all agency. For dominants, it\u2019s pure control. Add costumes, poses, or speech rules, and it gets even more intense. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-18-small-penis-humiliation-sph\">18. Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s real. And it\u2019s not always about actually having a small penis, it\u2019s about <em>being told<\/em> it\u2019s small, mocked, and embarrassed. It combines body shame, power dynamics, and arousal in a twisted-but-effective loop. Many SPH lovers are confident in real life, they just crave psychological submission in bed. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/obsession\/beta-cuck-meaning\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Beta Cuck: What It Means, the Sexual Role &amp; Psychology in BDSM and More<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-19-erotic-hypnosis-mind-control\">19. Erotic Hypnosis \/ Mind Control<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This kink taps into the fantasy of being seduced or controlled completely, with no resistance. It\u2019s less about pendulums and more about dirty whispers, eye contact, and suggestion. The idea that someone can take over your body or brain (even temporarily) is terrifying, and super hot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-20-being-ruined-or-used\">20. <strong>Being \u201cRuined\u201d or \u201cUsed\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Also called \u201cused goods\u201d kink, this plays into fantasies of being passed around, stretched out, or so desired that everyone\u2019s had a turn. It\u2019s often seen in gangbang or degradation play, where the submissive enjoys being \u201cruined\u201d by attention. It walks the line between shame and pride, and for some, it\u2019s euphoric.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-fetish-amp-body-based-fantasies-the-weird-the-specific-amp-the-wait-what\">Fetish &amp; Body-Based Fantasies: The Weird, the Specific &amp; the \u201cWait, What?\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>These are the ones that get whispered on Reddit, shared in kink forums, or confessed to therapists with one eye on the door. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They&#8217;re not always sexual in a textbook way, they&#8217;re about texture, control, emotion, or some unexplainable link your brain made back in 6th grade. The one thing they all have in common? They&#8217;re yours. And they turn you on for a reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-21-foot-fetish\">21. Foot Fetish<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Feet are one of the most common fetishes, and no one knows <em>exactly<\/em> why. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some psychologists believe it&#8217;s due to overlapping sensory zones in the brain, where feet and genitals are located next to each other on the brain&#8217;s &#8220;somatosensory map.&#8221; Others think it\u2019s about submission, caretaking, or taboo cleanliness. Whether it\u2019s licking soles, massaging arches, or sniffing socks\u2026 feet aren\u2019t just for walking anymore. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/obsession\/feet-fetishes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Feet Fetish: What It Is, 42 Signs, Causes &amp; Ways to Explore Sexualizing Feet<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-22-urolagnia-watersports-golden-showers\">22. Urolagnia (Watersports \/ Golden Showers)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This kink involves peeing <em>on<\/em> or <em>being peed on<\/em>, and yes, it\u2019s more common than you think. For some, it\u2019s about power dynamics (dominance\/submission). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For others, it\u2019s shock value, rebellion, or just the sheer taboo-ness of it. Often used in BDSM scenes, it&#8217;s one of those kinks that\u2019s less about urine and more about <em>letting go<\/em>. Pun absolutely intended. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/fantasy\/omorashi\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Omorashi: What It Is, 25 Signs &amp; Kinky Ways to Indulge in the Peeing Fetish<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-23-food-play-sploshing\">23. Food Play \/ Sploshing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Whipped cream. Chocolate syrup. Mashed potatoes? Sploshing is the act of using food in sexual play, rubbing, licking, or getting absolutely <em>messy<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people love the sensory overload, while others get turned on by the chaos or humiliation. It\u2019s playful, primal, and great for people who like their sex with dessert.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-24-balloon-fetish-inflatophilia\">24. Balloon Fetish (Inflatophilia)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, balloon kinks are real. Some get off on popping them, some like sitting on them, and some love the texture or sound. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It can be about suspense, anticipation, or even the childhood joy of parties twisted into something adult. It\u2019s a classic example of how the brain sexualizes unexpected things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-25-tickling-fetish\">25. Tickling Fetish<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Tickling is weirdly erotic for some, it\u2019s involuntary, intense, and walks the line between pleasure and torture. