If you’re a girl who likes living on the fun side of Saturday night, then the early morning walk of shame on a Sunday morning might be all too familiar. Hey, you’ve probably been there often too. What’s life without a bit of wild fun now and then, right? We don’t stay young forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Perhaps, someday you young things will start to get bored of these mindless sexy nights<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But that’s not today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As embarrassing as the walk of shame may be, it’s almost always worth it. Unless you’ve shacked up with a guy who’s so embarrassing that you’d want to get swallowed into oblivion. [Read: The right way to hook up with a guy you like<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n The walk of shame almost always captures attention. Imagine the scene: as joggers and morning walkers fill the streets, there you are in your eye-catching skirt that might feel a bit out of place at this hour, your steps slightly staggered, and mascara perhaps not as perfect as it was the night before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The walk of shame not only draws curious glances but also the stares of women and the less welcome drools and catcalls from men. Indeed, it’s annoying. Yet, it’s only insulting if you allow it to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This heightened awareness often triggers a psychological response known as projection<\/a>. You might start to believe that everyone on the street knows exactly why you\u2019re dressed up at such an early hour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It stems from a common cognitive bias where we assume others share the same knowledge we do, particularly when we’re self-conscious or anxious. [Read: Anxious personality: Reasons to date an anxious person<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Psychologists refer to this as the “spotlight effect<\/a>,” where we overestimate how much our actions and appearance are noticed by others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So while you might feel like your night is written all over your face, in reality, most passersby are likely wrapped up in their own thoughts and routines, paying less attention to you than you might think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The walk of shame doesn\u2019t necessarily need to be a cringe-worthy experience. In fact, you\u2019ve probably managed several walks from someone\u2019s place the next morning, expertly masking the fact that you\u2019re right in the middle of a classic walk of shame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you want to hide the fact that you’re walking back home after shaking the bed with a guy all night, in attire that’s bare minimum and definitely inappropriate for an early morning, just use these easy tips. It’ll make that walk of shame easier to handle, and you’ll feel great about yourself too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As exciting as going home with a perfect stranger may be, avoid it. It’s just not worth the risk. He could turn out to be a serial killer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you have no idea about a guy or if none of your friends know anything about him, completely avoid the idea of letting him take you home, especially if you’ve had one too many shooters at the club.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Expect your friends to do you a favor and hold you back when they think you’re going home with the wrong guy. [Read: 25 friends with benefits rules to remember<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sneaking out in the morning may work in the movies, but it’s not a nice thing to do in real life. Firstly, it makes you feel like a whore working on a timer. Secondly, it makes you feel more insulted and ashamed about the whole one night stand<\/a> thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Wake him up if you’re up early and he seems like a nice guy, or prod him with a stick and tell him you’re leaving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Never rush out early in the morning. It may feel like the right thing to do, but it never is. You may be late for a prior appointment. But spend a few minutes to compose yourself and collect whatever you’ve dropped behind in his place. [Read: Quick & easy morning routines to jumpstart a great day<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you leave in a hurried confusion, you’d be more disoriented than you can imagine. Spending fifteen minutes more in his place is better than walking out like a disheveled prostitute after a busy night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Your basic essentials are like condoms. You may not have sex every night, but you still make sure you carry it, just in case. Just like a condom, there are a few things you need to carry with you to a party, just in case you hook up with a cute guy you fancy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Carry a jacket or a coat, enough money to pay for a cab *plastic is no good here*, a pair of sunglasses and your essential minimal makeup. It’ll make your morning walk of shame easier and well concealed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Apart from carrying a few basic essentials, make sure they are easily accessible. Organize your essentials like your phone, wallet, and keys in a small, light bag that won\u2019t be a hassle to carry. [Read: 27 subtle ways to be more graceful & elegant with your body & behavior<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n This prevents any fumbling around, which can be particularly awkward or frustrating on a walk of shame. It’s all about minimizing stress and maximizing efficiency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is important. I’m not a morning person, but I do have regular morning routines. Don’t be in a hurry to leave. If you think the guy you left in bed is embarrassing, wait till you walk out on a busy street in your worst bed head look. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Always spend a few minutes in the bathroom to clean yourself up for an as-fresh-as-possible morning look. Use your finger to brush your teeth, untangle your hair, splash some water on your face, dab on some makeup and cover up any smudges. You’ll look a lot better when you’re walking down the street.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If the guy seems nice, ask him to drive you home if it’s not an inconvenience. No nice guy will decline it. But if he’s too drunk to remember your name or if he isn’t moving, call a friend who lives close by and ask them to pick you up. You could always make it up to your friend by returning the favor. [Read: How to kiss a friend accidentally and get away with it<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Okay, so you’ve spent the night with a guy. Are you happy about it or are you annoyed with yourself? If you don’t want to see him again or if you want to erase the earlier night from your memory, drop a few hints to let him know about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n No matter how you feel, make sure you tell the guy about it, be it a happy feeling or otherwise. One night stands have a way of making us feel like we have unfinished business.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And if you don’t tell the guy exactly what’s on your mind, you may end up walking down the street with your hands over your face wondering how to get through the whole ordeal. [Read: Is it okay for a drunk girlfriend to kiss another guy?<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n You had sex the earlier night. You go, girl! That’s a great thing you did. You had a wild night and you had fun. There’s nothing to be ashamed of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A walk of shame is shameful only if you feel ashamed about it. Lift your chin up, smile radiantly, and walk down the street with your head held high. [Read: How to look sexy without trying<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you anticipate the morning-after walk of shame, think about packing a portable, versatile outfit that can easily fit into a small bag. Choosing an outfit that\u2019s both comfortable for the evening and appropriate for daylight hours can save you from feeling out of place the next morning. [Read: 44 outfit tips & secrets on what to wear on a first date for girls & guys<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n This doesn\u2019t mean sacrificing your style but rather adapting it to blend seamlessly from night to morning. It\u2019s all about feeling good in what you wear, whenever you wear it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Opting for comfortable footwear can also make your walk of shame significantly more bearable. If you’re heading out for a night that might end in a walk of shame, consider packing a pair of foldable flats or lightweight sneakers that can easily fit into your bag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Wearing heels all night and then trying to walk home in them can be painful and impractical. Switching to comfortable shoes not only eases your walk but also helps you maintain a steady pace and confident posture. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Keeping a small bottle of water with you can be a lifesaver during a walk of shame. Staying hydrated helps you look and feel refreshed, even if you\u2019ve had a long night out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drinking water can also help clear your head, making your journey back home more bearable and helping you maintain a positive attitude throughout the walk. Remember, it’s not just about the walk but how you feel during it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Having a friend you can call during your walk of shame can make a big difference. Whether it’s to chat while you walk or have them ready to pick you up if you feel unsafe, knowing someone is there for you can provide a great sense of comfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\nThe Walk of Shame<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
How to Own the Walk of Shame with Confidence<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. Better Safe Than Sorry<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
2. Don’t Sneak Out in the Morning<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. It’s Okay to be Late<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
4. Carry a Few Basic Essentials<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
5. Keep Your Essentials Handy<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
6. Spend a Few Minutes in the Bathroom<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
7. Call a Cab<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
8. Tell Him Exactly How You Feel<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
9. Don’t be Ashamed<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
10. Plan Your Outfit<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
11. Choose Comfortable Footwear<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
12. Stay Hydrated<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
13. Have a Friend on Standby<\/h3>\n\n\n\n