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For submissives, it\u2019s about being out of control. For dominants, it\u2019s a safe way to \u201ctease\u201d power. Done right, it builds trust and tension like foreplay, unless you hate it, in which case\u2026 <em>hard pass<\/em>. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/obsession\/kink-list-sexual-fetishes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Couples Kinks List: 52 Freaky &amp; Weird Sexual Fetishes Many People Indulge In<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-26-nipple-torture-intense-nipple-play\">26. Nipple Torture \/ Intense Nipple Play<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Nipples have thousands of nerve endings, and for some people, the pain equals pleasure. Clamps, suction, wax, or biting can trigger intense arousal, sometimes even orgasm. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/men\/understanding-women\/nipple-play-breasts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">32 Nipple Play Moves to Tease a Girl\u2019s Breasts &amp; Give Her a Nipple Orgasm<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s especially popular in BDSM dynamics and body worship kinks. Like a lot of fetishes, it\u2019s about building sensation to an almost unbearable high. \ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/14681994.2011.649252\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Komisaruk et al., 2011, Non-genital orgasms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-27-dollification-being-turned-into-a-sex-doll\">27. Dollification \/ Being Turned Into a Sex Doll<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This fetish involves being treated like a lifeless, passive sex object. Often paired with cosplay, makeup, or restrictive poses, it\u2019s about control, perfection, and objectification. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For some, being a \u201cdoll\u201d is deeply freeing, no emotions, no responsibility, just pleasure. Others love to <em>own<\/em> the doll, the ultimate in domination.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-28-furries-amp-yiffing\">28. Furries &amp; Yiffing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Furries are people who enjoy dressing up or fantasizing about anthropomorphic animal characters. &#8220;Yiffing&#8221; is the term for sexual activity in the furry community. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It might sound wild, but it often involves deep emotional connection, creative roleplay, and identity exploration. And yes, it\u2019s a real community with conventions and code words, paws and tails included.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-29-crying-kinks-tear-fetish\">29. Crying Kinks \/ Tear Fetish<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This one lives in the emotional danger zone. Some people get aroused seeing their partner cry, not from actual pain, but from intensity, surrender, or vulnerability. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s often tied to emotional dominance, degradation play, or overwhelming pleasure. Like all emotional edge-play, this kink needs <em>extreme<\/em> care and consent. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/obsession\/dacryphilia\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Dacryphilia: The Meaning, Why Tears Arouse &amp; 18 Signs and Ways to Try It<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-30-objectophilia-falling-in-love-with-objects\">30. Objectophilia (Falling in Love with Objects)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>People with this kink feel romantic or sexual attraction to <em>objects<\/em>, bridges, cars, furniture, even chandeliers. There are documented cases of individuals marrying monuments. It\u2019s rare, but very real. Psychologists believe it may stem from emotional trauma, neurodivergence, or symbolic projection of intimacy onto inanimate things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dark-taboos-the-forbidden-f-cked-up-and-fantasized\">Dark Taboos: The Forbidden, F*cked Up, and Fantasized<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>These are the fantasies that even the freaky ones sometimes hesitate to admit. They live in the darkest corners of the mind, fueled by shame, danger, or things that society has loudly declared \u201cwrong.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But here\u2019s the thing: <strong>fantasy doesn\u2019t mean intention<\/strong>. Just because you think about it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re a threat. Many of these taboos live in the <em>mental world only<\/em>, where you\u2019re safe to explore whatever gets your pulse racing, no judgment here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u26a0\ufe0f <strong>Disclaimer<\/strong>: We\u2019re not here to promote or excuse anything illegal, non-consensual, or harmful. But talking about fantasies, even the disturbing ones, helps people better understand themselves, reduce shame, and make safer choices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-31-incest-kinks-amp-step-sibling-fantasies\">31. Incest Kinks &amp; Step-Sibling Fantasies<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is easily one of the most searched porn categories globally, and yeah, it&#8217;s uncomfortable. But it\u2019s also usually not about <em>actual<\/em> relatives. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most people fantasize about step-relations, like step-brothers, step-moms, or even &#8220;accidental&#8221; family roleplay. It\u2019s about power dynamics, forbidden intimacy, and closeness that shouldn\u2019t feel sexy, which is exactly why it does. \ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/327140003_Tell_Me_What_You_Want\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Lehmiller, 2018, Tell Me What You Want<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-32-bestiality-fantasies-fantasy-only\">32. Bestiality Fantasies (Fantasy Only)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This one\u2019s especially taboo, and obviously not one that should ever be acted on. But some people do have intrusive sexual thoughts involving animals. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Often, it\u2019s less about actual arousal and more about a sense of domination, otherness, or childhood confusion. If you\u2019ve had a one-off fantasy like this, you\u2019re not broken, but it\u2019s worth exploring <em>why<\/em>, not repressing it. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/obsession\/secrets-about-female-porn\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">45 Dirtiest, Juiciest Facts About Porn Industry That Nobody Tells You About<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-33-necrophilia-kink-sex-with-the-dead\">33. Necrophilia Kink (Sex with the \u201cDead\u201d)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Again, we\u2019re not talking about real corpses, but the fantasy of being motionless, lifeless, or <em>taken while unresponsive<\/em> exists. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some interpret this kink as a cousin of somnophilia or objectification, where the body is entirely submissive. Others imagine themselves as the \u201cdead\u201d one being used. It\u2019s not about death, it\u2019s about <em>control without resistance<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-34-knife-play-blood-kinks\">34. Knife Play \/ Blood Kinks<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s a thin line between danger and arousal, and for some, knife play walks it like a tightrope. Whether it\u2019s the cool blade on the skin, the fear, or the aesthetic of blood, this kink is raw and primal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It requires expert-level trust, communication, and safety planning. For those into it, it\u2019s about being close to the edge, without going over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-35-breeding-kink-impregnation-fantasy\">35. Breeding Kink \/ Impregnation Fantasy<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The breeding kink is all about the idea of being filled, impregnated, or doing the impregnating, with no pullout, no protection, just raw primal sex. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s tied to dominance, risk, fertility, and sometimes a loss of control. Even people with no desire to have kids can still be <em>massively<\/em> turned on by the idea. It\u2019s fantasy, not a parenting plan. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/fantasy\/preggophilia-fetish\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Preggophilia: The Pregnancy Fetish Most Moms-to-Be Have No Idea About<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-36-consensual-non-human-roleplay-pet-play-animal-role-kinks\">36. Consensual Non-Human Roleplay (Pet Play \/ Animal Role Kinks)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This kink includes things like puppy play, pony play, or being treated like a pet. It&#8217;s less about actual animals, and more about power exchange, obedience, or identity. Some like being walked on a leash, others like barking during sex, it\u2019s all about role and submission. And yes, there are literal pony harnesses. Google with caution.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-37-religious-taboos-church-sex-priest-nun-kinks\">37. Religious Taboos (Church Sex, Priest\/Nun Kinks)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Holy fantasies, Batman. There&#8217;s something deeply naughty about mixing sex and religion, whether it&#8217;s being seduced by a \u201cforbidden\u201d figure like a priest, or imagining sacrilegious acts in sacred spaces. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The arousal often comes from guilt, repression, or the thrill of \u201csinning.\u201d If you\u2019ve ever wanted to confess something <em>right after<\/em>, you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-38-public-humiliation-shame-kinks\">38. Public Humiliation \/ Shame Kinks<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting caught, exposed, or degraded in front of others, this kink is about feeling emotionally \u201cseen\u201d in a way that\u2019s intense and sexual. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For some, it\u2019s tied to erotic shame or being punished for desire. It can involve fake crowds, online exposure roleplay, or public scenes in safe spaces. The key is: consent, limits, and aftercare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-39-somnophilia-meets-necro-fantasy-being-used-without-waking-up\">39. Somnophilia Meets Necro-Fantasy (Being Used Without Waking Up)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A combination of sleep-play and death-play, this kink fantasizes about being so used, so limp, and so passive that you\u2019re practically unconscious. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It overlaps with CNC and objectification kinks. Often, the fantasy is about complete surrender or being desired so much, your awareness isn\u2019t even needed. Just a body, just pleasure, just darkness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-40-mental-breakdown-fantasies-being-broken-emotionally\">40. Mental Breakdown Fantasies (Being Broken Emotionally)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is where things get psychological. Some people fantasize about being pushed to tears, \u201cruined,\u201d or mentally destroyed during sex, often paired with sobbing, degradation, or submission. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not about real abuse, but about reaching an emotional edge that feels like erotic release. Definitely not for the faint of heart, and requires deep trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/fantasy\/sexual-fantasies-for-men\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Male Sexual Fantasies: 50 Top Dirty Desires Every Guy Has In Mind<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dark-taboo-faqs-the-questions-you-re-afraid-to-ask\">Dark Taboo FAQs: The Questions You\u2019re Afraid to Ask<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When it comes to taboo fantasies, it\u2019s completely normal to feel confused, guilty, or even disturbed by your own thoughts. That\u2019s the psychological tug-of-war that makes these fantasies both irresistible and terrifying. So let\u2019s answer the questions many people are too scared to Google, no shame, just clarity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-am-i-bad-for-having-these-fantasies\">1. Am I bad for having these fantasies?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Nope. Not at all. Having a taboo fantasy doesn\u2019t make you broken, dangerous, or immoral. According to sex researchers, most people fantasize about things they\u2019d <em>never<\/em> want to experience in real life, because the mind is curious, not criminal. \ud83d\udcda Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/327140003_Tell_Me_What_You_Want\">Lehmiller, 2018, Tell Me What You Want<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-do-i-need-therapy\">2. Do I need therapy?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Not unless it\u2019s affecting your life, mental health, or relationships in negative ways. Fantasies are private and personal. But if a kink causes you distress, shame you can\u2019t shake, or if you\u2019re unsure how to communicate it safely, a sex-positive therapist can be an amazing guide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-does-fantasizing-mean-i-want-it-to-happen\">3. Does fantasizing mean I want it to happen?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Not necessarily. Fantasy allows for total freedom, and that often includes things you\u2019d <em>never<\/em> want to act out. Your brain isn\u2019t signing a contract just because it got turned on by something. Think of it like a movie you enjoy, you\u2019re watching, not living it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-what-if-i-told-someone-and-they-freaked-out\">4. What if I told someone and they freaked out?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, not everyone understands that fantasy \u2260 action. If someone judges you harshly for your inner world, it says more about <em>them<\/em> than you. Try finding people, or partners, who are open-minded, empathetic, and willing to talk honestly about sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fantasies can be windows into the soul, or just hot distractions on a boring Tuesday. Either way, you deserve to explore them safely and without shame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-modern-amp-digital-era-taboos-the-future-of-fantasy-is-here\">Modern &amp; Digital-Era Taboos: The Future of Fantasy Is Here<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Tech hasn\u2019t just changed how we date, it\u2019s changed how we fantasize. From AI chatbots that flirt back to VR sex rooms and deepfake porn, desire is going digital. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And it\u2019s creating a whole new category of kinks that are equal parts thrilling and ethically complicated. Here are the wildest ones rising from your browser history.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-41-ai-lovers-amp-chatbot-romance\">41. AI Lovers &amp; Chatbot Romance<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Apps like Replika and NSFW AIs let people build their perfect partner, and yes, they can talk dirty, roleplay, and flirt for hours. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For some, it&#8217;s about emotional safety: no rejection, no drama. For others, it&#8217;s a cyber substitute when intimacy feels too far away. The line between fantasy and relationship is already blurring, and your AI boyfriend might just outlast the real one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-42-virtual-reality-vr-sex-worlds\">42. Virtual Reality (VR) Sex Worlds<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>VR porn isn\u2019t just watching, it\u2019s <em>being there<\/em>. With haptic toys and immersive sound, users can live out threesomes, alien orgies, or BDSM scenes from a first-person view. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For many, it\u2019s a safe way to try taboo fantasies without real-world risk. Is it cheating if your partner\u2019s fantasy hookup is made of pixels? That\u2019s between you and your settings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-43-deepfake-porn\">43. Deepfake Porn<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Using AI to swap celebrity or personal faces onto porn actors&#8217; bodies is becoming increasingly common, and ethically murky. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While fantasy is personal, deepfakes cross into real-people territory, especially when made without consent. It\u2019s the digital version of a forbidden crush turned problematic. This kink sits right at the intersection of fantasy and violation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-44-sexting-strangers-amp-anonymous-roleplay\">44. Sexting Strangers &amp; Anonymous Roleplay<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sites, forums, and apps now make it easy to sext strangers in real time, no names, no strings, just raw chat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people love the disinhibition, while others use it to safely test out taboo fantasies. The anonymity is part of the turn-on, but it also lets users explore without judgment. Just remember: screenshots exist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-45-erotic-hypnosis-audio\">45. Erotic Hypnosis Audio<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Guided erotic hypnosis, often found on YouTube, Reddit, or kink forums, taps into deep relaxation and mind control kinks. Listeners are led into trance-like states, then given sexy, submissive, or dominant suggestions. For many, it&#8217;s more intense than porn, because it bypasses logic and speaks straight to the subconscious. Bonus: You can do it with your eyes closed. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/passion-pill\/tantric-sexuality-tantra-sexuality\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">How to Have Tantric Sex: A Beginners Guide to Awaken Your Sexuality<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-46-being-watched-online-camming-onlyfans-voyeur-kinks\">46. Being Watched Online (Camming, OnlyFans, Voyeur Kinks)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In the age of live streams and amateur porn, being watched has become a kink of its own. Some users love the thrill of exhibition, showing off for strangers from the safety of their room. Others enjoy the reverse: secretly subscribing to creators or roleplaying voyeur scenarios online. It&#8217;s real-time, consensual fantasy, with likes and tips.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-47-asmr-porn-amp-voice-fetishes\">47. <strong>ASMR Porn &amp; Voice Fetishes<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people don\u2019t need visuals at all, they just need a voice. Erotic ASMR, whisper porn, and dirty audio clips are surging in popularity for those turned on by tone, breath, or dominance in someone&#8217;s voice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s sensual, safe, and totally hands-free. For many, it\u2019s about stimulation without overstimulation, the tease before the touch. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/sizzle\/things-that-make-you-horny\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">25 Things that Make You EXTRA Horny &amp; Red Flags that Make Your Libido Drop!<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-48-digital-bdsm-amp-long-distance-dom-sub-dynamics\">48. Digital BDSM &amp; Long-Distance Dom\/Sub Dynamics<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Apps, texting protocols, and time zone-specific \u201cgood girl\u201d routines, digital BDSM is thriving. Many people are exploring power exchange with partners they\u2019ve never met, through rules, rituals, and remote control toys. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It proves that kink isn\u2019t always about the physical, it\u2019s about psychology, discipline, and power, even through a screen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-49-loyalty-tests-fake-cheating-amp-online-jealousy-kinks\">49. Loyalty Tests, Fake Cheating &amp; Online Jealousy Kinks<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This one\u2019s new and strange: people are now hiring actors on apps or setting up fake \u201cloyalty tests\u201d to see if their partner will cheat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some take it further, creating fake DMs or fantasy scenarios just to get turned on by the betrayal. It\u2019s emotional masochism meets reality TV meets sexual chaos. The danger? Sometimes the kink goes too real. [Read: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/naughty-affairs\/fantasize-about-cheating\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Cheating Fantasy: When It\u2019s Okay to Fantasize About Others &amp; When It\u2019s Not<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-you-re-not-a-freak-you-re-just-fantasizing\">You&#8217;re Not a Freak. You&#8217;re Just Fantasizing.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sexual taboos don\u2019t make you weird, they make you <em>human<\/em>. The mind is a chaotic, curious place, and what turns you on doesn&#8217;t need to be logical, moral, or socially acceptable. It just has to be safe, consensual, and yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether your kink is mild, wild, or \u201cplease don\u2019t tell my therapist,\u201d remember: fantasy is freedom. You&#8217;re allowed to explore the things that make you feel alive, even if they\u2019d get you side-eyed at brunch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So go ahead. Be curious. Be kinky. And close that incognito tab with pride.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sexual taboos and your dark fantasies don\u2019t define your worth, but they do reveal your desire. You\u2019re not alone, you&#8217;re not broken, and you&#8217;re definitely not boring. Explore safely, kink shamelessly, and remember: the hottest thing is knowing yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Think your sexual fantasies are too dark? 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